Capricorn guy sending mixed signals.

Before I married I would do what you're doing, giving my attention to the WRONG thing/man, mixed messages was not something that made me happy nor what I ever wanted from a man.

I have this strong motto about mixed messages. I don't do them very well and I move on from them as soon as I notice it happening.

I kicked that dead horse long enough because usually mixed messages lead into nothing, mean nothing which includes not being interested.

I'm sure he can sense you being confused which creates more confusion for him as well, it's hard trying to figure out what a woman wants.

Why not move on for a little while, be cool, do your work, focus on that and give him some breathing room with your confused energy to figure out EXACTLY what he wants to do. A lot of times a woman's energy can make a man stall and stall and stall because it feels like begging or nagging.

Also take into consideration (depending on his age) he may be married, a lot of men do not wear their wedding bands, he may be in a committed relationship with someone and/or into someone else and although he may seem interested he could just love the excitement of your energy and attention and not much more than that which is usually why mixed messages come about.

We dont send mixed messages. he liked you from the start but because u were more focused on your boyfriend you put him aside. He has lingering feelings. Tell him how you feel, or maybe show him what you wrote and see what happens.

Caps don't send mixed messages? Have you read all the threads on the Cap board with women in similar situations saying that they do?

Posted by capinc
I've never heard of a cap sending a mixed signal...

Oh really?

Posted by Highwifi
a tight lipped smile

If it is a famous capricorn smile then it is good.

I think they do send mixed signals.. But my opinion could be warped cuz I'm basing it off of one Cap in particular.

My father is a quad-cap, and he's a walking contradiction.
So please... do go on; that in matters of the heart caps give zero mixed signals?

Is it mixed messages when a man TELLS you one of the following and you choose not to believe him?

If he says:
1. I'm not looking for a anything serious.
2. I'm not good at committment.
3. I'm not ready for a relationship.
4. I just want to have fun.
5. I don't ever want to get married.
6. And so forth.

Most men will tell you these things in the first couple of dates and so many women ignore this and keep thinking he'll change his mind. I believe capricorn men are honest and blunt enough to say these things in the beginning stages of dating.

Of course, there are always the bad seeds and there are those who will tell you whatever you want to hear.

Posted by truecap
Is it mixed messages when a man TELLS you one of the following and you choose not to believe him?

If he says:
1. I'm not looking for a anything serious.
2. I'm not good at committment.
3. I'm not ready for a relationship.
4. I just want to have fun.
5. I don't ever want to get married.
6. And so forth.

Most men will tell you these things in the first couple of dates and so many women ignore this and keep thinking he'll change his mind. I believe capricorn men are honest and blunt enough to say these things in the beginning stages of dating.

Of course, there are always the bad seeds and there are those who will tell you whatever you want to hear.

+1

Posted by truecap
Is it mixed messages when a man TELLS you one of the following and you choose not to believe him?

If he says:
1. I'm not looking for a anything serious.
2. I'm not good at committment.
3. I'm not ready for a relationship.
4. I just want to have fun.
5. I don't ever want to get married.
6. And so forth.

Most men will tell you these things in the first couple of dates and so many women ignore this and keep thinking he'll change his mind. I believe capricorn men are honest and blunt enough to say these things in the beginning stages of dating.

Of course, there are always the bad seeds and there are those who will tell you whatever you want to hear.

I totally get all that. I've never been the one to ignore a man who is honest when he says he is NOT interested/not good with commitment/etc. This Cap guy I like has stated in the past that he wants to settle, get married and have children. However, I am not too sure what he wants now because I haven't asked him. By the way, thanks for responding.

Actually, that post was for all those other comments and not really meant to say you, yourself, didn't read the signs if they were given.

Sometimes when they say all that too fast or too early into the relationship, you should beware as well. Caps usually move slow until they are sure of the person, so if he's saying that all too early on, its the idea of those things he wants and it doesn't mean he necessarily wants that with you. He could, not saying he doesn't want it with you, but a girl should be leery.