Trait of Caps to form weird bonds with people?

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Goatinaboat
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Like what? GIve example. But yeah, I have long strange bonds with people.

Example: The very first time I stepped in a chat room, wee years ago, in 1999. I talked to a guy from New Zealand.

I STILL talk to him, hes on my facebook, we keep up with each other and have never met in real life. Hes been through 2 marriages, 4 kids, 2 jobs, jailtime, etc. I think that bond is kinda weird/strange.

Its not a romantic interest, its just the first person I ever chatted with....so its.special? LOL Sounds weird.
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CAPHR
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Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).

Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
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CaptainCoulter
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Posted by CAPHR
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).

Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Same. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
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Goatinaboat
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Posted by CAPHR
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).

Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Same. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
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Im still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!

Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOL
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CaptainCoulter
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Posted by CAPHR
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).

Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Same. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
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Im still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!

Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOL
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Goatinaboat
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I've noticed this.

A cap, ex-asquintance of mine, started hanging out with the Fat Mexicans in our region.

Couple of years later he got prospect.

All of the sudden he found a girl and ended the Mc life on bad terms.

alot of people will confront him if they see him.

So much for "forming weird bonds" lol.

Work hard for something - set it on fire.

^seen alot of Caps do this.
Mostly when I set something on fire...I mean to.

I mean most of what I do is meant for a reason, always.

But I feel ya.
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iCloud9
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Posted by CAPHR
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).

Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Same. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
Im still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!

Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOL
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despite that we both have aqua moon pisces mars, i don't entertain or even acknowledge the ones did me wrong. i just cut them out instantly as a favor because otherwise i'd have to f them over x10 lol