im scorpio male and lonely

im broken man inside, it my birthday today, and it just hit me that im so lonely. i turned 21 and i dont have much friends that contact me.

I know i havnt put much effort into maintaining relationships, and that you get what you give.

im too secretive and i dont trust anyone.

i need to transform.

im also an only child. i should be used to this, but im just breaking down inside.

aww happy birthday 🙂
dont be so down on yourself. go do something you enjoy.
i am the same way. i think its a scorpio thing, we like to be selective and keep a few close people nearby who understand us.
you are still young and growing. *hugs*

😢 thx for the comments.

im just very jealous of other people that get life so easy. i know i will grow out of this, maybe im just afraid of transformation, and im just in the way of making myself have a happy life?

i know i will always rise out, no matter how hard it takes. .

Hello Scorpio, Happy Birthday!!! Things will get better for you as time progresses... In my secondary chart my Ascendent and Venus, as well as first house has recently moved into Scorpio.. I feel very dark and alone here of late as well. Also distrusting and have no friends...

Things will get better for you as you learn how to deal with you scorpion power and welcome relationships on your terms!!

Cheer up Birthday Boy!!!

My birthday too. What timing! I slept for most of today. It was boring and some cleaning but tomorrow will be celebrating.

21 wasn't a good year for me either. You'll get there. Just keep on keepin' on.

Oh, and study a little feng shui. Not the cheap overly-emphasized 'cures' you'll find all over popular searches. That's the lazy way out. Doesn't work. Study the parts about colors and forms and how they can affect our moods. Our subconscious. You want a no-effort mood boost to hit you every morning? Find something in there that would subconsciously trigger it. Find lot's of things. Or the lack of things (clutter is considered a mood clog). Reminders of events. Colors, shapes, pictures, smells. My favorites have been gemstones, and what they're supposed to represent in metaphysiology. Yours will most likely be something else. We get to be different that way.

Oh! And read this. It sounds all warm and fuzzy. 🙂
http://tlc.howstuffworks.com/family/november-7-birthday-astrology.htm

Enjoy the weekend!

you know what? HAPPY BIRTHDAY, an i mean HAPPY. you know what you should do? say 'fuck it' and go out and do what makes YOU smile. i dont trust ppl either, but i do believe in commonalities and shared interests. go somewhere, ANYWHERE that stirs up a smile in your heart. DO YOU 100% . when you do that, ppl will be drawn to you. forget what anyone has to say if they dont like it. open up a bit and before you know it, you'll be meeting folks and talking. i know it may seem tough, but trust me, it's not. do what you feel, go where you want to go, live how YOU want to live. dont worry about anything, cos its YOUR day.

and if i knew you, id kick it with you for sure. peace and love sir 🙂

Why r scorps usually the only child?

Posted by wantingtoflyyy
im broken man inside, it my birthday today.

Take this bandaid and have a HAPPY Birthday!

Well ,you will always be alone in life. All of us will. So it's not a bad thing to get use to.

@waitingtofly:the thread you have made describes me what i m going through right now.. my birthday was on 4th nov.. and i turned 22 this year and i am in your situation.. so i can understand how you feel...

don't worry everything will be alright.. enjoy you are young as me.. and go out everyday with the spark ,bright,full of energy and have a positive attitude in life.... and above all love yourself..

And before i forget happy belated birthday...!!! 😄