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Pisces ... Why Are They So Quick To Anger—
Why Are Pisces So Quick to Anger
Pisces tend to get angry quickly when they feel misunderstood or overwhelmed. Their emotions can be intense, and if they hold feelings inside without expressing them, anger can surface unexpectedly. Open communication helps prevent sudden outbursts and fosters better understanding between Pisces and others.
Posted by KingPisces
^You should've posted this on our forum.
Hahaha, you know I should've but I didn't really think about until it was too late. So its here now lol
And what do you mean I don't cut you slack—? Lol *rolls eyes*
That's funny because it takes A LOT to make me get really angry. Most of my friends joke that they can't even imagine me angry...lol. I do know that Pisces do hold things back though b/c we tend to hate any kind of confrontation. I know I do. I can usually let things go or as they say "I let things roll off my back" pretty easily. I tend to be one of those people that really try and see both sides of the coin and I think that really contributes to my not getting angry very often.
I can tell you that I have had some weird miscommunication with a couple Capricorn males so maybe we have difficulties understanding one another sometimes.
Glad you vented cappysweetie b/c I think that helps a lot! Hope it all works out between the two of you!
Posted by Stpatrickspisces
That's funny because it takes A LOT to make me get really angry. Most of my friends joke that they can't even imagine me angry...lol. I do know that Pisces do hold things back though b/c we tend to hate any kind of confrontation. I know I do. I can usually let things go or as they say "I let things roll off my back" pretty easily. I tend to be one of those people that really try and see both sides of the coin and I think that really contributes to my not getting angry very often.
I can tell you that I have had some weird miscommunication with a couple Capricorn males so maybe we have difficulties understanding one another sometimes.Glad you vented cappysweetie b/c I think that helps a lot! Hope it all works out between the two of you!
Well, I'm dealing w/ a double pisces woman here (pisces sun/ pisces moon) and another pisces sun (don't know his moon).
Its like OMG, tell me what the deal is, please don't wait for me to figure it out b/c ..... :/ I mean, can put things up but if I've been annoyed, I'm distracted.
The double pisces is a whammie lol, I am not a mind reader, please don't look at me as such. Just b/c I can pick up on a few things doesn't mean I can do it w/ everything lol.
Than you STpp 🙂 its just nerve_wrecking for this Aqua mooner right here.
Posted by FeistyAquarian
I know the EXACT way to piss my sister off hehe Except now I'm a grown-up and I try not to 😛I just make fun of her douchie Cap boyfriend!!
ahaha
I have a huge Aqua-ism in my chart so maybe that's my problem xD!!! I think I said once that I can upset someone by just setting in the same room as they are. OMG! How—?
Posted by KingPisces
^You should've posted this on our forum.Hahaha, you know I should've but I didn't really think about until it was too late. So its here now lol
And what do you mean I don't cut you slack—? Lol *rolls eyes*
'cause your pride and prejudice against us Lunar Caps hurts me deep inside 😢
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And that's exactly what I mean about you lunar caps, drama drama dram xD!!!
*giggles* its true 😉 oh my gosh .......
Don't know about quick to anger... sounds more like holding a grudge. Something I don't think we tend to do... let bygones be bygones! Takes too much energy to dwell on crap from he past, if it wasn't addressed/dealt with then, why bother. Water under the bridge...
Posted by KingPisces
^You should've posted this on our forum.Hahaha, you know I should've but I didn't really think about until it was too late. So its here now lol
And what do you mean I don't cut you slack—? Lol *rolls eyes*
'cause your pride and prejudice against us Lunar Caps hurts me deep inside 😢
And that's exactly what I mean about you lunar caps, drama drama dram xD!!!
*giggles* its true 😉 oh my gosh .......
Haha, I kid and you know that.
It's actually what's keeping all my emotions at bay. Otherwise I'd be a whiny baby like your Pisces....
Which Decan is he btw?
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Well, the woman involved is a 1st decan Pisces and the guy is a 2nd decan.
Posted by lildol
Don't know about quick to anger... sounds more like holding a grudge. Something I don't think we tend to do... let bygones be bygones! Takes too much energy to dwell on crap from he past, if it wasn't addressed/dealt with then, why bother. Water under the bridge...
Yeah, I'm not the one to be very *grudge hearted* towards anyone -- HOWEVER, if I know someone has caused me trouble in the past and it's something that was unresolved, I usually don't want to have anything to do with that person or those people.
However, that's just me. Just cause we are cool again after a conflict doesn't mean we're going out for tea like we use to.
Posted by seavixen2
I have a lightening quick temper cuz i do hold onto shit for a long time..then I just kinda explode. It's sucky always trying to maintain a peaceful type demeanor when you are seething.
See! hahaha xD That's exactly how she is. See, when I'm upset or pissed, I usually don't let anyone know until the time is right -- I'm not into putting people on blast, because if it's done to me .. hell have no fury ... But that's just my own personal pet peeve ^_^. If you have something personal/ important to say, you know when the time is right and when the time is wrong. People shouldn't play stupid, they are aware of what they are doing.
Anyway, maybe I'm at fault with some of this today too because this is me. If you wait to tell me something that's been bothering you and it's been too long for it to even matter, I tend to disregard. Yeah, sure maybe that's wrong but it's like OMG, why in the hell did you wait this long. You has lots of time to say what's been bugging you and now you want to say —?
Yeah, I tend to do that ^_^. Simply because I have no patience for those that just can't "spit it out". It's like you want to be upset with me so I'll let you continue being upset with me just because you waited this long -- so I don't want to hear it.
Posted by FeistyAquarian
Yeah, I'm SOOOOO glad my Moon is Sagittarius and not Capricorn 😛 😛 But it's close! Mine's Sagittarius in 24 degrees....that's too close!!
Whatever lol
Posted by FeistyAquarian
http://www.alwaysastrology.com/sagittarius-moon.html
Doesn't it sound fun—
And is my moon really a cusp moon? I don't know if I have figured that one out yet! It's 24 degrees, I believe.
I'll check when I get home. If you moon is not on the cusp then your moon is 3rd decan Sag.
Posted by FeistyAquarian
http://www.alwaysastrology.com/capricorn-moon.html
*yawn* I fell asleep halfway through reading this....
hehe I'm just kidding 😛
😛!!!!!
I like that website. Some of their dates are a bit off but whatever.
Posted by TG
I??ll give my 2 cents even if I haven't read the entire thread. Pisces aren't quick to anger imo. They suck it up much more then other signs, but the problem is that because they do that, sometimes their agression comes out for nonunderstandable reasons. Like for example, if you go out with a pisces friend and you meet some guys, and one of the guys goives you attention, right, the pisces will be all sweet and whatever. Then you tell them can you borrow me some money - then they??ll get all angry and make a sceane about how you always borrow money from them and bla bla bla, when infact they're just mad cuz no guy payed them any attention. That's another thing with pisces you see, they're crazy for opposite sex- attention (something that we caps are not) and hence, they can't stand that anyone gets the slightest bit attention except from them.
ooh ok, you made some really good points here. Good insight. And you are right about opposite sex attention when it comes to Pisces and Capricorns -- they care more than we do.
My Mars and Venus will keep me single I think xD!
Right now, I can't imagine walking down the aisle, I would so be the runaway bride.
Yeah, I realized that a couple of months ago, that maybe it's for the best. And (contrary to popular belief) this has nothing to do with sex.
I've had some faulty relationships and I don't want to keep falling for the same kind of guy that I really don't like once I start getting use to him LOL, you know—?
@CappySweetz
Seems like you've been focusing on the wrong traits. Perhaps it's time to re-evaluate your wants and needs and scope your inner self. You seem like a great person to be around with. I know it's over the net but you're very open-minded and don't seem to play games.
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Seriously, you're right and that's what I've been doing. Actually, one of my friends actually asked what it is that I really want. And I was honest with the answer, "I have no idea" and I don't know 🙂 Games is stupid and not a good way to interact with people -- period (Thank goodness, I have a capricorn sun).
And thanks for the compliment 🙂 That's why I made a cautious choice to be single and until really "Get it". Some of the things I've experienced with guys should have never happened and I know that but like I said, I need to figure out what I want in a guy.
I got myself figured out pretty well, I know me. However, its the type of mate that I need to balance me is the question now.
Posted by cappysweetie
@CappySweetz
Seems like you've been focusing on the wrong traits. Perhaps it's time to re-evaluate your wants and needs and scope your inner self. You seem like a great person to be around with. I know it's over the net but you're very open-minded and don't seem to play games......
Seriously, you're right and that's what I've been doing. Actually, one of my friends actually asked what it is that I really want. And I was honest with the answer, "I have no idea" and I don't know 🙂 Games is stupid and not a good way to interact with people -- period (Thank goodness, I have a capricorn sun).
And thanks for the compliment 🙂 That's why I made a cautious choice to be single and until really "Get it". Some of the things I've experienced with guys should have never happened and I know that but like I said, I need to figure out what I want in a guy.
I got myself figured out pretty well, I know me. However, its the type of mate that I need to balance me is the question now.
Yeah, I cracked down your personality type and definition in seconds. I don't know if it's a Pisces thing or what not but I can usually read off people and tell what they're like without even interacting.
Your reason for staying single are similar to mine. I also decided to stay single for a year in order to develop internally. That time is up now, I'm open to dating someone but I'm not actively looking. A transition ground/period is always good I guess. Don't feel like jumping straight into the pool without feeling the water first.
And I know exactly what kind of guy you want.
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—? You mean to tell me that you have me all figured out 😉 Most people think they do lol
^^^^^^ You better watch it.
I've been known to destroy the ones that get to know me ^_^. It's for their own good really, I would've want them to live with the images I have in my head LOL!!!!!
Yes Peri, I will have to kill you. You may know to much.
xD!!!!! LOL
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^^^ You better watch it.I've been known to destroy the ones that get to know me ^_^. It's for their own good really, I would've want them to live with the images I have in my head LOL!!!!!
Yes Peri, I will have to kill you. You may know to much.
xD!!!!! LOL
Pftttt...You Cappies always try to fend off and appear soft. Yet you're all soft like marshmallows on the inside. And roasted marshmallows are so good....I'm almost 1/2 fire and 1/3 water.
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Whatevs 😉 *Brings out the bat*
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^^^ You better watch it.I've been known to destroy the ones that get to know me ^_^. It's for their own good really, I would've want them to live with the images I have in my head LOL!!!!!
Yes Peri, I will have to kill you. You may know to much.
xD!!!!! LOL
Pftttt...You Cappies always try to fend off and appear soft. Yet you're all soft like marshmallows on the inside. And roasted marshmallows are so good....I'm almost 1/2 fire and 1/3 water.
I don't know what it is but I looooooooooooooooooooooove Caps! My bff is one (though she's on the Aqua cusp, so that might help) and I miss her face. Plus, she just had a baby and I'm excited as shit to meet him 😄 But she is very soft on the inside once you break the facade lol
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Forget you Feist! 😛!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hahaha, I'm so mean to you KP ^_^.
I'm sorry ... for today anyway 😛
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^^^ You better watch it.I've been known to destroy the ones that get to know me ^_^. It's for their own good really, I would've want them to live with the images I have in my head LOL!!!!!
Yes Peri, I will have to kill you. You may know to much.
xD!!!!! LOL
Pftttt...You Cappies always try to fend off and appear soft. Yet you're all soft like marshmallows on the inside. And roasted marshmallows are so good....I'm almost 1/2 fire and 1/3 water.
I don't know what it is but I looooooooooooooooooooooove Caps! My bff is one (though she's on the Aqua cusp, so that might help) and I miss her face. Plus, she just had a baby and I'm excited as shit to meet him 😄 But she is very soft on the inside once you break the facade lol
Forget you Feist! 😛!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:O Whyyyy
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Moodstring, sorry, you are ok now ^_^.
Posted by cappysweetie
^^^^^^ You better watch it.I've been known to destroy the ones that get to know me ^_^. It's for their own good really, I would've want them to live with the images I have in my head LOL!!!!!
Yes Peri, I will have to kill you. You may know to much.
xD!!!!! LOL
Pftttt...You Cappies always try to fend off and appear soft. Yet you're all soft like marshmallows on the inside. And roasted marshmallows are so good....I'm almost 1/2 fire and 1/3 water.
I don't know what it is but I looooooooooooooooooooooove Caps! My bff is one (though she's on the Aqua cusp, so that might help) and I miss her face. Plus, she just had a baby and I'm excited as shit to meet him 😄 But she is very soft on the inside once you break the facade lol
Forget you Feist! 😛!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:O Whyyyy
Moodstring, sorry, you are ok now ^_^.
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I meant moodswing LOL!!!! Damn
^^^^^ Peri, you are crazy man. Crazy, crazy, crazy.
Fine, you threw off one sensor 😉
hahahahahahahaha, j/k!
Posted by FeistyAquarian
And nobody makes me shut up! NOBODY!!lol that reminds me of this:
Nobody makes me bleed my own blood! NOBODY!
Haha class!
CS I hope you're not still dealing with this crap. Personally I'm not quick to anger but my chart is mostly air so I tend to just be more yeah ok whatever I don't care. And for the most part I don't.
he's a door slammer and can throw whatever is in his hand. that really annoys the hell out of me.
Yes, I too have broken many knick-knacks. And dishes. And small appliances.
But I usually feel a bit better afterward. 🙂
Posted by cappysweetie
*DISCLAIMER*
Offline lssue with pisces, kinda minor(to me anyway) but I still need a mini ventI swear :/ Leave it to me to anger a pisces in 10 minutes or less :/ And it all comes without a warning too
Capricorns, have you experienced this w/ Pisces? I mean, they can get so damn riled up at the least little thing when they are already upset w/ you. Which is another issue .. why not just let the person know you are upset instead of holding it all inside? That makes no sense, do you expect a capricorn to listen to you after something that happened like 3 monthes ago— Ummm, no ... you should've said something then.
All that anger out of no where is no good for the capricorn-pisces relationship -- especially when the capricorn is confused about why you are upset and at which issue you are upset with. B/c dealing w/ a pisces, usually its more then one thing that's got his or her goat (lol, a pun 😛).
Chill out pisces, you not going to get through to us by going crazy, that will just push us away.
*Rant Kinda Over lol*
Capricorns love Pisces and Pisces loves Capricorns, we should cut each other a bit more slack 😉
It can be like TG said or because Capricorn tend to be always sure they are right 100% , and sometimes pisces has no way to show them other way, we are just too sentimental, and if we can't choose between our multiple ways we feel stuck and want to break free, some get quiet, some rebel and get anger.
I've considered this. And I came up with a simple solution.
Pisces are very emotional people.
It depends whether you could deal with a person that emotional. Their levels on this deal are amazing. They can be calm for a minute, then, ignore you for the rest of the day. Until, a few or so days later, they explode and start yelling.
Where I got this? I'm a Pisces.
I am very quick to Anger but I have Moon, Venus and Mercury in Aries, so it makes sense.
He eventually made me to sit down and told me to speak up when im angry instead of just yelling my @ss off and I told him that he needs to be more expressive...
There's a difference between "being expressive" and yelling your @ss off. Trust me, his way is better because it forces you to think before you speak. I can't count the number of times I was "being expressive" and then regretted blurting out the first thing that came to my tongue. (yes, tongue. Not 'mind'. Because when someone yells, he/she is not using their mind).
I've been at the receiving end of Capricorn males being "expressive" and..trust me..it's not a pretty picture. I'd rather bear their cold than their heat. All the hoofed signs (Taurus, Sags, Aries and Caps) seem to be "expressive" in a scary manner. The Aries folks being the worst. They don't call them "Rams" for nothing 😛
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*DISCLAIMER*
Offline lssue with pisces, kinda minor(to me anyway) but I still need a mini vent
I swear :/ Leave it to me to anger a pisces in 10 minutes or less :/ And it all comes without a warning too
Capricorns, have you experienced this w/ Pisces? I mean, they can get so damn riled up at the least little thing when they are already upset w/ you. Which is another issue .. why not just let the person know you are upset instead of holding it all inside? That makes no sense, do you expect a capricorn to listen to you after something that happened like 3 monthes ago— Ummm, no ... you should've said something then.
All that anger out of no where is no good for the capricorn-pisces relationship -- especially when the capricorn is confused about why you are upset and at which issue you are upset with. B/c dealing w/ a pisces, usually its more then one thing that's got his or her goat (lol, a pun 😛).
Chill out pisces, you not going to get through to us by going crazy, that will just push us away.
*Rant Kinda Over lol*
Capricorns love Pisces and Pisces loves Capricorns, we should cut each other a bit more slack 😉