I'M HORNY...

I'm a 20 yr. old female cap and I masterbate at least once if not twice a day. It's great for releasing tension, but I need the real thing. I'm not getting any action... I'm single, a virgin, and EXTREMELY picky about my mates.
But I wish I could!! I wish I was able to just go out and get my fling on like most other girls I know, but I can't bring myself to get turned on by guys I don't know that well.
Help! I'm like addicted to porn now, and I'm afraid I'll never stop. I know might sound strange coming from a girl (for you conservatives that don't mind hearing about guys whacking off all day long to porn, but when a woman does it, she's a filthy and disturbed,) but I just can't seem to quit.
And I'm not really all that ashamed about it, either, but I just need to stop. Any suggestions?

...ok, maybe that was a little TMI for this board. You guys seem a little stiff.

That's OK. I can find a therapy group or something somewhere else for my nymphomania, but I guess I'll just have keep it to more tasteful topics for now, lol. (You guys gotta let me know, I'm a neewbie.)

Thanx for the echo, fellow cappies=).

How is being addicted to porn a problem again? (lol, j/k)

I don't think the once-daily masturbation thing is going to kill you. Eventually you'll tire of it and you'll meet a great guy and you'll enjoy the "real" thing. It's probably for the best that you're not out "getting your fling on", because it is obvious you're not ready. And you shouldn't be ready, until you meet that great guy. And the porn obsession thing waxes and wanes--you'll tire of that eventually, too. Not that I know. lol. Just from what I've been told.

But in the end, a perfect sexual life would consist of regular/satisfying intimacy with the man of your dreams, regular/satisfying intimacy with yourself, and lots of porn.

🙂

(can't help it, i'm a scorp)

Thanks again, pheonix...

Hmmmm, I don't know though. Waxes and wanes? I've been doing this since I was 15, lol.

Hopefully, it'll start waning pretty soon, because I go through batteries like water (and they're not all that cheap...)

I think ANY addiction to anything is bad including masturbation. Things have to be done in moderation. Meanwhile, you may want to get busy reading, studying, exercising, and mingling with other like-minded people. Although I do not consider masturbation bad per se, I do see it as another addiction, when done in excess. It's just like sex, too much of which can make a woman sore, dizzy, or plain tired.
I believe capricorn women masturbate, mainly because they do not want to depend on anyone for their own pleasure. They want to be in control even in this very intimate, i.e. a man-woman relationship setting.
So, you probably need to be less in control and more yielding to the right man/relationship, for the long run prospects.

once you find the right sex partner everything will fall into place for awhile. If you are for real about the nymphomania find four or five because no matter what the boyus tell you they can not keep up.

just curious... ah, what kinds of porn do you usually watch?

i WOULD GUESS THE porn on this site would be Usama Bin Laden and the 70 virgin goats.