How to totally forget someone?

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RumiLove
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You forget .....by forgetting!

Lol.

No idea. I too think I am crushing on a person whom I didn't even see or talk to since 4 years.. ‚­

I though I was worse for crushing my ex-crush in 3 years. 😐
He did disappear from my mind for almost a year in between though 😐

Actually.. Same. 😐 I was happy about it until suddenly the dream appeared. 😐
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Same same... I was happy that he became respectful memory...until his birthday when my brain took a U-turn IDK why/how 😐
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You forget .....by forgetting!

Lol.

No idea. I too think I am crushing on a person whom I didn't even see or talk to since 4 years.. ‚­

I though I was worse for crushing my ex-crush in 3 years. 😐
He did disappear from my mind for almost a year in between though 😐

Actually.. Same. 😐 I was happy about it until suddenly the dream appeared. 😐
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date me you wont have this problem anymore
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You are not alone...

tell me bro
Trying to forget a girl... Done with all the parties and stuff now am reading some good books and talking to as many people as I can on any random topic.... Trying new dishes.... Increased my intensity of workout.... Basically trying to get her out of my head.. Once and for all...
And one more thing you got to get yourself off that guilt road... And enjoy..
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i had to going to more party, have try to talk to a person randomly, i thinks its the hardest level
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RumiLove
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Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
You forget .....by forgetting!

Lol.

No idea. I too think I am crushing on a person whom I didn't even see or talk to since 4 years.. ‚­

I though I was worse for crushing my ex-crush in 3 years. 😐
He did disappear from my mind for almost a year in between though 😐

Actually.. Same. 😐 I was happy about it until suddenly the dream appeared. 😐
Same same... I was happy that he became respectful memory...until his birthday when my brain took a U-turn IDK why/how 😐

You got me curious if you got affected of your venus in hard aspect with his pluto.. or neptune. 😐 Because I do of squaring his Pluto.. 😐
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Not my Venus..but...a lot of his placements

Let me check and write it down 😐

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RumiLove
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Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by RumiL
You forget .....by forgetting!

Lol.

No idea. I too think I am crushing on a person whom I didn't even see or talk to since 4 years.. ‚­

I though I was worse for crushing my ex-crush in 3 years. 😐
He did disappear from my mind for almost a year in between though 😐

Actually.. Same. 😐 I was happy about it until suddenly the dream appeared. 😐
Same same... I was happy that he became respectful memory...until his birthday when my brain took a U-turn IDK why/how 😐

You got me curious if you got affected of your venus in hard aspect with his pluto.. or neptune. 😐 Because I do of squaring his Pluto.. 😐
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His sun/mercury/venus/Saturn/Neptune/Uranus fall in my 7th house (Cap and my 8th house is also Cap if houses repeating have any astrological validity) ...even his North Node and Lilith... :/
His Pisces moon makes conjunctions or trines with rest of my chart(except sun/venus/neptune/uranus) ..all the water in my chart basically goes crazy.
We both have exact mars/Pluto tight opposition - I am the Pluto here.
His Pluto trines my mars exactly with 2 degrees difference...wait...his moon is quite close to my mars... and maybe it is even closer to mercury..... I should look mine up.

I dont know his birth time exactly...so I guess I should rule out aspects with his moon

What else...hmm. I'm a loser for not forgetting him.
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RumiLove
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You forget .....by forgetting!

Lol.

No idea. I too think I am crushing on a person whom I didn't even see or talk to since 4 years.. ‚­

I though I was worse for crushing my ex-crush in 3 years. 😐
He did disappear from my mind for almost a year in between though 😐

be my wife
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Ahh.. Guess who's back 😄
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Realize that if you don't quit this shit, you will die alone without a woman who can really love you bcuz your so hooked on this ex... while the ex is living their life without a single thought of you.

Stop painting this rose picture, and see them and it for what it is.

Meditate.

And do not compare her with/to other women. All men and women are not the same. It's not fair to that person.
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Hi caps,
i want to forget a girl. these days i forcing myself to go to party to working more, i even installed tinder !
do you have other advice for me, i need to brainwash myself.


Cordially -
The ONLY cure is a new girl. Trust me.

tell me your story
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Many times in my life (I am 49) I had been in love.
Few times to death.
Each time when you feeling like your suffering will never end
it doesn't and changing your life is a bullshit!
You can't change nothing while you are thinking about your
lost love!!! Its there 24/7, unless you are a superman/woman and
can order your heart to stop aching!
But be open to meet other people. It just might be that somewhere
at the place you had never been to or had been at 100 times
there is going to be that girl waiting for you. And your heart will
stop bleeding. Trust me. While you are young - do it.
And make sure it doesn't happen to you when you are married🙂
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Hi caps,
i want to forget a girl. these days i forcing myself to go to party to working more, i even installed tinder !
do you have other advice for me, i need to brainwash myself.


Cordially -
Hmm what happened between you two? Depending on the situation you could journal the things that were great and bad about the relationship. I find having an actual visual helps put things into REAL perspective, instead of the rose colored glasses you saw things in.