Need help from Capricorn men please! New for me!

Hello! I’m asking for Cap men to please shed some light & some advice. This is the first time I've started anything with a Cap man, so I'm kind of at a loss. I met a Cap on online. I initiated, he responded & he asked for my number right away. He texted right away & on the same day, he called me. We got along swimmingly. He was calling from another part of the state and was there just until 2 days ago. He lives down here in the southern part same city as me, but was up there for work. So our relationship started at a distance. I usually require a face to face within the first week so as not to waste either of our time if we find that we don't have any chemistry. We texted every day for 12 days straight, with him & me calling each other whenever we felt like. We have great chemistry on the phone. The texts soon quickly became sexting & sharing photos, but nothing vulgar or crude…nice, classy & respectable. No faces in photos unless it’s just a headshot. Regardless, probably a bad idea, but we’re both highly attracted to each other & we have so many things in common, so it makes our compatibility that much more conducive to being flirty and comfortable with each other.

On his drive back home, he called me twice during the day on top of a lot of texting and some sexting. This was over a course of 12 hours during the day. But over those 12 great days, he complimented me, told me he liked me, assured me that he wasn’t interested in just sex because he could easily get that from an ex-girlfriend, said I’m intelligent, sweet, playful, caring, etc. He even tested me & sent a text after a week with:
[I love you’] then it truncated, but a minute later, it sent the following
[re personality.] So it first made it look like he was saying “I love you” but then he added “’re personality”. I don’t know what game he was playing. I joked with him and acknowledged that his message got truncated. Then I asked, “Did that on purpose?”
And he replied with, “You tell me.”
?? What was that all about? Would like to know.

Anyway, we texted briefly yesterday because we were supposed to meet this week & said he would call last night. Never did. I got nervous, and a little crazy I admit. I sent about 5 texts before the end of the night. I did call a few times but no answer. We usually called each other whenever we wanted. Looking at my series of texts now, they don’t seem bad since we were crazy texting each other throughout the day for the last week and a half. But now, I feel completely confused and somewhat like the crazy, needy girl. Do I wait for him to respond? Do I assume he just wanted to text/sext/call me because of the novelty of communicating with someone while traveling? He seemed really genuine and we talked about his investments, his family, little cute stories, his animals, his travels, politics…so I thought we were doing okay. Please help!! I’ve never been with a Cap man before.

I wanted to say thank you in advance for any help, advice, suggestions...but my message got cut short.

BTW, I'm Sagittarius, but am trying not to look at all that right now until I know that Cap man and I are progressing.

I agree with Vixen2 (I know this is a cap forum and I cannot speak accurately since I am not a cap male) but he got your texts. I get anxious when I don't hear back due to someone's initial non-stop texting and phone calls. But you will soon find out if he is genuine. Also, he doesn't seem like a typical Cap in a sense that he has been very open and him being clever and texting "I love you." These are not typical Cap traits so he must have a lot other influences in his chart. Usually Cap men are slow and steady when getting to know someone.

So he could be playing you, but time will tell.

I hope you hear back from him and meet 🙂

Thank you. I know that is truly the thing to do, but you get it... we were so smitten for 12 days straight, then he comes back home to our city, and he's short and abrupt. He's a Cap so I know that Caps are super busy, business-minded, always working... but so confusing and frustrating because he said we would talk on the phone, but he didn't even acknowledge. I know they need their space and he may be re-acclimating at home after being gone for a month. I do feel like an idiot for blowing up his phone. I was getting impatient, and my insecurities of course got the best of me. Ugh. Why can't people just acknowledge? It takes a few seconds. Thank you, Vixen2.

Would still love to hear from Cap men out there, though! Need a man's perspective, please...

Takemeaway - Thank you! I just read your message. You were posting the same time I was thanking Vixen2.
Yes, I read a lot about Caps this past week, and mine sure does not sound like the typical one. Although I can see how he can be unemotional. Everything has been light and in a joking manner. But he did indeed discuss personal things...but not necessarily his opinions or feelings on them, just the facts about the situations.

He posted that he was a Pisces on the dating site because he doesn't want to reveal everything about him. So for about 7 days, I read everything about Pisces men. And to be honest, I liked him better when he was a Pisces. Lol. So maybe he has a Pisces influence because he did seem to fall for me quickly, complimenting me, diving into deeper conversation, etc. And he definitely has his fantasies, so I thought he fit the bill perfectly as a Pisces. Then he told me his real birth date. I was somewhat disappointed. haha I think I get along better with Pisces than Capricorn, especially because I tend to have Scorpio influences (cusp).

But thank you. I do hope to hear back from him. I want to meet him. Frustrating to talk for a week and a half straight, with the anticipation of meeting up and dating (he even said he wants to get to know me better), then not have it happen. Crossing my fingers...

bythesea, I got your message but somehow mine are not sending to you.

Caps require alot of attention and validation-it comes from their inecurities about not being good enough. They need their ego's stroked big time-this one sounds like he popped up for just that. I know them well from both sides-getting to know u nd in a relationship with u, or getting something else from you which satisfies their need and will be ruthless in cutting u off.

And their method of thinking in cutting you off will be "well she was stupid enough to get in that deep that quick and we havent even met" they don't do guilt but are masters of giving others the guilt trip also.

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Caps require alot of attention and validation-it comes from their inecurities about not being good enough. They need their ego's stroked big time-this one sounds like he popped up for just that. I know them well from both sides-getting to know u nd in a relationship with u, or getting something else from you which satisfies their need and will be ruthless in cutting u off.

Yes I have to agree - it is true.

Thanks for all your responses! No, I haven't met him yet. We made plans to meet this week. I am going to wait it out for the next few days. Not sure if I will wait for him to reach out or I will (something casual like a "how are you" after 3-4 days). I've read that Caps like to be chased, but then I've read that Caps like to do the chasing. It's so confusing and of course, everyone is so different and unique in their own ways. He is definitely busy, a workaholic, always wheeling and dealing (he's wealthy), have a lot to juggle between all of his endeavors...and so he may truly just be extremely busy and needs time to decompress and not have any distractions. But there is the flip side (cutting me off). I've meditated on it, and my intuition tells me he will reach back out. I think if I felt for a minute that he wasn't genuine or authentic about the things we talked about and what he told me, I wouldn't have continued conversing with him. I would have turned off because I can't stand fake people. But the fact that he seemed interested, said certain things that not a player-type of guy would say or even pretend to be, and said stuff that only sensitive/vulnerable men would say, etc...leads me to think he was genuine. But you ladies may be right...he could be a total arse and just good at acting. Hopefully not. I really took to him.

The other twist is there was an older guy on the same dating site he told me about, a guy who was trying to message me but somehow, his message didn't get to me. He suggested I reach out to him (which I thought was sweet and odd, too), so I did just to say hello and to mention my guy being sweet enough to tell me about him when he didn't have to. The older guy said my guy is a good person but that he (older guy) was jealous because he wanted to date me. Out of respect, he is waiting for my guy and me to go out to see where things go. He checks out, not a catfisher or other phony. And my guy told older guy that things were going great between us and that he couldn't wait to meet me. Older guy told me all this. They are not on it together to play games...they just know each other from the gym and hung out a few times, but of course they learned they were on the same site. I checked it all out through my various avenues and know they are not the same person. Lol. That would be strange, and wrong.

Anyway, with this pseudo-triangle, and my guy telling me he no longer wants me to message older guy made me think that he was jealous as well and wanted me for himself. So that adds more to my confusion as to why he still hasn't reached back out and it's been almost a day and a half since our last exchange.

Here's what I see.

You initiated first contact.
Sexting before meeting.
You sent sexy pictures before meeting.
This ^^ sets you up for him to think of you as a plaything, not to be taken seriously.

So he didn't call - getting home from a trip, probably tired and had things to take care of after being gone. You freaked out, sent not one, but 5 texts. That sounds a little crazy. . If you get crazy over that, you won't accept when he needs space.

Cap men like to work for what they get. They must earn it to appreciate it and respect it. If you make it too easy for them, they will take advantage. You haven't met yet, so when you do make him wait a long time for sex to counteract all the sexy talk. The sexy talk so soon kind of gives him an indication that you'll be easy to get in the sack, so don't be that girl.

Cap men also like confident, independent, self sufficient women. Although they like attention, they don't want to be smothered.

My advice is chill out and stop worrying about someone you've never met. It's been on line and texting only, and honestly that isn't a relationship, so getting upset and worried is only going to give out those icky vibes that make men back away from you.

Don't contact him and wait for him to contact you.

Oh, and for future reference, some words of wisdom- stop sexting with someone you don't know. It tells them you're easily available for sex and the most they will offer you is FWB. (Of course, not always, but in this day and time, it seems to be the norm). Men will take advantage of that.

Men don't deserve sexting and sexy pictures until they've EARNED the right to receive that. When they try, redirect the conversation. Any man worth his salt will respect you for it. Instead of seeing you as a plaything, they will see you as wife material. - unless you just want to be a plaything, then keep on truckin'.

Posted by bythesea
Thank you. I know that is truly the thing to do, but you get it... we were so smitten for 12 days straight, then he comes back home to our city, and he's short and abrupt. He's a Cap so I know that Caps are super busy, business-minded, always working... but so confusing and frustrating because he said we would talk on the phone, but he didn't even acknowledge. I know they need their space and he may be re-acclimating at home after being gone for a month. I do feel like an idiot for blowing up his phone. I was getting impatient, and my insecurities of course got the best of me. Ugh. Why can't people just acknowledge? It takes a few seconds. Thank you, Vixen2.

Would still love to hear from Cap men out there, though! Need a man's perspective, please...

You're expecting too much from someone you've never met. Keep in mind that someone you've never met doesn't really exist until you meet them in person. Having expectations of someone you've never met is a red flag to them.

CHILL.

Posted by bythesea
And to be honest, I liked him better when he was a Pisces. Lol. ..

THIS sounds a little crazy.

A person's personality is not their sun sign.

Posted by bythesea
And to be honest, I liked him better when he was a Pisces. Lol. ..

THIS sounds a little crazy.

A person's personality is not their sun sign.

I was thinking when you get home from a trip, you've got to unload the car, unpack the bags, do the laundry, go through the mail, touch base with your employer, call your family/friends to let them know you got home safely, restock the fridge, get some sleep....stuff like that.

Cap female here. I can see him being tired and exhausted from a trip. I travel for my career at times, and when I get home I usually take a couple days to unwind, unpack and just be in my home taking care of the things I need to do.

Also, Cap males, like the females want someone they can respect in a rrlationship, so I wouldn't be forging into this relationship with expectations that are unclear especially in the getting to know stage. Relax with the sexy pics, dirty talk and borage of texts . If you meet eachother, really get to know eachother, and no sex.

Wait...how long has it been since he went silent??

Yes I think we are curious to hear an update of whether he's reached out. It is definitely a red flag if it's been a couple days and nothing. Not even to tell you he's busy. Especially if you haven't even met so he doesn't know what you look like, how you are in person and the possibility of him being uninterested is still not a reality.

Truecap made some great points.

I think it's funny how the Cap males just lurk in the background when these topics come up.

Good morning, all. First, I want to thank everyone for their thoughtful responses. It has really helped. Doesn't help my still feeling anxious, but that's on me.
Truecap, thank you for providing your feedback and your email. I take all that you've said to heart. I will try to stop worrying (try is the key word), but Cap guy and I really hit it off so it's hard to just let that go. We had chemistry with other things and not just the impending physical part. I don't believe that he would say the sweet things he did if he didn't really mean it. That's my intuition, but I don't know. I don't know Caps so maybe the guys can be big time liars and jerks and say whatever the girl wants to hear. He doesn't strike me that way, though. I can see how he can be in command in any situation, is alpha, and all that...but I can tell in the inflections in his voice when he left me voicemails that he can be tender and childlike. When speaking on the phone, he would even say "okie dokie". Lol. What masculine man would be comfortable saying that to a girl he's trying to impress?! And one time, he mentioned he bought these great smelling candles for his property up north and told me the specific scents. haha Then he caught himself and said that probably sounded gay. It was off the cuff and spontaneous.

Anyway, I digress. I'm just trying to find reasons why I think he wouldn't just leave me high and dry. I will undoubtedly hold off on sex when (IF) we meet in person. I told him in the beginning when he first started to ask for sexy pictures that this is not my norm. That I don't put out on the first date and that I would never send pictures to anyone I hadn't met yet. And I definitely think he is the same way. He was worried about sending pictures of his face at first. And perhaps the distance between us and being very attracted to each other through pictures (faces) and our conversations, it made it exciting and adventurous. I drew the line with him when he asked for other types of pictures, and he respected. And I told him when I meet someone online, I like to meet in person within a week because I don’t like to waste time, and the length of time before we would meet was well over a week, so I think we were trying to keep connected to tide us over to this week.

I do understand Greentea’s comment about being exhausted, and he was gone for a whole month. He drove up north (not fly) and with his dog, so he must have had quite a bit to catch up on, organize, and he runs several businesses. But to Takemeaway’s point, why couldn’t he just have said he was busy and will get back.

To RumiL, the last text from him was two days ago (I know, not long but with where I believe our situation is, it is because we texted/spoke every day) and it was when he said he was at the movies, asked me if we could talk later, and that he was at the theatre (I asked if he was at home watching or at the theatre). I texted him back saying to have fun. Then nothing. Then I sent the five texts that night, which included the sunset pictures, asking if he got them, if he could talk, then one last time saying I was going to try him on the phone again. Nothing. It will be 48 hours this afternoon. It is painful only because we were at it 24/7, then all of a sudden, nothing. I’m an independent, self-sufficient, self-reliant, single mother who knows her place in this world, is comfortable in her own skin and can take care of almost everything and anything. But this is driving me crazy.

To Cheekyfaerie, he did text me very early morning two days ago saying he made it home, but that he passed out and that’s why he didn’t text me back the night he got back. He wanted to meet me the same night he got home, but it was very last minute and I said no, also due to the fact that I had my children. I didn’t want to rush to him, I wanted to plan an evening out.

And for the record, I have never sexted with a man I’ve never met before. This was the exception. I’m quite old-fashioned that way, but for some reason, he got under my skin and he actually told me that I got under his. We just felt a great connection. He had proven to me that he was not catfishing, that he is who he says he is.

So my question is…. Should I send him a voicemail, just being completely authentic and honest and say something to the effect of: would still love to meet you; we got along great; you must be busy but would love to hear how you’re doing; and just so you know, all that sexting between us was a fluke and out of the ordinary and I’m not the type to put out that quickly, want to get to know each other better, etc etc etc

Do y’all think that would be acceptable and non-threatening? Just to be straight and upfront, to remove any questions he has in his head about me perhaps being easy and not wanting to be seen as a FWB?? I’m a Sag so I’m always direct and honest, and from experience, when there were doubts in relationships in the past, I put it all out there very diplomatically and tenderly, and the guy always seem to respond to that. Hence, I’m still friends with the former lovers I want to still be in touch with. Or do I keep waiting?? - which is so hard.
Your opinions, please!!

And thanks again. I love the women on here. Y’all are so thoughtful, to the point, and so nice…not mean at all. :-)

bythesea - I totally understand you lust over this guy and that is not wrong 🙂 You both have good chemistry. I realize no Cap Men have responded on this forum but I suppose at this stage him being a capricorn may not be as much a consideration as him being a GUY.

I've dated and researched cap men my entire life. Yes, they can be busy and ignore you. Yes, they can back away when feelings can get too strong. But considering he was rushing (texting a lot and being lovey-dovey) from the start, something else seems at play here.

The possibilities could be endless why he hasn't texted. But I am curious if he knew you were a mother from the beginning? Perhaps he backed off if this could be a reason. Again, this isn't to make you feel bad or uncertain, just an observation at best.

I would not call him until the weekend comes around. Definitely do not text him again. A call is much more personable and real. When you call just be casual and say something like "I was thinking about you and wondering if you would like to meet up in the next day or two?"

Time will tell what happens.

Haha, yeah where are the Cap males? Lurking is definitely the right word 🙂

Great advice from Truecap. Do not sext or jump into bed with Cap men imo. I did not sleep with mine for months.

Relax and let him come to you, he knows you are interested.

Cheekyfaerie - I said opposite of you regarding the texting and think it might be better to call. But I understand your mindset in getting a response. I also agree for bythesea to now dwell on the sexting 🙂

Posted by bythesea
I told him in the beginning when he first started to ask for sexy pictures that this is not my norm. That I don't put out on the first date and that I would never send pictures to anyone I hadn't met yet.

I am really not trying to be mean, please realize that. But this here, tells him you are capable of not sticking to your boundaries. If what you say were true, then why would you suddenly drop your standards for him? Especially when you don't even know him. It also tells him that you say one thing and do another and would make one question your character.

I know it's easy to get caught up in someone and get all excited about someone, and sometimes we feel this connection that makes us feel like it's okay and won't matter. i'm not judging you or trying to make you feel bad. This is just how capricorns think. We constantly observe people for little indiscrepancies like that, we're constantly looking for signs of character to determine their worthiness.

Keep in mind that as successful as he is, he's probably got women doing anything and everything to get his attention. He's looking for someone who stands apart from the crowd, someone that sticks to their guns (that's sooooo attractive) and someone who isn't afraid to tell him no and put him in his place.

Don't worry about it, what's done is done. If he feels the same connection you do, then it won't matter to him. Only time will tell.

Worst case scenario, you can chalk it up as a learning experience.

Posted by bythesea
To RumiL, the last text from him was two days ago (I know, not long but with where I believe our situation is, it is because we texted/spoke every day) and it was when he said he was at the movies, asked me if we could talk later, and that he was at the theatre (I asked if he was at home watching or at the theatre). I texted him back saying to have fun. Then nothing. Then I sent the five texts that night, which included the sunset pictures, asking if he got them, if he could talk, then one last time saying I was going to try him on the phone again. Nothing. It will be 48 hours this afternoon. It is painful only because we were at it 24/7, then all of a sudden, nothing. I’m an independent, self-sufficient, self-reliant, single mother who knows her place in this world, is comfortable in her own skin and can take care of almost everything and anything. But this is driving me crazy.

To Cheekyfaerie, he did text me very early morning two days ago saying he made it home, but that he passed out and that’s why he didn’t text me back the night he got back. He wanted to meet me the same night he got home, but it was very last minute and I said no, also due to the fact that I had my children. I didn’t want to rush to him, I wanted to plan an evening out.

And for the record, I have never sexted with a man I’ve never met before. This was the exception. I’m quite old-fashioned that way, but for some reason, he got under my skin and he actually told me that I got under his. We just felt a great connection. He had proven to me that he was not catfishing, that he is who he says he is.

So my question is…. Should I send him a voicemail, just being completely authentic and honest and say something to the effect of: would still love to meet you; we got along great; you must be busy but would love to hear how you’re doing; and just so you know, all that sexting between us was a fluke and out of the ordinary and I’m not the type to put out that quickly, want to get to know each other better, etc etc etc

Do y’all think that would be acceptable and non-threatening? Just to be straight and upfront, to remove any questions he has in his head about me perhaps being easy and not wanting to be seen as a FWB?? I’m a Sag so I’m always direct and honest, and from experience, when there were doubts in relationships in the past, I put it all out there very diplomatically and tenderly, and the guy always seem to respond to that. Hence, I’m still friends with the former lovers I want to still be in touch with. Or do I keep waiting?? - which is so hard.
Your opinions, please!!

And thanks again. I love the women on here. Y’all are so thoughtful, to the point, and so nice…not mean at all. :-)

OMG! Please don't chase him.

He probably has plenty of

He probably has plenty of women chasing him. Don't be one of those women. Set yourself beyond the crowd and let HIM chase YOU.

If he's into you, HE will take initiative. Caps are very, very good about making things happen that they want to happen. So if he wants to see you, he will see you.

I repeat, do NOT chase him. Geesh!

To Takemeaway - Yes, he knows I'm a mom. It's on my profile. The older guy who contacted him about me also reminded him that I'm a mom (he was jealous), and my guy knows how old my children are. He even said my kids could go with us to meet casually, as friends. He said if they came, there would be less hand holding between us, which I thought was sweet and thoughtful. But of course, I nixed that idea immediately. I told him no one meets my kids until much later, and even then, the men that come into my life come in as "friends" in my kids' eyes. But these are a few of the things that makes me think he truly does want to get to know me. He still kept talking to me even after I talked about my kids.

To Cheekyfaerie - I didn't address your question earlier regarding his status. He is single. He told me about his ex-girlfriend. We got to that topic because on the second day we talked on the phone, I asked if he's usually monogamous or if he was sport dating. He doesn't sport date, and he doesn't have sex with multiple women. And I can see that, being a conservative, traditional Cap male.

To Sunmoonstars - Really? Months?? But you're a Sag! :-) And so am I. I can hold out for about a month, maybe a month and a half, but though I'm traditional, I think I'm too sexual/sensual of a person to wait for many months. But props to you! :-) I will definitely try to hold out at least for 6 weeks or so if/when we finally meet.

To Truecap – I do agree that I did not stick to my boundaries this time. But sometimes in life, you have to be flexible and in this instance, it was the excitement and taking risks (Sag in me). Our first phone conversation was about his dog and business, then we got comfortable sharing more. I firmly believe that just because there is one instance where you change one thing for someone doesn’t mean that your entire character says that you can’t stick to your guns. He and I spoke/texted multiple times during the day for 12 days, so he got to know me, and he knows I have standards. It wasn’t just all there for the taking. We were having fun, but at the same time, he talked about wanting to get to know me better even before we became intimate. Perhaps he did question in his mind if I would sleep with him immediately (be easy) and that might have been a turn-off, but I think my overall character stood out for him. He complimented me on my intelligence, sweetness, playfulness, caring attitude and how he loved my overall personality. I don’t think a guy who just wanted sex would say all that. I know unfortunately because I’ve met many schmucks who just wanted sex.

To Truecap cont'd - I do like your comment about being someone who stands apart from the crowd because yes, he probably has women all over him. He is definitely very handsome, fit and athletic, and wealthy. I didn’t look for the wealthy…that is just what I attracted. He’s very charming and likable. Ugh… now I’m wondering how many women I have to compete with. Ugh, this is becoming more depressing.

I don’t know what I’m going to do yet. I usually am good about waiting…for about a week, but like Cheekyfaerie, I have some Scorpio in me (in addition to my Sag nature) and I do take initiative. And I agree that people stay true to themselves so at some point, if I don’t hear from him, I will probably leave him a voicemail and say my peace. I’m very good about how I express myself on voicemails (or even emails) so that it comes across as non-threatening and not making the guy feel he was wrong for doing what he did (which I find is what a lot of women do when they have been jilted). At this point, I just want to meet him. I don’t even know if I care if we progress, but we shared so much, and I’m all about making personal connections and nurturing friendships/relationships. It hurts my heart when I’ve had a special connection with anyone and not have them be a friend in some capacity. I offered to connect him with some of my business contacts for his new product, so if anything, I guess I can always talk about sending him those names… to stay connected. But of course, underneath, the truth right now anyway is I want more than just to be a friend with him. Ugh. I hate feeling helpless. But I’m keeping myself busy and trying not to think of him too much.

I like Cheekyfaerie’s comment about getting the balance of power back. It’s definitely what I need to feel right now. I don’t like feeling this way. We’ll see where things go. Like most of you said, it could be one of a million reasons why he hasn’t reached back out. He might be overwhelmed, he might have family issues, etc. Wish me luck, ladies.

Takemeaway - tried sending you a private message, but it wouldn't let me...

Posted by bythesea
Takemeaway - tried sending you a private message, but it wouldn't let me...

Oh Strange! Let me see if it's anything on my end. It should work

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Caps require alot of attention and validation-it comes from their inecurities about not being good enough. They need their ego's stroked big time-this one sounds like he popped up for just that. I know them well from both sides-getting to know u nd in a relationship with u, or getting something else from you which satisfies their need and will be ruthless in cutting u off.

Nailed it. Selfish and lopsided relationships. Really only fit for submissive givers of the zodiac- i.e. Cancer. Otherwise, get ready for mixed message city. Do as I say, not as I do...

Takemeaway - Hi! When I sent, it said user disable private messaging. I got your message so you can still send to me, but I can't to you. Go to your settings, manage and choose the option that allows all users to private message you. Let me know when you've done that and I'll resend my message. Thank you. :-)

To underwaterthing - yes, maybe so, but I won't know for sure until we actually start dating. I just want a chance to get to know him. Everyone is different and he definitely has other influences (like Pisces) because I see the sensitive and fantasy loving side of him. But I get what you're saying. I'm a fire sign and this may be the reason why I've never dated a Cap before. I usually have to be with someone who is very confident, knows where he stands, takes initiative, can lead but is also sensitive, emotional and kind. I've read in many places that Cap males can be very mean and unemotional. Hopefully, not this one. Thanks for your feedback, though. Any input is useful to help me understand Caps more.

Ah, I see. My account can now receive your message.

Thanks, doll (takemeaway)! I will resend. :-)

Posted by bythesea
Thanks, doll (takemeaway)! I will resend. :-)

If you have any issues -- you can update me. Should be fine now

I discovered nude pics of the 21 yr old in his mob before i broke up with him. She was his puppet and I believe still is. She buys him eveyrthing, pays for trips to see her parents and he returns that by cheating on her oppressing her-shes not allowed to go out without him/she must dress v conservatively etcThey maybe playing a 2 way game. I hope shes gettin hers though, im not much of a feminist but this man pushes me closer to being one.

Capricorn men are very intelligent, patient and caution. They do require a lot of validation. Although they have insecurities at times they are very confident individuals. You cannot come off as clingy or impatient to a man you hardly even know. That will raise his alarm and he won’t take you serious at all. A capricorn man need their space sometimes. He must know your able to handle that!!! He could already have someone also if he’s not available when you call him. Take it slow with him if you really like him. If he already have a woman he more than likely won’t tell you until your have fallen for him so be careful. You need to pay attention to the sign and trust your instinct. Don’t call him back and I guarantee you he will call you. I use to panic also so don’t do it.

I agree with the person who said Capricorn men don’t really expose their feelings too early. I knew my Capricorn friend love me because I felt it in my soul. We spent a lot of long hours talking on the phone and texting before we became intimate just like you two. The difference is he was pursuing me and we didn’t meet on a dating site. After we started having sex the conversation got more intense. He never once said he love me i just felt it. After he seen I was really sincerely in love with him and a good person that’s when he started expressing himself verbally. It took a while for him to tell me he love me. Maybe because we was only friends with benefits. But he always wanted me to expose how I felt about him. I knew he love me but it took a lot of validation, from me for him to open up. I don’t think no adults can have strong feelings for each other without knowing the person. Especially a cautious Cap man. I would not call him. Cap men remeber everything so he didn’t just forget about you. If you insist on calling him wait for 4 or 5 days. Then when u call just act causual. Don’t mention nothing to him about why he didn’t contact you. You need to act like nothing never happen.