Should I quit now with this Cap woman? //UPDATE//

Hey there,

I made a post that a week or so ago and where I asked if I should quit with this Cap woman, which you can read if you wish. This is an update to the situation.

While I had some recommendations to quit while I was ahead, I had a few that offered constructive advice on what I should do, which I followed as best as I could understand. We snapchated frequently this week culminating in today where I told her I'd like to take her on a date, to which she replied, "Aww, that's cute *blushy face*". I took that as a good sign and asked her to go on a date with me, which gave the response "I'm not sure". I told her I know when to stop pushing and got an empty snapchat selfie.

I am taking this as a rejection as I know no other way this could be. While it has been fun for me, I start every conversation and it always starts off very cold and distinctly led by me. As such, to me this response means she doesn't want to go on a date with me.

Thank you all for your advice but I think that ship has hit it's iceberg.

-Ownard

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Posted by Ownard
Hey there,

I made a post that a week or so ago and where I asked if I should quit with this Cap woman, which you can read if you wish. This is an update to the situation.

While I had some recommendations to quit while I was ahead, I had a few that offered constructive advice on what I should do, which I followed as best as I could understand. We snapchated frequently this week culminating in today where I told her I'd like to take her on a date, to which she replied, "Aww, that's cute *blushy face*". I took that as a good sign and asked her to go on a date with me, which gave the response "I'm not sure". I told her I know when to stop pushing and got an empty snapchat selfie.

I am taking this as a rejection as I know no other way this could be. While it has been fun for me, I start every conversation and it always starts off very cold and distinctly led by me. As such, to me this response means she doesn't want to go on a date with me.

Thank you all for your advice but I think that ship has hit it's iceberg.

-Ownard

SMH

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Well, at least I now see the light

Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Well, I have few other options. I don't particularly want to get rejected again. What do you suggest I do?

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Well, I have few other options. I don't particularly want to get rejected again. What do you suggest I do?

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I’m not sure could mean...my week is busy etc. Don’t take it as rejection unless she point blank says ‘I don’t want to date you/ see this going anywhere’.

Reach out again. Maybe this time be more, hey I want to take you out to this awesome ‘insert place’...when are free next?

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Well, I have few other options. I don't particularly want to get rejected again. What do you suggest I do?

I’m not sure could mean...my week is busy etc. Don’t take it as rejection unless she point blank says ‘I don’t want to date you/ see this going anywhere’.

Reach out again. Maybe this time be more, hey I want to take you out to this awesome ‘insert place’...when are free next?

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I shall try this one last time. Any time I have invited her just to hangout, I have gotten a flaky answer and when I asked her for that date I got a flaky answer. I'm not expecting much.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Well, I have few other options. I don't particularly want to get rejected again. What do you suggest I do?

I’m not sure could mean...my week is busy etc. Don’t take it as rejection unless she point blank says ‘I don’t want to date you/ see this going anywhere’.

Reach out again. Maybe this time be more, hey I want to take you out to this awesome ‘insert place’...when are free next?

I shall try this one last time. Any time I have invited her just to hangout, I have gotten a flaky answer and when I asked her for that date I got a flaky answer. I'm not expecting much.

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yeah don't... from what you posted that definitely doesn' sound like interest. "awww that's cute"...like wtf ... this is not a sport game for commentary. It's either yes or no... that type of response would be insulting to me. I'd be like I didn't ask you if it's cute or not, I wanted to see if you would go out with me. If not, no problem we can be friends and cool ...

Just looks like she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but I can't imagine any person saying "aww cute" unless they're playing hard to get...

Posted by ValleysofNeptune
I'm not telling you what do but yeah man I would move on. Sounds like she's just letting you down easy which is nice of her. Of course only you know the full situation and how you feel about her so only you can know what to do. I'm just saying in general if I took my shot and it didn't work out I'd move on. At least you gave it a shot

Yeah, I do really like her but I personally would prefer a straight answer.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Cap energy LOVES quitters. Not.

Well, I have few other options. I don't particularly want to get rejected again. What do you suggest I do?

I’m not sure could mean...my week is busy etc. Don’t take it as rejection unless she point blank says ‘I don’t want to date you/ see this going anywhere’.

Reach out again. Maybe this time be more, hey I want to take you out to this awesome ‘insert place’...when are free next?

I shall try this one last time. Any time I have invited her just to hangout, I have gotten a flaky answer and when I asked her for that date I got a flaky answer. I'm not expecting much.

yeah don't... from what you posted that definitely doesn' sound like interest. "awww that's cute"...like wtf ... this is not a sport game for commentary. It's either yes or no... that type of response would be insulting to me. I'd be like I didn't ask you if it's cute or not, I wanted to see if you would go out with me. If not, no problem we can be friends and cool ...

Just looks like she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but I can't imagine any person saying "aww cute" unless they're playing hard to get...

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I see where you're coming from. What I'm confused is that it's hard to tell if she's playing hard to get or she's just being nice

Posted by L-E-N-O
I like kittens advice, I would only accept rejection if it was clear like I'M NOT INTERESTED, I don't believe in letting people down easy when the truth is just much simpler and straightforward. Give it one last shot and be clear. Good luck

You think?

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Posted by L-E-N-O
I like kittens advice, I would only accept rejection if it was clear like I'M NOT INTERESTED, I don't believe in letting people down easy when the truth is just much simpler and straightforward. Give it one last shot and be clear. Good luck

You think?

I do ! Because unless you know the dead set truth you will always wonder and that's shitty

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I see your point. Thanks very much