Oh them Cap males..

Profile picture of SB8681
SB8681
@SB8681
12 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 2
I've been friends with this Cap male for 7 years now, and he has openly flirted with me over that time period but I was married. Well fast forward to this year, i finally opened up and said I was interested in him too, and this flirting had to stop if it wasn't going to go anywhere. He seemed surprised I was interested at all. I am separated now from my husband, living elsewhere.

He's a cap/aqua cusp with a venus in aquarius and i'm a leo with venus virgo. I know I have to take my time and be super patient with this man, as he is not one to jump into things, and he is notoriously busy.

Do leo's & caps work out?

I got hurt by a crazy Cap before so, I am afraid to fall in love with this one.
Profile picture of truecap
truecap
@truecap
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Caps and Leos can work. They have a lot of goals in common.

For me, it is difficult with Leos though. I don't have the energy to stroke the ego or give the reassurance they need. Leos need a lot of undivided attention and my attention is pulled in so many different ways, mostly my career. So, if you are a Leo that doesn't need constant attention, perhaps it could work.

What did he say when you told him you were interested? How long have you been separated?

Another thing to consider is you are separated from your husband and from the cap's point of view, it is risky to get involved with you right now. One - the chance you could work it out with him. Two - the scandal, gossip and speculation. Three - you might have unresolved feelings like anger or affection that may interfere. Four - (don't take this as offensive) you might be just looking for a rebound relationship to feed your ego (even though we don't think so at the time, this does happen). Five - you might need to go through a "party" stage and enjoy your freedom for a little while.

Research says it takes one month for every year of a relationship to completely get over that relationship.

I just threw out some thoughts for you to consider. Not accusing you of anything and I'm not trying to be negative. Caps are just very realistic.

Why don't you give it more time.