confusedaries7513
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need opinions, should i ask a capricorn man out for coffee?
Hey there Aries. We cap men are real slow at times to fully opening up so we definitely take our time when we think we have someone interested in us. He seems pretty quiet around you because he could very well like you . I think that's a cap trait when it comes to someone I like I tend to be shy and quiet and just observe. But definitely ask him to grab a hot one with you it'll be worth seeing for you to put your mind at ease if he is possibly interested. Good Luck , you're Aries anyhow so your brave in any pursuit. -Capricorn male
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cappies suck you have to play hard to get ?
cappies suck you have to play hard to get ?
Posted by Capzstill on holiday?Posted by startwarsyou were on holiday ?
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see?
take notes ?
take notes ?
hmm idk i guess it depends on maybe his venus and moon. and maybe ascendant.
but this cap i work with...he's super flirty in general (has a sagittarius moon and venus and libra mars). but he also has a cap rising so he's a bit of an awkward shy guy at the same time....it's an interesting mix.
but flat out one day i was like "let's get food after work" and he was kind of like "tonight?" i'm like "yeah i suppose that would qualify as being after work." he kinda laughed, and then another of my friends came. so i made it like a mini group gathering. which i think he also enjoyed because his venus is in the 11th (moon is in his 10th).
from then on at work he would say things like "i'm pretty hungry" and i'd say "you are huh. so am i actually" & he'd be super awkward and pause and then add "maybe we can go to culvers after work" and i just said "maybe we can" 😄
cute. but then this other girl got involved and told me he wasn't interested in me and blah blah blah. and i need to get over him because he's younger than me. then ever since she did that, she started flirting with him. she's a capricorn too. and honestly i figured out she had manipulated me, but i didn't even feel like taking the time of day to earn him back or tell him what she said to me. i just avoided the drama completely. so my advice only goes this far lol. i'm still friends with him though! but i don't do competition and catty women games. i just don't have the time for all that.
i say you just ask him. that's what i did! depending on his moon and venus he may like that.
but this cap i work with...he's super flirty in general (has a sagittarius moon and venus and libra mars). but he also has a cap rising so he's a bit of an awkward shy guy at the same time....it's an interesting mix.
but flat out one day i was like "let's get food after work" and he was kind of like "tonight?" i'm like "yeah i suppose that would qualify as being after work." he kinda laughed, and then another of my friends came. so i made it like a mini group gathering. which i think he also enjoyed because his venus is in the 11th (moon is in his 10th).
from then on at work he would say things like "i'm pretty hungry" and i'd say "you are huh. so am i actually" & he'd be super awkward and pause and then add "maybe we can go to culvers after work" and i just said "maybe we can" 😄
cute. but then this other girl got involved and told me he wasn't interested in me and blah blah blah. and i need to get over him because he's younger than me. then ever since she did that, she started flirting with him. she's a capricorn too. and honestly i figured out she had manipulated me, but i didn't even feel like taking the time of day to earn him back or tell him what she said to me. i just avoided the drama completely. so my advice only goes this far lol. i'm still friends with him though! but i don't do competition and catty women games. i just don't have the time for all that.
i say you just ask him. that's what i did! depending on his moon and venus he may like that.
Posted by CapzI came to grace y'all dxpers with my presence be grateful ?Posted by startwarsso go out lamePosted by Capzstill on holiday?Posted by startwarsyou were on holiday ?
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Posted by BellNeavis22i understand that, that it's better to take it slow and i wanted to take it slow too. but i only had class with him in the lab for only 4 weeks and i dont get to see him anywhere anymore (and yeah, i still think about it). I told him i would come visit them in the lab though ( because he is still studying there ) but when i went to visit, he wasnt in the lab that day and that just got me more upset lol.
Hey there Aries. We cap men are real slow at times to fully opening up so we definitely take our time when we think we have someone interested in us. He seems pretty quiet around you because he could very well like you . I think that's a cap trait when it comes to someone I like I tend to be shy and quiet and just observe. But definitely ask him to grab a hot one with you it'll be worth seeing for you to put your mind at ease if he is possibly interested. Good Luck , you're Aries anyhow so your brave in any pursuit. -Capricorn male
he hasn't initiated anything. i thought if he was interested that he would be comfortable in messaging me on facebook but he hasn't done anything 😢
do you still think i should ask him for coffee ?
Posted by startwarsbut how do i play hard to get when i dont even get too see him anywhere anymore 😢
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cappies suck you have to play hard to get ?
Posted by degenerate_ingenueah i see! well his moon is in aquarius like mine, his mercury and venus are in capricorn ( he has a alot of capricorn in his chart ) do you think it's better if i just dont do anything? and let it go?
hmm idk i guess it depends on maybe his venus and moon. and maybe ascendant.
but this cap i work with...he's super flirty in general (has a sagittarius moon and venus and libra mars). but he also has a cap rising so he's a bit of an awkward shy guy at the same time....it's an interesting mix.
but flat out one day i was like "let's get food after work" and he was kind of like "tonight?" i'm like "yeah i suppose that would qualify as being after work." he kinda laughed, and then another of my friends came. so i made it like a mini group gathering. which i think he also enjoyed because his venus is in the 11th (moon is in his 10th).
from then on at work he would say things like "i'm pretty hungry" and i'd say "you are huh. so am i actually" & he'd be super awkward and pause and then add "maybe we can go to culvers after work" and i just said "maybe we can" 😄
cute. but then this other girl got involved and told me he wasn't interested in me and blah blah blah. and i need to get over him because he's younger than me. then ever since she did that, she started flirting with him. she's a capricorn too. and honestly i figured out she had manipulated me, but i didn't even feel like taking the time of day to earn him back or tell him what she said to me. i just avoided the drama completely. so my advice only goes this far lol. i'm still friends with him though! but i don't do competition and catty women games. i just don't have the time for all that.
i say you just ask him. that's what i did! depending on his moon and venus he may like that.
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.
Posted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.
Posted by cowpuncherwhat if he doesnt respond well?Posted by pinkbird03Do it. Ask him out for coffee, don't pile a bunch of pressure on yourself either. Just have some coffee, enjoy one another's company with some good conversation...(you've got a built-in great topic of conversation too thanks to his trip to Italy).
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.
Just try it and see what happens. Can't hurt. This goat would respond well to it. *shrug*
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Posted by confusedaries7513Understandable. Just keep talking to him. Get to know him. See if it goes anywhere. Have a lot of patience. They move soo slow. Like 6 months to a year slowPosted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.click to expand
Posted by confusedaries7513Which guy refuses a coffee when asked out by a beautiful girl? ☺ Be brave and just do it.Posted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.click to expand
Posted by Capricorn91i have done it before once, about a year ago with a different guy, and i got rejected and it hurt me a lot lol. i'm too emotional.Posted by confusedaries7513Which guy refuses a coffee when asked out by a beautiful girl? ☺ Be brave and just do it.Posted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.click to expand
he has a lot of capricorn placements in his chart, im just wondering if these guys like the chase or not
Posted by confusedaries7513You are thinking too much. Yes we do like the chase and we also like chasing. We want it from both ends. It is just about who initiates it. Just go for it if you want it. Be a go getter. Don't be afraid it will only hinder your progress. Take the leap of faith ☺.Posted by Capricorn91i have done it before once, about a year ago with a different guy, and i got rejected and it hurt me a lot lol. i'm too emotional.Posted by confusedaries7513Which guy refuses a coffee when asked out by a beautiful girl? ☺ Be brave and just do it.Posted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.
he has a lot of capricorn placements in his chart, im just wondering if these guys like the chase or not
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Posted by confusedaries7513Don't listen to her. She had seen men in magazines only!Posted by startwarsbut how do i play hard to get when i dont even get too see him anywhere anymore 😢
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cappies suck you have to play hard to get ?click to expand
Just do whatever you want. Outcome will be what God has in storage for you!
If you are crazy - be crazy! Shy - be crazy anyway...lol
My Cap bedded me in a first night and married me in 6 months.
Good luck but I wouldn't recommend a Cap!
Posted by Gemitatithere is an opportunity that he might not know im single thats why he hasnt done anythingPosted by confusedaries7513Don't listen to her. She had seen men in magazines only!Posted by startwarsbut how do i play hard to get when i dont even get too see him anywhere anymore 😢
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cappies suck you have to play hard to get ?
Just do whatever you want. Outcome will be what God has in storage for you!
If you are crazy - be crazy! Shy - be crazy anyway...lol
My Cap bedded me in a first night and married me in 6 months.
Good luck but I wouldn't recommend a Cap!click to expand
Posted by DistilledI absolutely agree. I will just do my own thing for now. and i wont initiate anything. Ever since he has came back from italy he hasn't been posting stuff at all but nonetheless i will make sure to not like anything else he posts. i thought about for a long time last night, there are definitely some clear signs that he has feelings but he has not acted on them. so i'm not gonna ask him for coffee.Posted by confusedaries7513If you feel like it's gonna be likely (listen to your gut for the reasons why- your fear of rejection, or him realistically saying no, and differentiate the two).Posted by pinkbird03but if i get rejected, which would be likely, that will hurt my already low self confidence 😢
Just ask him out. You have nothing to lose. Some caps like it when a girl makes the first move.
After you have thought on this Id give it some time because that way you will truly know.
Also I would lay back on liking his stuff so that you can have a better outlook on what he's doing towards you without your energy initiating it.
Cap men as everyone has said do move slow- but you can bet that if you're on his radar, every thing you do is being watched. I'd just chill and focus on being yourself, a confidant self cuz they love that in a woman too. But real confidence, which includes being authentic.
They seem to be be picky in the sense of they know what they want. Also a sign is they will go out of their way for you. Even if for something small- they literally will go out of their way to do something for you- this is big because they can say no and even cut off an idea very easily.
Hope you find what you're seeking.
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thank you for your advice 🙂 definitely made things a lot clearer for me
dayum. idk youre an aries girl.... as a CAP i have bad luck with aries lol....
dont rush.... wait until he messages you!
dont rush.... wait until he messages you!
Posted by mer-eye-uhhaha oh no :"( I have two very good Capricorn friends though 🙂 cause i have a lot of air and water in my chart too. so we get along perfectly fine
dayum. idk youre an aries girl.... as a CAP i have bad luck with aries lol....
dont rush.... wait until he messages you!
yeah my aries guy and i got along well in the beginning too lol... it always starts like that... just be safe girl.... and dont chase after him..." leave out the cheese and let the little mouse come and eat it"... get me?
not in a gross way... its actually said in spanish but my spelling in spanish is horrible lol
not in a gross way... its actually said in spanish but my spelling in spanish is horrible lol
Posted by mer-eye-uhahaha omg yes will do 😄 i wont do anything
yeah my aries guy and i got along well in the beginning too lol... it always starts like that... just be safe girl.... and dont chase after him..." leave out the cheese and let the little mouse come and eat it"... get me?
not in a gross way... its actually said in spanish but my spelling in spanish is horrible lol
good luck and keep us updated
Posted by mer-eye-uhthank you nothing's gonna happen though :"")
good luck and keep us updated
I went to see my friend in class today and he was there so i ran into him. this time he kept maintaining eye contact with me but still talked in a low tone voice (unlike his usual tone which is really loud lol)
unfortunately the conversation wasnt that interesting and lasted for like 3 minutes cause i had to leave :/
unfortunately the conversation wasnt that interesting and lasted for like 3 minutes cause i had to leave :/
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