Texting

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Slimfire on Tuesday, August 4, 2015 and has 3 replies.

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@Slimfire
11 Years

I've been texting a cappy- we are not dating. It's been a 5 week thing- mostly sexting and meeting up once a week.
He text me on Sunday and I was out of range but was able to send a response- first by text message but because I was out of range didn't go through so was able to send via imessage.
The message has been delivered through imessage but not read. It's annoying me! Should I text him or just leave him alone? One part of me thinks he may have not received my text, the other thinks he may not be interested any longer. He initiated the last text so I don't think he would have blocked me. It's not a big deal that he didn't respond, it's more that I don't know if he actually received the text.
I'm a cancer and I like him, a lot. I've really tried to play it cool and not get too caught up in it turning into anything although I wouldn't mind if it did. For now I'm enjoying the texting and sex.
Post actually is pathetic as I am typing....mostly worried because I have initiated most of our hookups through text. I really want to continue this fun.

How do cap men view casual sex? Do u think it has potential for anything more? Surely if he didn't like me he wouldn't bother? Or am I just too easy, so why would he bother knocking it back?

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@HappyCapper
11 Years5,000+ Posts

"Surely if he didn't like me he wouldn't bother?"
He likes having sex with you(I hope...) - not the same thing as him liking you as a person.

About that texting issue: I'm sure you'll figure it out - you probaby already did.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Slimfire
I've been texting a cappy- we are not dating. It's been a 5 week thing- mostly sexting and meeting up once a week.
He text me on Sunday and I was out of range but was able to send a response- first by text message but because I was out of range didn't go through so was able to send via imessage.
The message has been delivered through imessage but not read. It's annoying me! Should I text him or just leave him alone? One part of me thinks he may have not received my text, the other thinks he may not be interested any longer. He initiated the last text so I don't think he would have blocked me. It's not a big deal that he didn't respond, it's more that I don't know if he actually received the text.
I'm a cancer and I like him, a lot. I've really tried to play it cool and not get too caught up in it turning into anything although I wouldn't mind if it did. For now I'm enjoying the texting and sex.
Post actually is pathetic as I am typing....mostly worried because I have initiated most of our hookups through text. I really want to continue this fun.

How do cap men view casual sex? Do u think it has potential for anything more? Surely if he didn't like me he wouldn't bother? Or am I just too easy, so why would he bother knocking it back?

You're not in a relationship with him. He owes you nothing.
If you want more attention and respect from a man don't agree to just sexting and hooking up.

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@Cappedoff
11 Years

Caps are serious minded when comes to relationships. Casual sex only to itch a need. Wouldn't consider building relationships after casual sex. And I would guess sexting also left him busy until he found something better. I wouldn't expect much fry this guy until everything is broken down and started from scratch again... If he's willing to give try. .