oooooo Evan .... (Page 2)

EVAN! You have gone already——

I often wonder about this actually ...

You know, the fact that he is so much older than me ... I'm not unsettled about it but I know and understand that there are differences in the way we think. I've dated guys older than me before but this one seems to have the most 'fatherly' like qualities and its like I'm drawn to it :O

Even if I didn't like him in a romantic sense, I would still be drawn to him, does that make sense?

hahahahahaha - maybe you should wipe off the use of 'fatherly' --- just think of it as exchange of the minds... like when I watch my 2yr old niece, I actually just listen and not think her age, she's so smart 😕

turst me 20yrs older is nothing to me now and think nothing of it - that's all I have around me due to work.

you always learn, just be open to the new unchartered waters... trust me even if it doesn't last, you'll gain some valuable insight about relationships and none of them younger lads can pull the wool easily on you again 😛 one can only hope !

lol, who ever said he was 20 years older than me Zena 😉

What are you on about 😛

doesn't matter the age difference 😛

ok draw the line at 40 yrs difference - then he could really be your granddaddy - just no - eeek

ok draw the line at 40 yrs difference - then he could really be your granddaddy - just no - eeek

HAHAHAHAHA!!!

Well, I guess you are right. Plus, I thought the guy was in his thirties for crying out loud, he's very fit I tell you. Solid also, like feel him you see and he is very like, I don't know, he's strong.

so you sat on the 10" then? 😕
and it was strong - damn girl!!!

I will have to get rid of this soon lol. I've gotten too personal 😄 My moon can't handle this lol

so you sat on the 10" then?
and it was strong - damn girl!!!

ZENA!!!! LOL!!!! Actually, its funny you said that. We went out Saturday and he let me feel it .... yeah, it seemed to be as solid as he was HAHAHAHA.

He said, "OMG" and he said, "You'll be a perfect, you'll see".

So yeah, I kinda lost it right there ...

you had an orgasm while you were outside just by touching it a lil?!

ok I didn't see that coming 😕

Wow 15 + years older is ........older.

hahahahahaha SB 😄

ok, you've just been elevated to new heights in my fictional book Cappie

hahahahaha xun, you've obviously been with the CappieSweetie's sagas longer than I have... but at least I thought they'll get a room 😛

you had an orgasm while you were outside just by touching it a lil?!

Actually, you know ... its hard to describe but something did occur at the resturant. LOL, held me why we were eating and he put his hand near my outer thigh towards my hip. hahaha, it was harmless but that particular area drives me crazy but he didn't know that 😛

HUH! WAIT!!!

hahaha, no I didn't "go" right there Zena LOL!!!! no no no no girlie 😄

it drives ME crazy just thinking it but that's another matter...

so what happened? *wipes drool*

"ok I didn't see that coming " I did.

SB!!!!!!!! Darn you 😛

Well, you are like my cyber bff so you know all my stuff LOL! I can't pull anything on you 😉

Yeah, Xun knows LOL!

it drives ME crazy just thinking it but that's another matter...

so what happened? *wipes drool*

LOL! I can't say now lol! I'm still trying to piece somethings together really. He officially said that I was his girlfriend and I was like "Whoa" and he was like "Yes you are, don't play dumb, you knew this was coming"

LOL!

What do you guys talk about?

Everytyhing really 🙂 Lots of things, ambitions, worldy stuff. I tell him many story about myself and he opens up to me about things too. Our ups and downs, you know, things like that.

see, you gotta love older guys - none of that 'he loves me, he loves not crap' straight to the point

ok, you've just been elevated to new heights in my fictional book Cappie

fictional book—? LOL!!!!!

most guys I know love to talk if they're comfortable, if they think you're not gonna give them anything logical back or anything just as filty, they clam up...

hey Cappie, keep us posted 😛 lucky b*

see, you gotta love older guys - none of that 'he loves me, he loves not crap' straight to the point

Yes, he very straight to the point, which is somewhat intimidating ... he's intense along with being passionate.

I'm suppose to meet his mother this weekend ...

Older guys, esp. guys who are 40+ love to talk. Period.

Yes 🙂

He has a deep voice too and usually those scare me LOL. But his is ... I don't know, soothing 🙂

jeez, what do you think of the mother thing?

No problem Zena, we have to see how long this will last. This may be too much for me to get into lol

jeez, what do you think of the mother thing?

I don't know ... her birthday is this Saturday. I'm a bit unprepared for it really. I'm like, "Oh shit, your mom!" I didn't tell him that, but yeah.

At first, I tried to get out of it and he was like, "This is important to me and you are telling me you don't want to go -- how dare you ..."

ooooooooOOOoo yeah, so I switched and said yes lol

lol @ soothing voice...

seems a bit much with the parent angle for me too but you never know...

is he after marriage? this guy I met recently that was nearly 40 told me he wanted marriage and kids before 2 yrs.... I said, good luck and bolted 😉

Its like ... I wonder what she will think of me ..., you know? Plus, there will be other family members their too :O

Yeah, I feel the heat ...

But older guys talk ALOT more

ok for you, but not from my experience

well, it will depend on how often he takes anyone he's seeing back home? and what he introduces you as 😕

is he after marriage? this guy I met recently that was nearly 40 told me he wanted marriage and kids before 2 yrs.... I said, good luck and bolted

HAHAHAHA, I feel like bolting too 😛 😉 But I'm not sure if I want too. Its just all this strong-emotional, passionate, "You are mine" stuff frightens a girl like me.

I says I'm "Born to run" 😉 But I'm not going anywhere this time. He says he will have to put in extra time to keep my feet planted firmly on the ground haha

oh dear ...

well I would be frightened too but then will plot other uses for the 10" and plan the exit route 😛

I give back something logical all the time. They still talk. But older guys talk ALOT more. Like "when will he shut up" sort of more.

Yeah, we have talked all night on some occasions LOL. I tell him I'm tired and he's like blah blah blah hahaha, and he calls me the motor mouth LOL!

Yet he says he wants me to get my "rest" yeah right! lol

HAHAHAHAAHA @ Zena 😆!!!

I'm just scared and I don't know how to tell him without giving him the wrong impression. We can usually talk about anything but, yeah ...

Where did Xun go 😢

No Zena either ...

Okay, cappy will go too 🙂

I'm here

OH! There you are ^_^.

Yeah, my manager is having some trouble so I will have to leave soon but I will be back. I have more to tell and more questions.

Also, I completely lost all touch of reality and I did something that was probably not proper ... besides feelings his .... stuff. I did something else too lol

I did something else too lol

New thread when you get back please 😉 so it's easy to find

Okay Zena 😄!!

YOU GAVE HIM HEADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD :o

NO EVAN!!!! LOL

15 years difference is a lot if you are serious. if it's not gonna last yeah who cares about the age difference.

(haha i'm the party pooper :/. but someone got to do it )

the main reason i hesitate with mr.scorp is the fact that he is 9 years older. it's not the maturity or mental/intellecture compatibility i have problem with (well we cappies are ahead of our years if i'm allowed to be less modest), it's the physical wellbeing, health and life span i'm considering when evaluting a potential partner-for-life. i take commitment very seriously so i take my time to think everything through before i commit.

See ... thats another element to this madness ... his health .... BUT, I don't want to talk about it. No, I can't. I'm way too emotional right now. Don't get me wrong, he is fine now ... but he has been through some things ...

Like you Sagi, I've taken care of someone very close to me that was sick -- my daddy 🙂 After he passed away, I learned alot, quite a bit about many things actually. I learned quite a bit while taking care of him too.

My mom and I both were the main ones who took care of him, I was so young at the time, there were many things I did know how to do but I tried -- I didn't have a choice really because when I got home from school, I had to make sure he was okay because my mom didn't get off from work until close to midnight.

so the question is do you want to be a widow of 20 years or even longer when you are old, lonley and sick—

anywayz maybe i think too much but i can't help it.

Trust me, I thought about that ... lol, really in the scheme of things, when I'm in my 40s he will be well past retirement age, way past it, yep yep yep. Yes, I thought about that, especially when he started talking about longterm stuff.

Well ... yes I do 🙂

You see, my father was 23 years older than my mother ... but she didn't know it until he got sick you see 😉 He kept it from her because he didn't want her to look at his age. She was in her twenties when she met him too ...

*hugs* sweetie.

*Hugs right back*

I told my mom about him recently (I felt it was only right sense I will be seeing his mom). She is stunned because she says, "I'm walking in her footsteps".

She not too happy about that because she remember her relationship with my father -- they got along terribly. OMG, arguements all the time and all sorts of fighting and so on. It was hard to sleep at night because they will start from like 1pm and not stop until like 6am in the morning, I kid you not -- they would go to bed arguing.

hahaha, my mom would sleep in my room, which would suck because I would get no sleep whats so ever. All that yelling eeekkkk!!!

So yeah Sagitgoat, I understand.

your father must looked very young then if your mom didn't even know he was that much older...

It was the way he kept himself up, I found out my father tricks because he told me nearly everything lol. Part of it was the fact that he didn't have any gray hair until he was in his 60s.

God, you guys sure think ahead.

🙂 @ SB

See, its the same with the guy I'm with now. I didn't know how old he was until I ... asked. I think he was about 38 but NOOOOO lol. He has gray hair, but people in the twenties have that.