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Hi I am an Aquarian but I have a question about my Capi husband. We been married going on 4 years, however, we been seperated for 2,,he lives far from me and I only seen him 2xs sonce he left and it was for him to visit our daughter. ok,our daughter is not the topic he is., he left due to our differences-which I was unaware of the problems he felt was so serious, like he said we argued too much,,well anyways,,a month before left, he declared how much he loved me,,4 months later, ( after he left) he said he dont love me anymore, a year after that which was last year he admitted he cared for me, and loves me but not like he used to. I am so hurt of course, yet I am confused. He wants us to be friends, I am doing my best, I havent pryed him with getting back together, and he has admitted he blocked his feelings for me, saying he dont want to repeat history, yes I had depression probelms, I was pregnant right into the marriage, and suffered post partum, which he left me when our daughter was 14 months old ( alot of his problems he claimed was when I was hormonal& pregnant!), I was still suffering somewhat, anyways, he talks to me almost daily, not only about our daughter who is 3 now, but about his day my day and such, anyways, I know deep down he loves me but keeps it buried, and will not engage in any personal conversation with me, but why,,I know theres pain there but is this how capi men react? is there a way to help him out of this barrier he created between us? HE is very passionate and yet sooo stronge minded. MY next issue is, after all this, he paid for us to come see him, since he works and cant get time off- but he only really wants to see his daughter, which I am gratful for, I am to spend almost 2 weeks with this man,he lives with his mother at the moment, and I am going to be around him and his family, knowing he wants a divorce and yet I inside so much want to break down and cry..I dont know if I can handle this. but this is for my daughter, I question whether seeing me again and being around me will settle his heart or is like a Capi man to once he buries his feelings,they are gone forever..Im so confused I wont know how to act around him, like I dont know him anymore. and yet he expects me to be on friend terms,,to be around this man that I used to freely show my love for and affection and be happy around. Is this how capi men are when they come into a situation thats not all peaches and cream? how do I deal with this man? I dont want to make things worse yet I long for my husband back, I know its a dream far from reality. can anyone help me understand the concepts and brainwaves a capi man thinks on? How do I manage with how he is?
Sorry to bruden this board with this, any advice or opinnions are helpful

Ladybug