Retrograde

Any one having a hard time at the moment - cap split up with for the millionth time. It all got too much I wanted him to step up n he ain't willing to go there and says he's holding me back. He got that right.

Anyone else going through relationship issues or things going wrong this week - come over n vent

Not really feeling like dating anyone at the moment. Told a Cancer girl that I had some drinks with (she's an old colleague) she was not getting a kiss. Had to make it clear to her I was not playing her, just didn't feel like it. Doesn't feel like she is giving up just yet.

In other news, I have been playing getting enough money each time to play a new scratch lottery card thingie since last week. Now if only I could multiply that into a big amount. 😛

Some cancers can't take no for an answer.. Was she super hot?

Posted by CluelessCancer
lol if a dude told me he didn't want to kiss me id feel so embarrassed id disappear into a hole. Black hole preferably.

Nah, we messed around for a while a few months ago. She just came back from some time abroad. First time we saw each other since she came back. We were just hugging and waiting for the train to come.
She was alright with it.

Aww Tiger did u miss the cancer?

I tried all day not to message the cap about how the break up hurt me - but I just couldn't help it. Damn it why couldn't I just let it be

Yep, things are fully over with my toxic cap relationship. Broke off contact, blocked from everywhere. He really deceived me and it took the retrograde for me to see all the lies and deception and I literally can't muster up any of the same feelings of love I once had for him (and he and I said we thought we were soul mates just last week).

I am also a Cap. So maybe that made this even clearer.

Anyway, feel better. There are worse things than breaking up - staying with the wrong person is like death to the soul.

I've been seriously emotional for the last few days. Very unusual for me and I've checked with other Caps that say the same. I can't wait for this retrograde to be over so I can get back to being the "normal" Cap that I am.

Capshoot same thing happened for us we were getting closer n he told me that he loved me last week n now it's over.

It's taken it's toll on us but for him not to even talk to me now it hurts

Retrograde should be over by Wednesday - then hopefully we can all get past it

Stay strong everyone hugs x

ya, just told each other we loved each other last week (me and the pisces) but he started acting weird man like something just is not right. like "hey" instead of "hey baby". idk i told him i didnt feel the urgency, the passion from him, we've been on and off a year. first he move houses teams and now jobs (where we worked together and met)hurts like a motherfucker but i wasnt feeling his love towards me anymore and THAT was more painful than being away from him, the half ass bullshit. no thank you.

Yeh I got the hey instead of hey baby too - just recently

Omg they all do it - men!

The half ass crap no one has time for just need to get through this.

It's funny how it seems like it's soo easy for some ppl to do the no contact thing - I find it really hard I have sooo much to say!!

Noonie - sending u positive vibes to get thru the nxt few days.

How are u feeling today? What emotional things are on your mind

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Yeh I got the hey instead of hey baby too - just recently

Omg they all do it - men!

The half ass crap no one has time for just need to get through this.

It's funny how it seems like it's soo easy for some ppl to do the no contact thing - I find it really hard I have sooo much to say!!

I always got hi beautiful or hi baby for a year! I would never even considering saying "hey" to him, ever! Im not you're homeboy! Damn. Anyway its a combination of things. We were always very sexual and he seemed to be avoiding the sex talk idk something was just off. I stopped feeling the passion, urgency from him. He used to be like, I have to see you. And I do no not believe that all relationships do that becsuse I was in a relationship for years that never lost the fire or urgency.

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Yeh I got the hey instead of hey baby too - just recently

Omg they all do it - men!

The half ass crap no one has time for just need to get through this.

It's funny how it seems like it's soo easy for some ppl to do the no contact thing - I find it really hard I have sooo much to say!!

I understand but maybe they dont care, I guess that keeps me from speaking, im afraid of bruised pride

Here is my theory, I would move mountains to make him happy, he should feel.the same

I used to feel like that but cant do it anymore - he'll talk to me when he's ready I just need to vent n keep away from getting in touch.

Thanks SamCancerGirl 🙂 I actually had a great day! I feel my retrograde issues are over!

Retrograde over and capi has been in touch. Seems like he's had a lot on his mind and says meet nxt week.

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Retrograde over and capi has been in touch. Seems like he's had a lot on his mind and says meet nxt week.

Did you have to contact him? Or did he contact you? I really miss my cap. He broke up with me on Valentine's day. I really wanna talk to him ):

Posted by libraah92

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Retrograde over and capi has been in touch. Seems like he's had a lot on his mind and says meet nxt week.

Did you have to contact him? Or did he contact you? I really miss my cap. He broke up with me on Valentine's day. I really wanna talk to him ):

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I did first... cos I caved 😢
They miss u and eventually they come back on their own, it takes a while thou (feels like forever) in the mean time I had been working overtime, kept busy, made plans n had a spa day n massage with a friend which was amazing. Got my hair done, painted my nails myself

Just stuff that I hadn't had time to do cos I kept thinkn about the capi n not helping my situation. So I took a step back n did things for me to help myself feel better.

Posted by SamCancerGirl

Posted by libraah92

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Retrograde over and capi has been in touch. Seems like he's had a lot on his mind and says meet nxt week.

Did you have to contact him? Or did he contact you? I really miss my cap. He broke up with me on Valentine's day. I really wanna talk to him ):

I did first... cos I caved 😢
They miss u and eventually they come back on their own, it takes a while thou (feels like forever) in the mean time I had been working overtime, kept busy, made plans n had a spa day n massage with a friend which was amazing. Got my hair done, painted my nails myself

Just stuff that I hadn't had time to do cos I kept thinkn about the capi n not helping my situation. So I took a step back n did things for me to help myself feel better.

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I've been working 2 jobs keeping myself busy. last week was so hard for me. I literally cried everyday. We were supposed to meet up last week but I told him it was too soon because I was still hurt by him. We had this long conversation about what happened, feelings, and friendship...and we haven't talked since last thursday. I want to talk to him, but I don't want to push him away 😢

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Yeh I got the hey instead of hey baby too - just recently

Omg they all do it - men!

The half ass crap no one has time for just need to get through this.

It's funny how it seems like it's soo easy for some ppl to do the no contact thing - I find it really hard I have sooo much to say!!

Whats the difference between "hey" and "hey baby"? Its trivial. Dont you think if he was truly half assing it he wouldnt even contact you by texting?