Need info on cappies. Help please.

Well, just trying to understand a new friend who is a cappy girl.

Why are cappies described as so unemotional,unromantic, cold and unsympathetic (sorry, that's not my opinion!) in so many astrology sites and books ?

Is it true and is it true for all ?

And how compatible are they with cancer or leo?
Can any cappy please explain in detail?

"unemotional,unromantic, cold and unsympathetic"

unemotional : not outwardly, but inwardly... Yes.
unromantic : HA! not at all... im pretty sure we're all at least closet romantics if not demonstratively and publicly romantic.
cold : personally... the aloof appearance is a side affect of keeping myself in check. there's sooooooooo much more to us than appearances. we're the epic novel full of life and emotion bound by the simplest and most discreet cover.
unsympathetic : depends on the situation. for those i care for... i'm endlessly understanding. for those i dont care for (those who wont try)... meh, i dont waste my time giving a care one way or another.

Personally... i get along well... very well with the cancers and leos that i've met. leo men moreso then leo women

" not outwardly, but inwardly... Yes."

that came out wrong 😛... we are inwardly very emotional.

You are right, mahvesafar. We are described that way in many astrology books. The thing is that we may come across as all of the above to those that don't know us. We are selective and cautious with those who we choose to make our friends and partners...but those who "pass the test" for lack of a better phrase, in return get a loyal, reliable, trustworthy friend and companion. The reason it takes awhile for some to see our true nature is because we give so much of ourselves in friendships and relationships that we don't just let anyone in our circle. On the outside we keep a tough demeanor, but on the inside we are water...true to our emotional nature and if someone who we deem part of our "circle" breaks that by betraying us, we can carry that pain and burden around for a looong time, sometimes forever. It hurts deeply. To the outside world, we have to remain strong which some may misinterpret as aloofness, cold, and/or unemotional.

Personally, I've never been with a cancer or a leo...couldn't help you there. Hope this has helped somewhat.

Thank you all : Creepypants, shortyrock ,lonelycapricorn and anoosh.

Your replies really helped. You confirmed exactly what I had thought myself. Basically, mostly all humans are good and emotional inwardly and have similar aspirations and longings. Only exteriors can vary a lot depending on a lot of factors.