so my Cap guy is opening

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bulmagt
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and after a year, he is opening to me, sharing things about work (complicated things) that he hasnt mentioned to others (we work in the same company) and chat on whatsapp during the day or at night.

So, since he's opening Im also opening to him (Im a Scorpio, same trust issues). Yeah its been a year but its rewarding knowing that after all the patience, biting my tongue not to say something back and sticking with him, its finally paying off.

I like him so much even if nothing in terms of a romantic relationship happens. I want him to be happy, and I love having nice details with him. Getting him a lemonade if he has a cold, helping him with his work, etc etc.

I haven't pushed for his trust, this is happening because he wants to. As a good cap he keeps his feelings to himself, but I think he's gonna start opening his heart more and more to me.

You cap guys can be so confusing, but you know what? I love a challenge especiallly when its a Cap guy.

PD is it possible to get a chart for him if I dont have his time of birth?

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What a coincidence that I come to post on the Cap forum after a hiatus of 4 months -- and here is a fellow Scorpion talking about her Cap man....

Well, not such a coincidence given our fantastic Scorp intuition lol.

Yes, you can get a chart done if you don't know the time. It just give less information.

I have such a funny story about my Cap man. Yesterday, he told me he's always loved me, since the first day we met. Huh? I have known the man for a year and a half. We dated for five months, then I said I wanted a commitment.

Then for the NEXT 13 MONTHS we have argued about this. Had months of separation. I have blocked him on my phone more times than I can remember. I tried like hell to get him out of my life, but he would not let go. Then I couldn't let go.

I asked to meet his mother and his friends. He evaded this for 13 MONTHS.

However, he recently capitulated, saying he wants to be committed to me, I am now allowed to call him "boyfriend", he is going to come over on Memorial Day which is a big deal as he has never spent a holiday with me.

Believe me, I gave up on him a year ago, but he never gave up on me.

The famous Capricorn slowness was in full force, and there's no way you can change it.

On the other hand, whatever I have screamed at him when I'm furious, he lets run off him like water off a duck's back.

Capricorn with cancer moon -- that is perfect for me as a Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

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Posted by bulmagt
and after a year, he is opening to me, sharing things about work (complicated things) that he hasnt mentioned to others (we work in the same company) and chat on whatsapp during the day or at night.

So, since he's opening Im also opening to him (Im a Scorpio, same trust issues). Yeah its been a year but its rewarding knowing that after all the patience, biting my tongue not to say something back and sticking with him, its finally paying off.

I like him so much even if nothing in terms of a romantic relationship happens. I want him to be happy, and I love having nice details with him. Getting him a lemonade if he has a cold, helping him with his work, etc etc.

I haven't pushed for his trust, this is happening because he wants to. As a good cap he keeps his feelings to himself, but I think he's gonna start opening his heart more and more to me.

You cap guys can be so confusing, but you know what? I love a challenge especiallly when its a Cap guy.

PD is it possible to get a chart for him if I dont have his time of birth?



You said he started to open up. Was is purely work related things? Has he given you an indication that he likes you as more than a friend, and in that case how?