Is it a common trait for Caps to form long-strange bonds with people?
Trait of Caps to form weird bonds with people?
Like what? GIve example. But yeah, I have long strange bonds with people.
Example: The very first time I stepped in a chat room, wee years ago, in 1999. I talked to a guy from New Zealand.
I STILL talk to him, hes on my facebook, we keep up with each other and have never met in real life. Hes been through 2 marriages, 4 kids, 2 jobs, jailtime, etc. I think that bond is kinda weird/strange.
Its not a romantic interest, its just the first person I ever chatted with....so its.special? LOL Sounds weird.
Example: The very first time I stepped in a chat room, wee years ago, in 1999. I talked to a guy from New Zealand.
I STILL talk to him, hes on my facebook, we keep up with each other and have never met in real life. Hes been through 2 marriages, 4 kids, 2 jobs, jailtime, etc. I think that bond is kinda weird/strange.
Its not a romantic interest, its just the first person I ever chatted with....so its.special? LOL Sounds weird.
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Posted by CAPHRSame. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenIm still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!Posted by CAPHRSame. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.click to expand
Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOL
I am also friends with most of my exes! Better friends than partners tbh! Also find that relationships never really go away. Feelings from their side always pop back up many years later and usually at the worst time?
Posted by CapladylikePosted by MissLadyIceQueenIm still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!Posted by CAPHRSame. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.click to expand
Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOL
Posted by Tom_SawyerMostly when I set something on fire...I mean to.
I've noticed this.
A cap, ex-asquintance of mine, started hanging out with the Fat Mexicans in our region.
Couple of years later he got prospect.
All of the sudden he found a girl and ended the Mc life on bad terms.
alot of people will confront him if they see him.
So much for "forming weird bonds" lol.
Work hard for something - set it on fire.
^seen alot of Caps do this.
I mean most of what I do is meant for a reason, always.
But I feel ya.
Posted by Capladylikedespite that we both have aqua moon pisces mars, i don't entertain or even acknowledge the ones did me wrong. i just cut them out instantly as a favor because otherwise i'd have to f them over x10 lolPosted by MissLadyIceQueenIm still friends with all my exes, even people that have fcked me over!!!!!Posted by CAPHRSame. I've had the same best friends for years. I met stragglers here and there in various places where we end up being life long buddies. Have a friend from Australia (we've never met but talk all the time. ) She's my buddy. Even my exes still feel the need to check in on me.
Ha, my examples would be similar but both on and offline. I have friendships that have lasted for 10 years with people I met back in my tech days (and chat rooms).
Also have people who come and go over the years but there is always a very strange strong bond! A lot of my friends make the observation that I have a lot of really long weird bombs with people. I was curious is any other caps are similar.
Had a best friend that actually slept with my man for 3 years behind my back. I didnt find out til after I dumped him, but she apologized later on years later and I forgave her, and I still am friends with her. I dont hang with her, but we talk occasionally and hug when we see each other. WTF is wrong with us LOLclick to expand
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