Should I...

Don't wanna do too much background but if you look at my old post you'll see some... Anyways one night back in August this Cap guy invited me over to his house and after we've listened to music, talk about each other's days, and laugh about stuff then
  • Don't wanna do too much background but if you look at my old post you'll see some...

    Anyways one night back in August this Cap guy invited me over to his house and after we've listened to music, talk about each other's days, and laugh about stuff then out of no where he tells me he doesn't want to do this anymore. Saying he has to "focus" which I've noticed he's been doing and understand. But I was so confused and caught off guard like okay so I completely checked myself out after that night. Then however he texts me 2 weeks later after he said "he can't do this anymore" like hi just wanted to check in see how your doing if everything's going good in school. I'm like really bro? But from my assumptions you told me you want nothing to do with me. Soooooo

    Overtime I've seen him on campus and he always stops me whenever he see's me. I never stop him. We chat a lil, (every 30s secs he ask if I'm okay and if I'm good and I reply with the same answer like didn't you ask me this already?!) a few hugs and what not and then that's that. But it's definitely not how it use to be w the consistent text and flirting bc I'm trying to strictly be his friend since that convo since that is what he wanted. Around thanksgiving I wished him a happy thanksgiving and he replied with the same enthusiasm as me but nothing more nothing less.

    Moral of the story...

    His birthday is today....he's told me his birthday as I told him mine and I truly want to wish him a happy birthday bc well it's his last birthday out here before he moves and I want to wish him the best. But I'm iffy on doing it. He's once before told me he likes when I reach out first but knowing him a simple reply of thank you or no reply at all until the morning is what I'll get from him. Which I'm fine with either or.

    But I'm asking because would I look some type of desperate? lol I mean I don't wanna look that way at all I simply want it to be a friendly gesture. Not sure if this is a Cap thing or just him but he's literally like a puzzle I can't find the last piece to. So should I pay this guy dust or what?
  • miriyahhh
    from California
    It's ok to wish him a happy birthday and happy holidays. That's fine. He will respond because caps are cordial like that.

    It's up to you whether or not you'd wanna respond after that.

    I usually don't respond much to texts with Capricorn phone calls or nothing.
  • UnicornSag
    🌞, ♀️, ☿ ♐🌙♈♂️♏🌄♓-🦄inside - ENTJ/ENTP
    female
    Wish him happy birthday and all wishes you have for him. My guess is it want leave him just on "thank you" or no reply. I had mine very similar acting to that, still been myself as always and made my wishes in my own style and yes I did get through to him more than simple thank you. But I used a little trick to when he's more sensitive than usually he is so maybe that's why I got him more open. Still, regardless on everything else I suggest to wish him happy birthday, it doesn't scream desperate but I care for you. That's how I see it at least
  • Lol such a Cap! I’d wish him happy birthday but wouldn’t give him anything else.
  • Thanks y'all!! I ended up doing it but he ain't even reply. Not overthinking it tho just gonna assume he got too many bday wishes and mine was apart of the rotation
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