Problems emerging...

I spoke with my ex-Cancer tonight (we do speak off and on and have since our break up). He told me that the one thing he knows in life is that he loves me... then I broke his heart. I feel horrible, I never intended to hurt him but he kept pushing as to why I won't tell him I love him. I finally told him I do, I just don't want to lead him on because I'm seeing someone (he knew this already though - maybe he thought things might have changed in my life, IDK, it's not like we talk about "that" and he's known it for quite some time). I'm crushed by his pain.

Ah, a whore actually engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, typically for money. That would be the woman you tend to engage in/with. Clearly the definition does not, cannot and will not ever include me!

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Carrying baggage from past relationships (which were supposedly over...) into your new ones is a bad idea.

I know this. Just because we keep in contact doesn't constitute baggage though. It's been over for more than 2 yrs now and I am in a comfortable spot. I just figured he was too. He was drinking last night, so I'm sure that's why he pushed the love envelope. He also said that he 'can't do this anymore' meaning having contact with me. And, I understand if it bothers him and he needs to cut ties so that he can move on then so be it, I don't want to stand in the way of his healing and happiness.