I'm obsessed with this Cap Woman :

Hey guys. I'm just posting here to vent a little bit and need some piece of advices, please be kind.

I feel a little bit jealous and I do not really want to be that but I am at the moment, the girl I'm speaking with, it is getting more and more serious between us and it is going good, except that some things kills me inside my body. I'm Leo and you could probably guess some of my issues.

I just come from a fucked up background where my point of view of some things, has destroyed me and it has turned me into negative way of thinking, everytime she hangs out with a male friend it just makes me so worried and I don't really wanna be like this... I don't wanna tell her quit hanging out with boys.. but I'm just wondering is there any chance that you cap women are jealous? We are kind of over the dating phase but not 100% official together but it's still "us", we know it we just don't have that stamp yet.

So I'm writing this to just vent a little bit, maybe you guys have some personal advices for me and also how to handle this situation with her.

What makes you guys want someone more?

If someone backs off a little bit does it create attraction?

Biggest question of all, I would like to celebrate new year with her but I don't wanna invite myself 😐

Her info

https://gyazo.com/2b0e6202b69da76ecad71cb8fc4c4f1c

Posted by Neshama

'I'm obsessed with this cap woman'

Honestly i find that so irresistible in a man.

Yours sincerely cap moon girl.

Sorry but was that a negative or positive thing, didn't really get you

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Posted by Neshama

'I'm obsessed with this cap woman'

Honestly i find that so irresistible in a man.

Yours sincerely cap moon girl.

Sure you do, hence why you call every other man you encounter a stalker...

OP, forget it. Obsession isn't the same as love and nor does it guarantee compatibility. If you're still interested, take a step back and screw your head firmly back in place...

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I understand and agree but there is love between us, especially from my side BUT, the moments that she snapchat me like she is with some of her male friends it gives me an indescribable feeling in my stomach... I'm trying to get this feeling away because for example when we hang out it is amazing but it's just these moments when my thoughts start to kick in

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Posted by Neshama

'I'm obsessed with this cap woman'

Honestly i find that so irresistible in a man.

Yours sincerely cap moon girl.

Sure you do, hence why you call every other man you encounter a stalker...

OP, forget it. Obsession isn't the same as love and nor does it guarantee compatibility. If you're still interested, take a step back and screw your head firmly back in place...

I understand and agree but there is love between us, especially from my side BUT, the moments that she snapchat me like she is with some of her male friends it gives me an indescribable feeling in my stomach... I'm trying to get this feeling away because for example when we hang out it is amazing but it's just these moments when my thoughts start to kick in

Dude, fuck social media and focus on what is said and done while in her presence. That's what you need to concentrate most on. Everything else is just noise, especially for someone like you with insecurities...

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Yes, it's so fucking true exactly every single word of what you are saying and belivie me I'm trying to always improove and Im struggling with these thoughts. I really don't wanna feel bad like this and dont wanna loose her, do you guys hangout with the opposite gender even though you are in relationship? im afraid to say that most of my guys I have grew up with have been bad people and in our world it doesn't really exsist that a guy can be just friendly with a girl, it always is somethin extra there and tahts why its hard to get in my head that she is just friend with them

Caps speak devil a.k.a money.

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Posted by Neshama

'I'm obsessed with this cap woman'

Honestly i find that so irresistible in a man.

Yours sincerely cap moon girl.

Sure you do, hence why you call every other man you encounter a stalker...

OP, forget it. Obsession isn't the same as love and nor does it guarantee compatibility. If you're still interested, take a step back and screw your head firmly back in place...

I understand and agree but there is love between us, especially from my side BUT, the moments that she snapchat me like she is with some of her male friends it gives me an indescribable feeling in my stomach... I'm trying to get this feeling away because for example when we hang out it is amazing but it's just these moments when my thoughts start to kick in

Dude, fuck social media and focus on what is said and done while in her presence. That's what you need to concentrate most on. Everything else is just noise, especially for someone like you with insecurities...

Yes, it's so fucking true exactly every single word of what you are saying and belivie me I'm trying to always improove and Im struggling with these thoughts. I really don't wanna feel bad like this and dont wanna loose her, do you guys hangout with the opposite gender even though you are in relationship? im afraid to say that most of my guys I have grew up with have been bad people and in our world it doesn't really exsist that a guy can be just friendly with a girl, it always is somethin extra there and tahts why its hard to get in my head that she is just friend with them

Dude, you have to learnt to trust both the situation and her. It'll never truly get off the ground, if you don't.

And, even if was was interested in someone else, isn't it better to find out ASAP than much later?

I think you need to establish a clear understanding between the two of you. If she doesn't know how much you like her, you'll have to make the leap. Cap women have a habit of acting oblivious to everything around them...

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Yeah, I think she likes me as well but some caps ain't maybe the best one to shower with kind words and these stuff or are they? i've heard some ppl calling them a little bit "cold"?

and yes it is better to find out immediately, and I think we both know we like eachother but for her it is not a problem that she hangs out with her male friends

Try asking her to be your girlfriend. To me, if my status is still 'single', I have the right to hang out with other guys to continue looking for the right one. If I'm 'attached', of course I will stop doing that and just focus on you.

I may think that you are just bored or playing if things are already more than friends and yet you are not taking any further actions.

Posted by CapriWLady

Try asking her to be your girlfriend. To me, if my status is still 'single', I have the right to hang out with other guys to continue looking for the right one. If I'm 'attached', of course I will stop doing that and just focus on you.

I may think that you are just bored or playing if things are already more than friends and yet you are not taking any further actions.

But the thing is; we ain't together but we ain't 100% single either because everytime we meet we kiss and stuff like that, so we are still something? And I have a feeling she won't stop hangout with them because they are just "friends" according to her so even though we are together I think she will hangout with her male freinds

Posted by Neshama

Posted by deepinit

Hey guys. I'm just posting here to vent a little bit and need some piece of advices, please be kind.

I feel a little bit jealous and I do not really want to be that but I am at the moment, the girl I'm speaking with, it is getting more and more serious between us and it is going good, except that some things kills me inside my body. I'm Leo and you could probably guess some of my issues.

I just come from a fucked up background where my point of view of some things, has destroyed me and it has turned me into negative way of thinking, everytime she hangs out with a male friend it just makes me so worried and I don't really wanna be like this... I don't wanna tell her quit hanging out with boys.. but I'm just wondering is there any chance that you cap women are jealous? We are kind of over the dating phase but not 100% official together but it's still "us", we know it we just don't have that stamp yet.

So I'm writing this to just vent a little bit, maybe you guys have some personal advices for me and also how to handle this situation with her.

What makes you guys want someone more?

If someone backs off a little bit does it create attraction?

Biggest question of all, I would like to celebrate new year with her but I don't wanna invite myself 😐

Her info

https://gyazo.com/2b0e6202b69da76ecad71cb8fc4c4f1c

Sorry Deepinit what is YOUR SIGN—

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I'M Leo!

Posted by Neno2

Posted by deepinit

Hey guys. I'm just posting here to vent a little bit and need some piece of advices, please be kind.

I feel a little bit jealous and I do not really want to be that but I am at the moment, the girl I'm speaking with, it is getting more and more serious between us and it is going good, except that some things kills me inside my body. I'm Leo and you could probably guess some of my issues.

I just come from a fucked up background where my point of view of some things, has destroyed me and it has turned me into negative way of thinking, everytime she hangs out with a male friend it just makes me so worried and I don't really wanna be like this... I don't wanna tell her quit hanging out with boys.. but I'm just wondering is there any chance that you cap women are jealous? We are kind of over the dating phase but not 100% official together but it's still "us", we know it we just don't have that stamp yet.

So I'm writing this to just vent a little bit, maybe you guys have some personal advices for me and also how to handle this situation with her.

What makes you guys want someone more?

If someone backs off a little bit does it create attraction?

Biggest question of all, I would like to celebrate new year with her but I don't wanna invite myself 😐

Her info

https://gyazo.com/2b0e6202b69da76ecad71cb8fc4c4f1c

Dont listen to women ever regarding relationship tips,they dont know shit(sorry,uts the truth)observe and conclude things yourself regardless what women say-that was general😃

let her come to u,dont be needy,clingy,give her attention just not too much,be busy with other stuff,when with her be relaxed and dont have great expectations,just be yourself and do what u think is right,shes a cap and she needs time to actually realize she likes someone,spend time with her,do fun stuff but also be unavailable sometimes,basically be her friend without falling in the friendzone.

Dont rush things,if u not ready to be patient i suggest leave immediately

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Yea... I'm definitively not in the freindzone and that's what I'm trying to do, as you mentioned and well said! Some more stuff to know? Do they get bored of someone or loose interest, do they miss people easy, is it good to meet once in a week or, should I open up myself regarding things to her emotional or more like cold but fun guy

Posted by Neshama

Posted by deepinit

Posted by Neshama

Posted by deepinit

Hey guys. I'm just posting here to vent a little bit and need some piece of advices, please be kind.

I feel a little bit jealous and I do not really want to be that but I am at the moment, the girl I'm speaking with, it is getting more and more serious between us and it is going good, except that some things kills me inside my body. I'm Leo and you could probably guess some of my issues.

I just come from a fucked up background where my point of view of some things, has destroyed me and it has turned me into negative way of thinking, everytime she hangs out with a male friend it just makes me so worried and I don't really wanna be like this... I don't wanna tell her quit hanging out with boys.. but I'm just wondering is there any chance that you cap women are jealous? We are kind of over the dating phase but not 100% official together but it's still "us", we know it we just don't have that stamp yet.

So I'm writing this to just vent a little bit, maybe you guys have some personal advices for me and also how to handle this situation with her.

What makes you guys want someone more?

If someone backs off a little bit does it create attraction?

Biggest question of all, I would like to celebrate new year with her but I don't wanna invite myself 😐

Her info

https://gyazo.com/2b0e6202b69da76ecad71cb8fc4c4f1c

Sorry Deepinit what is YOUR SIGN—

I'M Leo!

Oooh lovely I love leos my venus is there good match! You guys DO fall hard! 🙂

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Yes, that's what I have done. I'm not even together with her 100% but I would fucking do almost anything for her, people can get a very special spot in my heart quite fast when I start to like them.

Posted by Neno2

Posted by deepinit

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Posted by deepinit

Hey guys. I'm just posting here to vent a little bit and need some piece of advices, please be kind.

I feel a little bit jealous and I do not really want to be that but I am at the moment, the girl I'm speaking with, it is getting more and more serious between us and it is going good, except that some things kills me inside my body. I'm Leo and you could probably guess some of my issues.

I just come from a fucked up background where my point of view of some things, has destroyed me and it has turned me into negative way of thinking, everytime she hangs out with a male friend it just makes me so worried and I don't really wanna be like this... I don't wanna tell her quit hanging out with boys.. but I'm just wondering is there any chance that you cap women are jealous? We are kind of over the dating phase but not 100% official together but it's still "us", we know it we just don't have that stamp yet.

So I'm writing this to just vent a little bit, maybe you guys have some personal advices for me and also how to handle this situation with her.

What makes you guys want someone more?

If someone backs off a little bit does it create attraction?

Biggest question of all, I would like to celebrate new year with her but I don't wanna invite myself 😐

Her info

https://gyazo.com/2b0e6202b69da76ecad71cb8fc4c4f1c

Dont listen to women ever regarding relationship tips,they dont know shit(sorry,uts the truth)observe and conclude things yourself regardless what women say-that was general😃

let her come to u,dont be needy,clingy,give her attention just not too much,be busy with other stuff,when with her be relaxed and dont have great expectations,just be yourself and do what u think is right,shes a cap and she needs time to actually realize she likes someone,spend time with her,do fun stuff but also be unavailable sometimes,basically be her friend without falling in the friendzone.

Dont rush things,if u not ready to be patient i suggest leave immediately

Yea... I'm definitively not in the freindzone and that's what I'm trying to do, as you mentioned and well said! Some more stuff to know? Do they get bored of someone or loose interest, do they miss people easy, is it good to meet once in a week or, should I open up myself regarding things to her emotional or more like cold but fun guy

Take it slow,see how it goes,try not to overthink,dont be jealous its a big turn off,if u are jealous of her hanging out with other guys dont let her see that,be cool,ultimately u must believe in yourself and the fact that u are awesome so u dont need to worry about some guys who aren't that important to her as u are...

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I love you guys, thanks for the truth and kind words!

I know the exact things to do, it's just different when you self are dealing with it x)

If you or any of my friends would ask, I would've know how to achieve anything lol. but yea it feels better to get it confirmed and hear it from you guys