caps when they are angry

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by merima on Monday, April 11, 2016 and has 21 replies.

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@RumiL
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They're cute when angry though πŸ˜„

You can help.. Be funny, or silently follow them around :p ...they wont react, if they do they're very telegraphic.

Sometimes they'll share. Depends. On them. On you. On the situation(if they have work or you need to work..they wont bother).

When they share...its a few words..no drama.

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

Posted by Gobshite
You should also be looking at his Mars...

Mars in Scorpio.uh,huh.That means stay still and be quiet,I suppose.I had a lot of experience with persons who just want to be alone when angry..but there's always my need to help them,even when everything signs to leave them for a while,to calm down...

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@merima
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Posted by RumiL
They're cute when angry though πŸ˜„

You can help.. Be funny, or silently follow them around :p ...they wont react, if they do they're very telegraphic.

Sometimes they'll share. Depends. On them. On you. On the situation(if they have work or you need to work..they wont bother).

When they share...its a few words..no drama.

you are right,they are cute...my husband hugged me for half an hour,silently,when he first was angry...it was sooo adorable...he was strong and weak at the same time :-)

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@merima
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Posted by RumiL

Posted by merima

Posted by wagtail
How long have you been married?
Anyway, I would wait- to answer your question πŸ™‚

a year.what's marriage got to do with that?

What's your sign?

My mom cheers up my dad... she's a funny goofy Sag : D

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aqua....I'm too goofy sometimes,and I noticed that chearing up Caps isn't so hard as I first thought..and works,too πŸ˜„

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@RumiL
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Posted by merima

Posted by RumiL
They're cute when angry though πŸ˜„

You can help.. Be funny, or silently follow them around :p ...they wont react, if they do they're very telegraphic.

Sometimes they'll share. Depends. On them. On you. On the situation(if they have work or you need to work..they wont bother).

When they share...its a few words..no drama.

you are right,they are cute...my husband hugged me for half an hour,silently,when he first was angry...it was sooo adorable...he was strong and weak at the same time :-)

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Awww πŸ™‚ he feels close to you..you don't have to worry about how to react with him πŸ™‚

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

Posted by RumiL

Posted by merima

Posted by RumiL
They're cute when angry though πŸ˜„

You can help.. Be funny, or silently follow them around :p ...they wont react, if they do they're very telegraphic.

Sometimes they'll share. Depends. On them. On you. On the situation(if they have work or you need to work..they wont bother).

When they share...its a few words..no drama.

you are right,they are cute...my husband hugged me for half an hour,silently,when he first was angry...it was sooo adorable...he was strong and weak at the same time :-)

Awww πŸ™‚ he feels close to you..you don't have to worry about how to react with him πŸ™‚

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happy,happy,joy,joy πŸ˜† 😎

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@RumiL
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Posted by merima

Posted by RumiL

Posted by merima

Posted by wagtail
How long have you been married?
Anyway, I would wait- to answer your question πŸ™‚

a year.what's marriage got to do with that?

What's your sign?

My mom cheers up my dad... she's a funny goofy Sag : D

aqua....I'm too goofy sometimes,and I noticed that chearing up Caps isn't so hard as I first thought..and works,too πŸ˜„

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πŸ˜„ ..their silent and distant ways are puzzling - should I be funny or should just go or should I just follow them around like a tail ...lol.. But its not hard!
I think leaving them alone will only hurt them...anything works as long as you try! πŸ™‚

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@truecap
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Posted by merima
how to react when a cap is angry,but not at you?to help,or just to wait till the fury goes?

It's not directed at you, so don't fret on it.
Don't comment, just give space and let them stew in it. They'll come back around.
Of course, if you do want to comment, then just validate how they are feeling. You don't have to validate their reason for being angry, just that they have those feelings.

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@merima
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Posted by truecap

Posted by merima
how to react when a cap is angry,but not at you?to help,or just to wait till the fury goes?

It's not directed at you, so don't fret on it.
Don't comment, just give space and let them stew in it. They'll come back around.
Of course, if you do want to comment, then just validate how they are feeling. You don't have to validate their reason for being angry, just that they have those feelings.

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thnx,good to know :-)

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@Greentea
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When I'm mad, my mind starts to race, like I don't need this bull sh!t right now, and want to blow up.

I'd kindly take hugs from people I care about, I wouldn't necessarily ask for it, but I'll take it if offered. It helps.

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

Posted by Greentea
When I'm mad, my mind starts to race, like I don't need this bull sh!t right now, and want to blow up.

I'd kindly take hugs from people I care about, I wouldn't necessarily ask for it, but I'll take it if offered. It helps.

are u a cap?

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@merima
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I asked all this,and thank you for answers,because when my cap is angry at someone,and that someone is often his boss,I feel sad..I want to help,but not to piss him off more..