Just Wondering.....

I met this cappy gal a couple of years ago when a group of friends got together.

We hit it off pretty well but alas the way she acted sorta of turned me off a bit. Plus I was still hoping that another gal I was after would work out (it didn't).

So in the past two years, I'd see this cappy gal whenever our friends would get together, but otherwise, I didn't make much effort to keep in touch.

Then she disappeared for a while. She went back to school full-time and disappeared off the radar.

However, within the past 6 to 8 months, I ran into her a couple of times unexpectedly. We were talking a bit and we still had some "click". It was after the 2nd time I ran into her, I thought "Maybe I should give her a chance".

So we emailed and talked a few times and I hoped to see her a bit. Alas, she finally finished her schooling but now it was time to "find a job".

Basically, she's locked herself away once again to find a job for herself. I've sort of resigned myself to the fact that I probably won't be seeing her for a while.

Just curious if this is a typically cappy thing (i.e., drive yourself to a goal and stop everything else).

Then also wondering....how would you know if a cappy gal might be interested in you?

Then she disappeared for a while. She went back to school full-time and disappeared off the radar.

Yeppers! I've done that recently actaully. We have a habit of being focus on are goals along with letting everything else go.

LOL, like right now I need to get off-line to finish studying for my Exam.

I will reply to the rest of your message in a bit 🙂