insight plz caps :)

hello caps. plz help me.i need your insights or opinions. 🙂 last time, im reading post here in dxpnet about caps. especially about the distance thing or disappearing act. theres truth about that "after 2 weeks" caps will contact you aomething like that mentioned in the post.

i want to know what the reason why cap do this with effort to contact you every after 2 weeks. 🙂 btw shes my ex. its almost a year already weve not seen each other, and she dated 3 guys already. and this new one now, i can see shes already happy but i found it weird.

imo, there's usually a good reason why we develop feelings for someone. just because things dont work out and there's a break up doesnt mean you stop being the wonderful person we originally fell for. in my eyes, that person is still worth having in my life as a friend. i will try to keep in touch every so often, but not so often that it seems like i want more than just friendship.

Posted by CreepyPants
imo, there's usually a good reason why we develop feelings for someone. just because things dont work out and there's a break up doesnt mean you stop being the wonderful person we originally fell for. in my eyes, that person is still worth having in my life as a friend. i will try to keep in touch every so often, but not so often that it seems like i want more than just friendship.

thank you. i really need that. i still had feelings for her but i dont want to feed up myself with illusions that theres still something because the way she makes the effort in contacting me and doing the first move. ill keep that in mind. 🙂 thank you again.

Posted by CreepyPants
imo, there's usually a good reason why we develop feelings for someone. just because things dont work out and there's a break up doesnt mean you stop being the wonderful person we originally fell for. in my eyes, that person is still worth having in my life as a friend. i will try to keep in touch every so often, but not so often that it seems like i want more than just friendship.

I agree. If you didn't have good qualities, I wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place. And just because things didn't work out, or the romantic feelings aren't there, or we aren't a good match, doesn't mean I don't value you as a person. If there are no hard feelings and a chance we can be friends, then lets be friends.

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Posted by CreepyPants
imo, there's usually a good reason why we develop feelings for someone. just because things dont work out and there's a break up doesnt mean you stop being the wonderful person we originally fell for. in my eyes, that person is still worth having in my life as a friend. i will try to keep in touch every so often, but not so often that it seems like i want more than just friendship.

thank you. i really need that. i still had feelings for her but i dont want to feed up myself with illusions that theres still something because the way she makes the effort in contacting me and doing the first move. ill keep that in mind. 🙂 thank you again.

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Yeah, don't read into it. Sometimes if one person still has feelings, it's best to pursue the friendship after the other person has moved on.