why do aries men seem to be

For the most part I seem to get a good bit of attention from aries men over any other astrological sign. Come to think about it, a lot of my friends are aries as well.
I'm 41 years old and never really loved anyone that I've had intimate relations with until my most recent and he was aries.
Rocky to say the least. Almost two years of breaking up every 9 to 12 weeks and I'm pretty much done. To see or hear from him doesn't really bother me any more, but he still seems to try to come around.
I give him almost two years of my time and self and now I'm just tired. This is how I am. I will try for so long and then suddenly wake up one day and I'm done. If things are typically good then I don't just change my mind over night, but when they are constantly back and forth I get tired of it.
I have no interest in Arian men any longer.
Are all cappy ' s out there like myself?