Caps decide very, very, very slowly. He won't "talk about" what he wants unless he has determined this with absolute certainty and can itemize such in precise detail by order of importance. Even if he has this list finalized, you'll probably never get him to share it with you. If he were to tell you what he wants, it would enable you to sculpt yourself to fit his mold. You, like all the sags I've known, have this innate sense of urgency and preoccupation with time and deadlines about you. Caps have an...uncommon...relationship with time. And virtually infinite patience. Take Tiki's advice and find something, anything, else to divert your attention for a while. If he decides to come around, he'll come around in his own time. There's nothing you can do to hasten this process and you have nothing to gain by obsessing over it but increased heartache and aggravation for yourself.
