OMG HE IS BACK!!!

So it has been a few months since the cap I was seeing disapeared on me,stopped texting me as often as used to and then didn't respond to my last message about offering to see him, so I figured he wasn't interesting in me any more and we didn't talk for about 2-3 months.
So a few days ago I got a message from him , saying he keeps thinking about me and he stepped back because didn't want to mess my life up.
I am puzzled!!!!
Any comments on this?

PS I REALLY like him 🙂 .....

Giirrrlll...he wants some booty.

mess up your life? If he seriously liked you would he disappear that way? It's his way of saying ur his b***...i can come back to her whenever I want...she cant resist me. Get some woman power up in this joint...tell him straight up. You werent sitting around waiting for him so he can move along...or where u?

Yep, he wants some. I had a Cap female do me he same way, while she was dating someone else. I'm not that type of man

ewwww...@ purple balls hahaha

I'm having the same issue been a few months and I refuse to lose face with him. I feel if he waited 2-3 months to not bother messaging u and made a crap reason that he didn't want to mess up Ur life then he is not worthy of your time and respect. I think when u feel like that u just dun feel in the mood to be with a man like that. As mUch as you might like or luv him, make him pay.... Big time.
Tell him straight up... Eeeehhh wrong answer. Try again...
He'd be wondering "what the?"

I just can't believe men d o this in there fifties !!! I would more expect it from a younger ones...

What was his issue that he "would have messed up your life"? Make him explain it. Make him face his actions. Then, blow him off and make him face his consequences.

In my opinion and experience if a man truly cares about you in the slightest he doesn't check out sight unseen for 2-3 months and then pop back into your life with some BS about having left it in the first place because he didn't want to mess it up. Really? Like disappearing for months on end without a peep isn't doing exactly what he claims he did not want to do to begin with?

Your Cap knew exactly what he did and is apparently attempting to do yet again. Doesn't matter if its about "the booty", some ego stroking or a combination of both. What matters is what you will allow. After such cavalier treatment of you, your feelings and your valuable time I wonder what it is you REALLY like about a grown man (yes, he should have some sense and maturity at 50 but there you have it)that clearly doesn't love himself. If he did, he would have sought to come back into your life with a man's explanation and bona fide action to back it up so that you would have no need to ask anyone's opinion because you would KNOW his sincerity without question. JMO

Well I do have something going on in life at the moment he possibly thinks could mess up, I guess...
Still think nothing should be a reason for one to disappear without saying something.
I really do think caps are different somehow LOL

Whether the explanation he gave me or he actually was seeing someone while wasn't in touch, it looks to me like I will never know the truth, even if I ask him.
Well, I am quite surprised, I've known him for years and I always thought he was serious man that wouldn't play games.

Hahaha. This guy wants some ass. I've had this happen to me several times with Cap guys. They disappear without much word, but TADA, they show up randomly pretending to want to fix the situation when all they want is some ass.

Hell, I had this happen with a LIBRA man as well. I think it's just the stupid guys generally.

Disappear without so much as a word to why/weirdo behavior in disappearing, then suddenly reappearing and wanting to be "friends" again = wants some ass.

rocky I couldn't agree more

You definitely deserve better! We are only treated as we allow others to treat us, so Don't Allow It!

Yup, I know. You are so right!

Give him a teddy bear with a fleshlight sticking out of its ear. Caps like kinky crap like that.

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Give him a teddy bear with a fleshlight sticking out of its ear. Caps like kinky crap like that.

Hahahahahahaha!!!!

How about you just dont respond period..Thats the language he speaks so I am sure he will understand..

^ agreed. Not responding or acknowledging such bs works wonders.

Maybe the chick he found when yall was apart didn't work out and he feels lonely so he came back to you. Don't act available or he may consider you his "Back-up Plan" forever.

Maybe the chick he found when yall was apart didn't work out and he feels lonely so he came back to you. Don't act available or he may consider you his "Back-up Plan" forever.

Maybe the chick he found when yall was apart didn't work out and he feels lonely so he came back to you. Don't act available or he may consider you his "Back-up Plan" forever.

Seems like a trend. Ole hot man Cap came back into the picture a few hrs ago... Well, we dated, things dwindled, months later I see him at the grocery store n ignore him, 2 weeks later he texts me trying to b on my good side... Ha. Can u say delete?

Ugh, sry for all the hidden posts. Lame, I know. Boohoo.

Anyway, Its called common courtesy, he obvs doesn't care about u if he kept u guessing where the eff he went. He shoulda been a man a simple "yo sag I ain't feelin it" woulda sufficed but no, he took the cowardly way out n just dropped u without explanation!

Dont give mofos like that the time of day. Find yourself a man who respects you n ur time in the full sense of the word!

Hmmmph! Trust me, I really liked my cap at first too, I mean we spoke about purchasing a HOME together... but girl I LOVE MYSELF even more n know I deserve better n so do you! Good luck hun.