Romantic intensity for a Pisces?

I adore Pisces. Truly beautiful creatures. Abstract, yet focused. See everything, yet at times, nothing. Full of contradictions, yet your silent magnetism and inherent active listening skills enable you to be the leaders of truth and transcendence. You inspire great philosophical thought, which I thrive on. A muse. You give an entirely different perspective to the generic person. Your constant struggle heals many.

I need your help. I want to be the listener. The current image I have in my head is somewhat blurry, and I'd like 'glasses' so I can de-blur a little 🙂

I am a cancer (early 20s), I'm the caring type. Not a fan of drama. I crave a spiritual connection with someone and a smooth sailing relationship. But I have a constant need to want to nurture and give in a relationship (Cancer), I know I'm rather intense when I've choosen what I want. I have exceptional stamina during pursuit.

Recently karma has brought me an amazing Pisces (2 weeks now). Friend of a friend. He is very intelligent, the conversations are so beautiful, he makes me so relaxed. I feel as if I've known him all my life. We talk (I do most of it) and when he talks they are tiny comments to clarify my thoughts (which I love) or share about himself (quirky little facts). We make each other smile and laugh, like we're in our little world. I already know that he is going to be a big part of my life.

He is definitely a dreamer, does indulge on drugs from time to time. He hovers, but I can wait. Even if it is forever. I know that he is going through or about to go through some dramatic changes ... career transition from college to work, big step and he is taking a break. I know he is a little shy, I have no problem with being the aggressor. I initiated the relationship and proceeded to romantically woo him. He wasn't scared off my by intensity (care packages, cooking and letters). I then wrote him a letter, telling in through my witty jokes that I am in it for the long haul. The length is overwhleming, thus intense. He hasn't responded to anything since (couple of days). I know fishes need time to swim off and think. I'm petrified atm, but I've been very open and honest with him. No games.

I'd like to de-blur: How much is too much romantic intensity and/or nurturing for a Pisces? AND
any other wooing tips are SO WELCOMED!

ME: SUN cancer MOON pisces VENUS cancer MARS leo
HIM: SUN pisces MOON gemini VENUS pisces MARS gemini

Thanks!

Hey Days22, thanks for the response!

Haha, I know 😄 but I even wrote him a poem 🙂 I realised that it was an intense letter so I waited 2 days for a response and today I left him a little text telling him that I was dropping him a quick hello and that I was thinking of him.

It is really weird for me, because I'm expected to act with prestige and be almost impassive, and I've been dying to show someone my romantic side!

I'm one weird as cancer I guess! Must be the Leo in me 😛 I know he is interested, his mutual friend told me. Oh dear, I'll definitely back off and give him some time to think! I can see where you're coming from. I just don't want to smother him, I don't want to lose him!

Haha, I seriously reckon that Pisces men and Cancer women work out well. But the nurturing Cancer and not the drama queen one ... heck, I can't even handle the drama queen cancer!

and too many smileys ... lordy hehe!

Okay 🙂 as long as it isn't swimming away for good, I can wait! 😄!

he does have jupiter in his first house - role playing to accommodate. hehe!

yeh, we both go all fidgety when we get nervous, like his nerves bounce to me and then mine ot him and it's honestly a huge cycle 😄!

but i guess Pisces are so cool because you can throw out any idea and they'll find a way to make it 100x more creative! How can people not love that?!

all good, noticed that I use too many buts, it's like everything after the but is the good stuff and the stuff before it is emotional marshmallow fluffer upper!

Cheeky 😄!!! LOL!!! I love puns. I'm a shocker, I repeat mine hehe. Chemistry 😄 Yes, definitely 🙂 It's honestly MAGIC! Have you heard of the concept of Yuan Fen? I read about it in a book, it is predetermined fate, emotional and spiritual binding. Imagine a romance that lasted lifetimes?!

I don't even know why It's like I have Pisces ESPN or something 😛

Have you read Remember the Roses? A short shorty about love that transcends time. Joan of Arc style s!

*that has lasted a few lifetimes.

*short story. oh dear, not too great on making sense today.

Oh, here is Remember the Roses: http://www.mediafire.com/?xeidjmn2yzs

LOL, it is magic! Wouldn't discourage you from that action either 😛 It's magic because every aspect of your imagination comes alive when you discuss it! Mutual movie making! LOL!

If i could harness my Pisces Espn into a material machine, imagine all the happy pisces around 😛 due to a decrease in misunderstandings!

Yeh it is soul mate ish. But I think love should be left undefined. It should be felt. When you feel it you'll simply know 🙂

Glad you enjoyed it! LOL so true! I used to make little scenarios up, sometimes, when I see something in real life, I get confused as to if it is a memory or a memory of an imagination. LOL think I just made Deja Vu even more confusing 😛!!!

I think if there was a book called "How to turn a fairytale into reality: For DUMMIES" it'd be a best seller for pisces and their, er woo-ers - don't want to use 'pursuers' makes it sound like hunting 😢

wouldn't mind a unicorn either 😛

griffins i'm cool with cause they fly 😛 if your yeti had some haas eagle wings i'd be mint. perhaps a hybrid me thinks 😛!!!

ok ive obviously just come into the end of this topic and already i think the both of u need to drop ur crack pipes....

illusion your gonna end up wanting way more from him and its gonna get worse....

and i dont think hes gonna wantu mothering him at all.

My advice is enjoy the party while its fun....

I do like cancerians I'm living with my ex at the moment who is a cancer, hes helping me out atm cos i just moved to the big smoke and already I can tell hes trying to pick the relationship right where it started.......which was a complete mess...

haha, fair 11th sign. i don't think it will get worse, more the feeling out of a balance that we're both comfortable with 🙂

mothering is a little heavy. i'm not there to impose, but to love and care for. support him when he is down, dream together, i dont mind earning the bacon, and i guess simply telling him that everything is okay when he thinks it is crashing down. i know he is capable and i don't want to change him. he has a mother for that already 😛

cancers, there are two types, overly emotional and the caring but easily hurt ones. i'm not too phased. i said a part of my life, romantic relationship would make me smile, but that smile won't fade if we're simply life long friends.

cancers hold on to the past at times, i guess.

thank you 11th for you opinion though and days22 (for simply believing).

a choice itself has no nature, like truth. we make a choice and do everything in our will and power to make it right.

hope is an emotional choice. 🙂

Posted by Days22
oh eleventh. 1984 called and it wants its hair back.

She shouldnt "mother" him too much. But I doubt thats a deal breaker. Things can be worked on. It is too soon to tell. But I think it has good possibilities for the two.

umm shaniqua called shes looking for her weave and i do believe its hanging off the end of ur chin....lol u remind me of a billy goats gruff

I hate it how my cancerian says that "I" hurt him when its actually his own emotions and obsessiveness does his own head in......plus he hits me!....like its a joke when he does it but i fucking hate it.

I hate it how my cancerian says that "I" hurt him when its actually his own emotions and obsessiveness does his own head in......plus he hits me!....like its a joke when he does it but i fucking hate it.

think you landed a drama queen 😢 yeh. i can see what you mean about the subjectivity. when emotions are clear, cancerians lack objectivity. if a cancer perceives there to be a problem instead of standing back they will try to wriggle and cling. doubt is the true emotional weapon of mass destruction for cancers really.

Posted by Days22
lol every gay professor I have had has called me a billy goat. Ya'll need to appreciate some facial hair lol. Your hair is actually kinda cool. That joke has just been egging me on since I saw that pic a few days ago lol.

Yeah clinginess is a downfall for cancers sometimes.

you just wish you were a yeti 😛 yeah :/ it has got to be at a mutual level or it goes to the crappers. the process of finding that balance would probably be the hardest thing in a pisces/cancer union 😛 that an actually leaving the house. lol

yeh. gash, i just *assumed* you were :O thought the pics were legit evidence, then again, it is the DUB DUB DUB and pictures we chose are ones in which prescribes how we want others to see us as!

oh yeh? hmmm... was she caring or drama? cause heck, i can't handle my drama cancer friends, i just go back into my shell 😢 sad when people part ways. once loved. they become a part of us.

well now that is established. i'm actually a unicorn/griffin hybrid.

😄

hahaha drunken drama is all good. sounds like the right type of cancer to date 🙂 and yes i agree! mutual is the way to go 😛...... we've got to give you pisces a break!

and i agree with your choice. long distance just doesn't have the physical closeness and the initmacy (like cuddling)... if you knew it wouldn't work, dragging it out would have left you with a broken heart and a very unidealistic...(haha drunken realistic) memory.

hahahahah, pffft my horn is glittery. that is pretty cool. i'd could almost bust out a poem about it atm 😛!!

haah, perhaps shes just gettin ready (lipstick shade is so important that she can't choose ... + her house is really cozy)... think birds = lasses = chicky babes in the olden times? yeh? lol drunken times are good times, if it is non violent 😛! i'm all for the random missions!!!!

days22: LOL er... we can share glittery horns? hahahaha yeh crazy is cool too 😛 and well, breasts are just the eyes of the body ... 😛 and the bartenders were hired for that reason 😛!!!

MegStings:
LOL cheeky 😛 but yes! definitely, it just feels sooo right 🙂 without a doubt! 🙂 and gash, just looked at your profile all three waters?! sun moon and rising. BOOM.

seavixen:
thank you for your reply 🙂 and yes!!! thank gash it's only the massive wobbly loads of clingy-ness!!!. but i really hope i haven't scared him off ... just cause it is this early on! giving him plenty of space 🙂 ... like 2 weeks then i'm going to go all scorpio seductive on him. LOL i really really want him .... sexually!!! gashhh you pisces!!! heck, the cancer in me will provide whatever to keep the romance alive 😛

lol sea 🙂 yeh, have my red colored ... romance triggering dress ready. i'll eyesex him lol then... er sex him

your username definitely helped as inspiration though 😛