Why Capricorns back away when things get personnel

Whenever a relationship/friendship get too personal Capricorns are known to back away. They are afraid of showing possible weakness. They prefer to be in control of things. At what stage in a relationship do Capricorns men realize that showing emotions doesn't make you weak in a relationship? How come when they start showing a little emotions they fear verbally expressing themselves?

some tend to act like we're wrong when we do show emotion.

then some tend to manipulate us when we do.

its like we're allowed to be happy but not too happy.

its like we're allowed to be disgruntled but shunned if we get mad.

some women say dont get so emo.

then some women say say why dont you show more emotion.

cap men tend to show by action and believe a whole lot of emotion is "extra"...not necessary.

i was confused alot around females when I was younger bc they would all say different things and whether I as a cap male was justified in the things I did...they would always make it seem like I was wrong, or make fun of it, and try to garner support from their female peers. I soon realized it was more their insecurity to turn tables into their control and follow their mainstream ideas of what a man should be. Girls are just like boys, they know what they are attracted to, but dont really know the definition of each other. I let men be men and women be women. And if anything is outta line toward me, I'll check it.

so then I learned to just to what I felt as long as it was within reason and, not to allow women to tell me how I SHOULD be. Best trials and tribulation I've been through. Now I know to be myself and not worry about what females think of me.

things would be a lot easier if people would take the time to embrace and appreciate learning from each others differences instead of condemnation and making fun. this is the main reason why we always run into cookie-cutter people and have a hard time finding individuality. Bc those who show it are chastised and shunned. (sorry..tangent)

verbal expression...besides the typical I love you, and other common verbals, I think there is a time and place for such things. When I used to come home everyday after work I go straight to her, slap her on the tail, hug and kiss her and ask her how her days been. Then I'd make her laugh a little. Later on or, in that instant we'd do some things🙂 I tell her I love her when I think a moment calls for it. But i dont feel the need to say mushy mushy often. I show it instead. But she was the type that needed to hear mushy mushy all the time and I just wasnt the one for that. Plus men think of showing alot of emotion over everything as kinda kid-like and being an "open book" so to speak. Cant trust everybody. Unless being an actor is a profession, we just dont see the need. Even actors dont act like they "act" when they're out chill

chillin just on the regular. Words cant really be trusted especially these days. Cap men lead by example and by action. Thats just us.🙂

Also, see if your emotion matches up to his "action".

Truth is what actually gets done. Not was is simply said w emotion attached to it. There are a lot of good talkers out there and good con-artists.

When someone admits they are wrong to me and says theyre sorry, I tell them dont give me that shit. I tell them to tell me they understand. This way if you f&^% up again it means to me that youre stupid and dont care to better yourself in pursuit of harmony.

Im not saying this stuff to be directed at you faith $ golphin and there is no bitterness slung towards you AT ALL🙂

faith, give it up, it's been over a year, he has a girlfriend whom he's cheating on with you and probably numerous other women! He's not pulling back because he is scared of some emotional fantasy you've conjured up in your delusional mind - HE'S JUST IS NOT THAT INTO YOU. Nor do I blame him!

@faith: I'd go get checked for STD's too if I were you...

i can get mushy and stuff but ill just get manipulated and stuff. my emotions screwed with. then blamed for making he rfeel that way. i need a good earthy woman. not some indecisive chick with mental problems.

AGAIN:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-leo-woman-regain-a-capricorn-man-interest-1924503/#1924504>Read here
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-capricorn-react-when-they-are-jealous-1965220/#1965221>and Here

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/how-can-a-leo-woman-win-over-a-capricorn-man-1924520/#1924521>here too
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/Advice-to-rekindle-a-man% 27s-interest!!!-1926267.asp#1926268>and this one
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/strong-leo-woman-who-felt-week-for-a-capricorn-man-1938181/#1938182>and here.


He has a girlfriend, whom he neglected to mention at first, but he's clearly still with her. Faith keeps telling herself the girlfriend is a LIE he tells her to get under her skin. (But really - when a man tells you something like that - BELIEVE HIM!) So Faith has to SAY she's cool, fine, great, awesome with the crumbs he throws her way (sex mostly), cuz he's not offering her any more than that! They live in different states, hours away from each other, and have been sleeping together approx. ONE night a month... unless she tells him she has feelings for him, and he pulls away and ignores her for 2 months. This has been going on for a YEAR! Men don't respect women who allow themselves to be used like this. This man will never respect her cuz she's still bangin' him, still going along with his bs and making excuses for it, even after him saying he has a woman, even after he treats her so shabbily.

She's lying to herself in order to lie to us about how she really feels. She's so emotionally caught up and addicted to this Cap man who is using her for sex and ego-stroking.. she doesn't even know which way is up anymore! All of this makes me feel terribly sad - she SHOULD be spending her time and energy on herself, and with a man who doesn't do this to her, one who loves and adores her instead of making her feel insecure and crazy inside because all he wants is sex. She's inadvertently teaching her sons that women are like this, that it's okay for men to be like this. Someday the Cap man cheating on his woman to use another woman for FWB sex may be HER son. Wonder what her stance will be then.. will she make excuses for him cheating and acting like a douche? Will she identify/sympathize with the girl he's cheating on, or the one he's cheating with?

@Nefer: Anymore, I think its about the attention she's getting here!!! And, unfortunately (we're all to blame) we are feeding it...

AH another DRAMA QUEEN this makes number 103 and the number is growing.

From a capricorn who is just an emotional wreak and a pyscho.

Yes she is. Nefer is one cool chica. She treads where others fear too. And she'll lay it all out in vivid color in case anyone misses the point.

I concur!

My post was far $

Don't be making fun of my soccor team

Posted by seksi
1. you are a bull. so no surprise there
2. u are unable to see out of the box
3. dont want to wast time with a cancer fm
4. i think is lost/////

If that was for me, do get in touch when you make sense.

LOL your such a imbecile!!!

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

Interesting... Seksi just started posting as of today and right from the get go started downing Nefer. No IP link to anyone else though, but I do wonder if we have another poser in our midst.

Posted by LovelyScorp
@ Supercap...I heart you. You are one solid individual.

@ Faith....could be because you see him as only a FWB and a lifetime of dick, as you stated verbatim in your last thread.

Yeah I'm a very ambitious person and I don't go after men I can't have and goals I can't accomplish. Every thing I have,I had to work hard for it! If it's easy to have I don't want it!!! LOL

Posted by LovelyScorp
@ Supercap...I heart you. You are one solid individual.

@ Faith....could be because you see him as only a FWB and a lifetime of dick, as you stated verbatim in your last thread.

Yeah I'm a very ambitious person and I don't go after men I can't have and goals I can't accomplish. Every thing I have,I had to work hard for it! If it's easy to have I don't want it!!! LOL

*laughing* seski, I assure you - your opinion of me means less than nothing. And if I'm not "tops" to you, I won't cry.

But if by me "manipulating" the situation, you actually mean making sure I post publicly known past info so that well-meaning peeps do not (once again) waste their time and energy on creating thoughtful, helpful responses to this (obsessed stalker) Leo woman who has shown time and time again that she will not heed such sage advice but will instead backpedal and insist that she's actually HAPPY with the FWB situation that's causing her to create 1,528 threads to piss and moan in about why her Cappy won't show his "feelings" for her (ad nauseum)... and to educate others coming here unawares to seek Cappy advice for their own situation that THIS particular woman's "insights" about Cap men are completely whack and will serve only to put them in the same boat she's in... the Good Enough To Fuck, But Not Good Enough To Commit To yacht she's happily cruising the world in for the past YEAR... ... if THAT's what you mean... well, in that case, I am indeed a manipulator and slayer of dumbasses that finally took OFF her kid gloves for dealing with this crazy Leo broad. I'm not the only one getting tired of these ridiculous, inconsistent threads she's been creating over and over and over for many, many months - and a lot of us are completely fed up with her repetitious bullshit and foolishness.

Those are my Secret Super Powers and I wear a cape and a mask. But NOT the Rose-Colored Glasses this Cap's FWB chick wears. Call me Lemon Drop.. I'm Sweet.. then I'm Sour.

And of course, boredom made me do it. I'm waiting for my toenails to dry 😛

BOOM BABY!

@lovelyscorp.....I LIKE THE NEW PIC! contrasting similarities!!🙂 brilliant yin and yang going on there

am I the only one who understands the women I lov on these boards?

Its very simple

Yeah tho they walk through the valley of death they fear no evil for they are the meanest mothers in the valley

And I lov everyone of them

To Leo Lady
lovelyscrop
V/B
Bella
Winterborn
Enda
Alana
Chriesy
and many many more

I have no picking order I just list all of you I know with the women I respect here there is no one to ten they are all tens. and not just in looks in the heart where it counts.

where is happycappy?

Posted by lildol
@faith: I'd go get checked for STD's too if I were you...

lma0!!!2 good!

Posted by LovelyScorp

lma0!that face is just a classic

Thank you Tate, and back on you.

ORSON I THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD

LOL! ^^ Good to see a familiar face.

some tend to act like we're wrong when we do show emotion.

Yep

then some tend to manipulate us when we do.

Yeppers

its like we're allowed to be happy but not too happy.

I feel like that, if I'm too happy then I'm committing a sin of some sorts.

its like we're allowed to be disgruntled but shunned if we get mad.

Exactly!!!! :O

Thought I was the only one, it can all be one big headache.

I'm so nice and courteous that I get taken advantage of.

And when I express my "I'm-sorry-I'm-NOT-dumb-enough-for-you" verboseness, then they look at me like why am I upset?

I get passionate when "you" just don't get it. Nothing any different from a congressman trying to pass a bill on CSPAN.

But yeah bummer though, as much as we allow everyone to be their self but we can't. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND! f&*^ that

Some people need a mirror and some need an asswhoopin.

I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Dude, I get it, I get it, I soooo get it. It's so damn unnerving at times for me because I can't help myself sometimes, I tend to just ... be me lol. And that right there seems to be a problem for some people. However, it's completely and totally fine for them to say whatever they want to me and to do whatever they want. As soon as I decide to do the same thing, it's like "Oh How dare you" or something like that.

I just can't get over how it's not ok for me to do the exact same thing to other that they (try lol) to do to me.

And RIGHT. Some people need a swift kick in the ass ^_^. then they can look in the mirror 😉

Welcome back, Faith.. we've misssssssed you! 🙂

"some tend to act like we're wrong when we do show emotion.

then some tend to manipulate us when we do.

its like we're allowed to be happy but not too happy.

its like we're allowed to be disgruntled but shunned if we get mad.

some women say dont get so emo.

then some women say say why dont you show more emotion.

cap men tend to show by action and believe a whole lot of emotion is "extra"...not necessary."


OMG, this is so it!!

Faith is not back.

Now I feel sad and disappointed 😱

returning from the dead

caps just leave from around people who bring unneccessary problems, n we dont wanna have to hurt their feelings for this . If I feel like someone isnt worth the time and effort that my breath can waste off of their bull then I will just say fuck it I will not talk to them again (and best believe if it was wrong Im talkin bout ya azz) REAL TALK

never do somethin wrong and wanna attempt to be kool cuz it doesnt work that way with us. its all or nothin if you find ya self gettin nothin then you did somethin

This chick is crazy and annoying. 'nough said

The reason capricorn (Im a female cappy) dont want to lose control of their emotions is because when you are in control of your emotions there is a power in that. There is a lot of serenity and stability and strength. It feels good. They dont want to ride a roller coaster.
Capricorn is more a tower of strength than fragile and sensitive. Both have their good qualities..You just need to see that sensitive is not the only way. Capricorn is steady and reliable because they are creatures of routine. Once you are part of their routine they will just keep doing the same rituals with you.

As for a woman trying to get a capricorn man to express his emotions, capricorns are very honest and straightforward once they understand that you wont fall apart if they are honest. If a capricorn is hiding info from you its likely youve presented yourself as sensitive and easily upset. Capricorns are very emotional but in a controlled way. if they are relaxed and feel they can be themselves they wear their heart on their sleeve. From what ive read you have probably told your capricorn off when hes opened up to you or gone off in a modd. At this point he decided not to do that again and being a creature of habit and routine has stuck with his decision.

If you ask him anything he will probably tell you what you want to hear rather than the truth because he doesnt want to see you getting upset again. Basically if you show you are strong and not over emotional he will start to share more with you