Ok, I wasnt expecting or hoping for this but..

My cappy ex and I are officially friends with benefits from today on..

The last few weeks have been very *interesting* for me, Ive been partying, getting drunk a lot, meeting and picking up girls (nothing serious though, just one-night stands) Ive been feeling great, enjoying my new single life to the fullest. A few days ago I was chatting through facebook with cappy ex and she wanted to know what I was up to (she had "smelled" I was talking to other girls, etc) so I just told her what I'd been doing lately since we've always told each other pretty much everything. She kind of took it the wrong way, thinking I was trying to make her jealous, we went out today for some shopping and she told me that. This offended me even more since she knows Im not that kind of guy, after some good convo everything was fine again..maybe TOO fine, we went to my place, started making out at some point and ended up sleeping together...

Needless to say none of us were planning this, we just told each other afterwards we could no longer deny the intense physical attraction we still have for each other. We both said to one another: "This is SO NOT ME" lol, but it felt good and that was what mattered. So after a long chat we decided to continue as FWB, where the Friends part is the most important one (we're still each others best friends)

I know how fucked up this whole thing may sound to some of you, but I have no regrets.

G.L.

Posted by DeadRingerr
That shit always happens when you break up with someone, you dont want them anymore but you still dont want them to move on either...weird, it passes...

Too true. Just makes a break up more messy in the long run but can give closure.

Be careful Shaks. I'm not 100percent sure, but If she feels you were trying to make her jealous, there's a possibility she's being arrogant and a bit delusional to the fact that you are moving on. In her mind its probably like "that's not possible and it will never be" as if you will never be able to get over her. You didn't help your case by sleeping with her either. She's still attached and seems to still be territorial. It wouldn't be bad to let her know that either yall are going to be together or not, no inbetween. It won't help you or her in the longrun, I don't think. It could very well just pass, just make sure you are still doing you in the process.

I'll get back to you girls later, I'd like to clarify a few things 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

My cappy ex and I are officially friends with benefits from today on..

The last few weeks have been very *interesting* for me, Ive been partying, getting drunk a lot, meeting and picking up girls (nothing serious though, just one-night stands) Ive been feeling great, enjoying my new single life to the fullest. A few days ago I was chatting through facebook with cappy ex and she wanted to know what I was up to (she had "smelled" I was talking to other girls, etc) so I just told her what I'd been doing lately since we've always told each other pretty much everything. She kind of took it the wrong way, thinking I was trying to make her jealous, we went out today for some shopping and she told me that. This offended me even more since she knows Im not that kind of guy, after some good convo everything was fine again..maybe TOO fine, we went to my place, started making out at some point and ended up sleeping together...

Needless to say none of us were planning this, we just told each other afterwards we could no longer deny the intense physical attraction we still have for each other. We both said to one another: "This is SO NOT ME" lol, but it felt good and that was what mattered. So after a long chat we decided to continue as FWB, where the Friends part is the most important one (we're still each others best friends)

I know how fucked up this whole thing may sound to some of you, but I have no regrets.

It's ok with you now because you're still in love with her. Oh my ... but if you are confortable with it, then continue until you find someone else. But I do understand why you're put off by it. More than likely she doesn't want you sleeping with other women. When you find some else, just stop answering her calls and move on to something better