To Cap Men - how do I stop you from chasing me?

ok, here goes. I am relentlessly being chased by a Cappie since december. I am playing cool but his assertiveness is melting my ice queen mask and its unnerviing its impressing me in so many levels. His romantic, he surprises me with how comfortable my daughter is with him (and my kid is very guarded) he just won her over in a few minutes its making me frustrated. I know I should be flattered but as a scorpio woman I just got my heart broken and mending and Im not ready for any relationship or any emotionally charged pursuit. His been told a lot of times that friendship is what I can only offer him but he is seriously wont bug out.

to make matters worse he had kissed me and there is spark right there..urgghhh this is so frustrating I want to focus on me not this feelings.

So how do I convince him to moveo on and leave me alone??

Posted by chococream
ok, here goes. I am relentlessly being chased by a Cappie since december. I am playing cool but his assertiveness is melting my ice queen mask and its unnerviing its impressing me in so many levels. His romantic, he surprises me with how comfortable my daughter is with him (and my kid is very guarded) he just won her over in a few minutes its making me frustrated. I know I should be flattered but as a scorpio woman I just got my heart broken and mending and Im not ready for any relationship or any emotionally charged pursuit. His been told a lot of times that friendship is what I can only offer him but he is seriously wont bug out.

to make matters worse he had kissed me and there is spark right there..urgghhh this is so frustrating I want to focus on me not this feelings.

So how do I convince him to moveo on and leave me alone??

LMAO ohhh that poor man who can blame him. But I understand what you'Re saying.

If you're really serious about not wanting him or anything the the moment then just tell him (in a calm but serious manner) that you need to be alone right now and if he respects you, he will respect your wishes and keep his distance, say something like that you expect a respectable man like him to do that (like saying you have lots of respect for him bla bla). THat should do, make it clear that nothing he does or says will change your mind, it's just not the right time.

Maybe you haven't been clear. To be honest in these few sentences you've written it's actually very obvious you haven't been clear and are/were not sure of what you want. Before you tell him to stay away you better make sure it's what you want because if it's coquetry or comes across as he will do a 180 on you and you'll fall from that pedastal really fast. Caps don't take that lightly and before you know the tables might be turned.

From what I understand the story with the guy before went on for a while so I recommend you follow your urge to stay away and heal. You don't seem ready and still fed up with the stuff before. No matter how great the Cap is, it might not be the right time. And no disrespect sometimes it's just physical attraction so you better tell him that on the phone, no risks LOL.
You Scorpios are suckas for a sparks flying and the temptation to have some sexy time gets you in trouble more often than not. It's very important to discrimina

Posted by tripleCap
Ask to meet him in a public place then...

-dress like a slut and be loud and obnoxious. Bonus points if you snort.

-don't wax/shave your mustache, legs or underarms. If you have dark hair lucky you.

-tell him you have no ambition, lost your job and have no money and if you can borrow some of his.

-tell him you only eat fast food and you think *insert nasty fast food of your choice* is high quality cuisine.

-tell him you forgot your daughter at the store and went home and took a nap.

-tell him you detest heels.

-tell him you hate blow jobs because that's where he pees

You're welcome

good ideas, I will certainly keep it mind.

P.S. uhm this cappie is also a long time friend, more like we grew up together and his mom and my mum are bestie's kind of family close 🙂 and he moved to another state 9years ago and seen each other late november and reconnected again.

Posted by Mimi618

Posted by chococream
ok, here goes. I am relentlessly being chased by a Cappie since december. I am playing cool but his assertiveness is melting my ice queen mask and its unnerviing its impressing me in so many levels. His romantic, he surprises me with how comfortable my daughter is with him (and my kid is very guarded) he just won her over in a few minutes its making me frustrated. I know I should be flattered but as a scorpio woman I just got my heart broken and mending and Im not ready for any relationship or any emotionally charged pursuit. His been told a lot of times that friendship is what I can only offer him but he is seriously wont bug out.

to make matters worse he had kissed me and there is spark right there..urgghhh this is so frustrating I want to focus on me not this feelings.

So how do I convince him to moveo on and leave me alone??

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LMAO ohhh that poor man who can blame him. But I understand what you'Re saying.

If you're really serious about not wanting him or anything the the moment then just tell him (in a calm but serious manner) that you need to be alone right now and if he respects you, he will respect your wishes and keep his distance, say something like that you expect a respectable man like him to do that (like saying you have lots of respect for him bla bla). THat should do, make it clear that nothing he does or says will change your mind, it's just not the right time.

Maybe you haven't been clear. To be honest in these few sentences you've written it's actually very obvious you haven't been clear and are/were not sure of what you want. Before you tell him to stay away you better make sure it's what you want because if it's coquetry or comes across as he will do a 180 on you and you'll fall from that pedastal really fast. Caps don't take that lightly and before you know the tables might be turned.

From what I understand the story with the guy before went on for a while so I recommend you follow your urge to stay away and heal. You don't seem ready and still fed up with the stuff before. No matter how great the Cap is, it might not be the right time. And no disrespect sometimes it's just physical attraction so you better tell him that on the phone, no risks LOL.
You Scorpios are suckas for a sparks flying and the temptation to

If I knew you could be the one, I would chase you forever... We never get to choose the one we want, we just know it...

It seems you are a goal to him. He also knows you deserve better and he will prove it even if it takes forever...

This seems accurate ^

Caps never give up on something they want.

Its funny how it appears like she is adamant in wanting him to leave her alone, yet loves the attention at the same time. Scorpios breathe drama while pretending that they avoid it lol