Why do caps dislike

When someone else has the lead?

Mostly in relationships or work related.

Do you try to get back the lead?

Do you expect people to allow you to lead?

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Posted by Aerazo
When someone else has the lead?

Mostly in relationships or work related.

Do you try to get back the lead?

Do you expect people to allow you to lead?

If a Cap is trying to lead, it probably means that they either know a more time efficient way than you do (which is true in a lot of the cases for me), or that they are a slightly wary of how you do things, imo.

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I see that, they have good tactics when it comes to business. I always let him lead that and add to the ideas. I have visions on my own as well that he can put together.

Posted by gyrados
It's so ridiculous when Fixed sign women try to lead you, suddenly you feel very lonely and worthless.

Why is that?

We don't like to be ordered or bossed around. We call the shots and like things on our terms. We are cardinals we lead not follow.

Posted by Capricorn91
We don't like to be ordered or bossed around. We call the shots and like things on our terms. We are cardinals we lead not follow.

But you do accept that sometimes you are not always right? and that someone else's vision may be better?

A leader does not boss around. a leader guides.

Posted by crazysioux
I spent my first year at work wondering how I got there. Now I wonder how the rest of em got here... 😆

People tend to trust people who are grounded, who work is something sacred to them, self centered, ambtious and goal getters. Those are cap characteristics. That focus and drive makes them stand out in their field.

But most of the time all caps complain about working, they always say, I wish I could be enjoying my money right now instead of working lol.

I don't know how you put so much into it.

I generally do less or at least doesn't stress much about it.

I think a lot of our visions and ideas just flow but they need to be ignited by something or someone and this is part of the reason why I like working with caps

there's less pain in doing it myself lol

Posted by crazysioux
I spent my first year at work wondering how I got there. Now I wonder how the rest of em got here... 😆

I do seriously wonder how some people survive lol

We are grown people, why do we need to be lead anywhere?

I personally don't like to lead or be lead. Both irritate my soul, so I'd rather detach from people if I'm feeling that need surface.

If you can do it better, I better see some darn good results. If I ever allow a man to take the lead, he will have to have a darn good successful life, and not just monetary success, but success in making decisions, handling situations, conquering goals, and being an extremely good person on top of it. I'll then step back and say he has a vision and know what he's doing. Until then, nope.

Keep your ground. Caps senses where they have lead and not.

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Posted by Capricorn91
We don't like to be ordered or bossed around. We call the shots and like things on our terms. We are cardinals we lead not follow.

But you do accept that sometimes you are not always right? and that someone else's vision may be better?

A leader does not boss around. a leader guides.

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Yes and then we allow the other person to lead in that area. We know our capabilities, if we feel we are right we will lead and if not we will allow to be lead but that is more in the work front where work takes precedence over someone's ego.

In personal relationships we like freedom, we like to be the dominant person and try to lead, be the alpha. But yes I have allowed only one person to lead me, take charge and that was the Aqua, but I guess she wanted me to be the dominant person, so you still have a chance 😉. We worked really well together. Her ideas and strategy and my execution and the result, a very good product 🙂

Posted by Aerazo
When someone else has the lead?

Mostly in relationships or work related.

Do you try to get back the lead?

Do you expect people to allow you to lead?

both my capricorn grandmother and cappy mother in law...omgoodness...they need to LEAD.



i can't imagine a cancer sun woman with a capriconr sun woman leading and heads up butting.



both are cardinals and leading.



my capricorn mother in law LOVEs to hang out with peeps who allow her to take charge.

we love that she organizes everything.



which is cool. i follow along and soldier on. lol

but what i dont like in the beginning of our relationship is that she would integrate into our personal lives on what color curtains we should have. and one time she took away my patio tables.

and said that our garden plants that were dying were no good and ugly. and i'm like thanks but i like some stuff around lol

my husband even said, none of his guy friends with their women would EVER want to live with mother in laws that long only vacation together short term or stay over for a few nights. cause then they get bossy ...and i want to be the ONLY woman in the relationship with my man to boss.

not her. she should get her own man to boss around

lol



no but seriously we love her. but mother in laws and daughter in laws....we is good, just that dont live together or it's gonna get bad. my man even knows this.

and he's not alone with this as his guy friends also have problems with their women and mother in laws

and my husband said to me...."what about your mother" OMGoodness....

capricorn moon. lol NO effing way...not long term...just short spurts of visits and short vacations.