Is this Cap man interested?

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cancerrose
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So theres a cap guy at my work who I like. He works in a different department/building to mine, but comes into my office 1 or 2 times a week for meetings. I've noticed him for a year, but we've never needed to work together so only see eachother in passing and have only smiled at eachother. Until a few months ago, my friend was talking to him and found out hes originally from my home town and she told him oh rose is from there too! And so when she told me, I plucked up the courage to talk to him when I crossed paths with him again and we got to talking.

Since then, everytime he comes over to our office, he always makes a point to come over to my desk to talk to me (doesn't talk to anyone else) and if I'm talking to someone or on the phone/in a meeting, he will always catch my attention and smile or wave.

Now, I don't know if he's just being friendly because we have something in common, or if he's interested in me. But I really fancy him, I think he's really friendly, cute and sweet. And for the past few weeks I've been hoping for our chit-chats to become something more.

The other day while we were chatting, he said why don't you take my number and we can go for drinks sometime so I did (I think he was a bit nervous when he said it) But he comes across as a very confident guy anyway.
So I messaged him my number so he had it, because I didn't want to be the first one to initiate anything. But I didn't get a reply. A couple of days later he was in our office again, and came over to me and said oh so sorry for not responding I've been so busy, so I said no worries. He went off to a meeting, but on his way back, he came over to my desk and chatted for a bit, apologised again for not contacting me and then carried on making conversation.

I expected for him to have messaged me since then, but he hasn't and its been a few days. What do you guys think? Is he playing games, playing it cool, really busy, or taking it super slow? although it confuses me why he would mention drinks the other day, or even offer out his number

I realise I'm over analysing so early on, but I don't know if maybe I read too much into his actions. Maybe he only sees me as a friend?