What to do.

It's only a matter of time. But damn I'm horny how much longer? I haven had sex in about 8 months now. Not because there no candidates. It's just that I don't just want to have sex,I want a relationship I refuse to just have sex with one and become their 2nd plate, sidechixk, or their fuxk buddy. Been there done that. I'm over It's a bitter sweat game that breaks ppls heart. I'm ready for the real thing. But it just seems hard to find. Right person I don't want to sound desperate but at times I feel desperate. The min I though I found someone a "leo" me Capp lady. A month later he vanishs everything seemed ok at least in my eyes. But then I have no idea it was like he wasn't interested anymore out of nowhere we didn't even get to fuxk! ;( leaving me sexually Frustrated and some what hopeless. I keep telling myself that I have to love myself first till then god will send me the man for me. To leave it on gods hands. But sometimes makes me sad and being horny doesn't help😢 I'm still young (21) I know I just don't kno what to think anymore help.

Im going through the same thing. The difference is i'm 35 and single so it may be a little harder for me. My advice is dont settle for less than what you want. You've gone 8 months already, you should wait until the right person comes along. It'll be so much more worth it. Hell...that takes a lot of strength and self control. Im going on 2 months without and I get turned on by draino commercials lol. Hang in there!

I am in the same boat so dont feel bad!!! I want to find the real relationship to lead to a future I am a sag male that is talking to a cap lady and at first we both said we were looking for a relationship but now she is acting fkaky and indecisive and says she can't give me the attention or time I deserve right now!!!

don't do it. i've been having meaningless sex and it feels good in the moment but the day after you feel used and cheap. worse than before trust me. don't do it. it's empty unless your in a relationship

That's what Rosey Palm is for. Go buy some lube.

ive been with out for 8 months also,but ive recently just got out of an dysfunctional relationship i refuse to settle.....so i do what i gotta do no need for lube 😉