I Love You

Sooooo normally i dont ASK for advice in here. So heres the deal,We been together awhile. His friends all know me and his family all knows me and they all like me and tell me he always talks about me. He sticks up for me calls everyday, basically we have a good thing... Tonight we had a steamy hot 1 hour make out session and i stopped and looked at him and said "I just wanna say, I love you and you dont HAVE to tell me it back" and he kissed me and caressed me and thannnnn we had sex.. BUT he never did say it back. Is this bad?

No. Maybe it means he is unsure, not ready, fearful...or all of the above. I applaud you for being mature and brave foe being vulnerable. bravo!! You are awesome!

For some those words take alot of time to say,just go with the flow.I'm sure he will say it when he's ready.And you should wait till he's ready,you don't want somebody telling you "I love you" when they don't really mean it.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Tonight we had a steamy hot 1 hour make out session

*shudders*

"I just wanna say, I love you and you dont HAVE to tell me it back" if he's a caps he took that serouisly

Well, i went to his familys house tonight cuz he asked me too since he was there. I made him a present, It was a cross with a locket and on it said "Love you Always and inside his Moms picture. His mom was a Cancer and she passed away and was his best friend, and he got a little teary... and hugged me and said "I Love you too" i said .Oh yea? he smiled and said, i have felt that for a week but was scared to say it back last night cuz i been hurt so much but i know you really love me,..and my family loves you and i do too. (AND I never said anything about him not saying it back i left it alone... 🙂..he told me on his own)

Awww 🙂