Two Years Four Travels...

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by poseidon on Saturday, March 10, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@poseidon
14 Years

To all caps and any other who can comment.

I met in FB a Capricorn woman, she have a Leo ascendant and moon in Virgo. A kind of workaholic, Germanic and very meticulous. I'm from South America and in all these time we had some quarrels, I travel to Europe four times. Being a Pisces sounds strange, but my moon is Aries, ascendant Libra/Scorpio and my Italian blood makes me sometimes to speak harshly to her. Now she wants to break but to continue as friends. As we are from very different culture origins I guess this was a major issue, but now she's justifying her position based that she don't see future and that in order to function I should be like her and I look lazy, and my pace is slower than her etc. She said these are the reasons and our quarrels that makes her very fearful. Haven't quarrel or being rough with her really. I discover that she had a difficult childhood with their parents that wants to break her ideals and ways of thinking, that makes her take the decision to go out home at early age.
My question to the Capricorn girls and ladies here is: How to revert her fears and remove all the recurrent thoughts she had put in her mind recently..

I'm not coming to her, sending SMS or e-mails, but she has come to Skype, she wants me to accept her decision.

Thank you in advance !

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@poseidon
14 Years

Well I know her fears, to make a mistake, to choose the wrong person, all signs had positive and negative aspects and depending on how you was raised you can bring fears to an adult relationship.

Thanks for your reply ! :-)

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Try accepting her decision. I think it will probably be better for you in the longrun. It seems like she'd push you into being more of what she think you should, and that will probably eventually lead to resentment on your end.

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@poseidon
14 Years

Thanks for your wise words.
🙂

Posted by lnana04
Try accepting her decision. I think it will probably be better for you in the longrun. It seems like she'd push you into being more of what she think you should, and that will probably eventually lead to resentment on your end.