The potential one!

We seem to get along well. He says I'm funny and thinks I'm very attractive. The issue now is that we use to talk everyday up until he asked to see me so he could come kiss me. Ever since I shut him down I haven't heard from him. So now I'm thinking he was only looking for an intimate fling (not interested). He's in his early 30s. We've talked about future plans like: marriage, children, etc. I know how you earth signs love testing the water so is his silence his way of testing me? Should I reach out? What are other ways you'd test your potential partner?

Posted by TruePisces5
We seem to get along well. He says I'm funny and thinks I'm very attractive. The issue now is that we use to talk everyday up until he asked to see me so he could come kiss me. Ever since I shut him down I haven't heard from him. So now I'm thinking he was only looking for an intimate fling (not interested). He's in his early 30s. We've talked about future plans like: marriage, children, etc. I know how you earth signs love testing the water so is his silence his way of testing me? Should I reach out? What are other ways you'd test your potential partner?

1) What does this mean?
2) What behaviour did you expect from him after shutting him down?

Posted by StoicGoat

Posted by TruePisces5
We seem to get along well. He says I'm funny and thinks I'm very attractive. The issue now is that we use to talk everyday up until he asked to see me so he could come kiss me. Ever since I shut him down I haven't heard from him. So now I'm thinking he was only looking for an intimate fling (not interested). He's in his early 30s. We've talked about future plans like: marriage, children, etc. I know how you earth signs love testing the water so is his silence his way of testing me? Should I reach out? What are other ways you'd test your potential partner?

1) What does this mean?
2) What behaviour did you expect from him after shutting him down?

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He was at the bar with friends that night and wanted to come kiss me. I shut him down by telling him he couldn't come to my house. It was 11 something at night so I would've expected him to be more respectful. He talked with such confidence so I didn't expect him to distance himself after being rejected either. He always gloated about me being kissable but never took action so I figured he was just under the influence that night.

Wth are all of the capricorns?

Posted by Chance15
is your merc in pisces too? 😛

Lol. It's that obvious huh? 😄
We've been talking for approximately 2 months now. A few dates here and there since we both are always working. We spend most of our time on the phone/text because of it. Anything else you need to know?