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Capricorns are supposed to have an acute sense of the ironies and coincidences life has to offer. Well, just when things seemed hopeless and it looked like I was digging a hole and burying my image and I had given up on girls (I'm 17 & never gone on a date, forever boiling inside whenever one of my buddies hugs or kisses his/her gf/bf b/c nobody's ever hugged or kissed me) a 16 year old from a town an hour's drive away (I live in the backwoods of New England) met me and wants to go out with me. She seems like the best thing since sliced bread- she's bringing back the Wonder to my life. However, she's on the insecure side, and I think she's a Cancer (well, more than a bit on the insecure side). Should I meet her again? And, since I've failed in long-distance relationships so far on account of my schedule that only gets busy at the most inconvenient of times, should I agree to go out with her?

Once again I point out the extreme melodrama of highschool life and how there are always a million things to do and I just idle the time away on my butt thinking...

---the ever dramatic Josh---
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🙂 Thats an interesting situation!
Lets see, you have restrictions on your time and are a little skeptical about the "craziness" of this girl and i think you are kind of scared to start any long distance relationship!
I agree ...long distance relationships are scarry....but i think it can get all the more sweeter for the distance!
How did you deduce that this girl is of the crazy kinds—? Thats absolutley amussing! She is 16...probably very nervous about life and relationships in general! So why not give her a break and give yourself a break too! I think you dont have much to loose by going out with this girl!
If nothing else you'll atleast have your very first experience to verify your intutions about girls! 🙂
All the very best.....and dont be soo serious....just relax and enjoy yourself!
Another thing...girls usually like honest guys...so if you are honest about your situation to her i think she will understand! 🙂
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If your girl is a cancer then she will probably be 'planning' for a 'wedding' right then and there. So make her feel secure. lol

You better be serious, honest ( as mentioned in the previous post ), sensitive, and romantic.

As a cancer, she may be moody ( capricious rather ), and may brood over anything and nothing. She may also have to deal with issues of her own, so don't be nervous; listen, and be compassionate.

You may just 'click', so don't waste your time thinking about yourself, but include her, and think 'we' ( at least for the time being ).

Don't come on too strong either, and show your more vulnerable, but firm side.

Did I say 'pamper' her?

Good luck