Is Cap man liar?

My BF is cap...To many things he said to me...but he never do it or put into action..Sometimes, there are situations...he help a lot other people...than to think of me...that i need help also...like i don't want to ask anything from him...coz he just said yes,...but never come true..But i know for sure..if he want to give me something, he just do it without any reason...

Second thing, if he set a date..sometimes he just cancelled..By not answering my call...

Can i ask question to all cap people—?Please answer this..What is your opinion..if my bf setting a date with me...and on that day..he is just not answering my calls or messages..My action would be: First, i will send him a message, i will come over to your flat...if he is not replying..i will really go his flat...The problems is...I don't know, if he is going to open the door for me...either he is not there or he have other plans..or he have other visitor? And what if he had?...I did it once..but he just ignored me, in front of his friends..i feel ashame..going there with out invitation..and it became fight...

I think its extremely rude to make a plan and not carry it through. But when he made the plan was he pushed into it or did he suggest himself? If the latter, then yes I agree its rude to not follow it through..But lets see what the caps take is on this.

If you can't follow it through don't make one. Conviction in what you say. I have caught Cap men out a few times on this and have confronted and received an apology. Now I know how much they dislike being wrong. Its not a case of me being right, just need to prove to them the repurcussions of their actions. Don't make a promise unless you can carry it through.

I don't have a problem if they take the time out to tell me the reason for cancelling (depending on the reason) but to just disappear having arranged, thats outrageous and I wouldn't stand for it.