Instead of creating a long thread, im gonna try to be as concise and forthcoming as I can. I'm a gemini f and was incredibly attracted to a capricorn f. We worked with each other, and I had a feeling she was interested in me, but never went through with approaching her because I knew some of my co-workers were already drooling over her, notwithstanding the fact that she also had a boyfriend. I would catch her checking me out and noticed how awkward she would be in my presence. When I first started texting her just out of the blue, we became instantly attached by the hip. Since then we were ALWAYS in contact, wether that be instagraming,texting,snapchating etc. I wasn't expecting any of it and was shocked with how little time she wasted in asking me about how I see myself in the future and what girls I prefer to date in the first week. I liked her alot but a huge part of me held back due to the fact she wasn't exactly out with her bisexuality(if she ever was at all) and because of the mere fact she already had somebody in her life. Nevertheless it caused a great deal of problems for the both of us. Things were going great at first but then real problems came between us. For me, I had my guard up because she was taken, for her it was the fact that I never opened up to her wholeheartedly, that I never went out of my way to show her how special and important she was to me.That I was insincere and that I never showed her how I felt through my actions. We kept talking regardless maybe b.c we both thought the bad times wouldn't last but I wasn't going to commit unless she made me her first priority. I never let her know this though until it reached the end. We never had sex,but she wouldn't shy away from the idea,even admitting she had dreams that we did. She told me she didn't want to cheat on her boyfriend because it would just mean she'd do the same to me. I was fond of her honesty but i wasn't quite sure if she meant it because I said it first or because of any other different reason I don't know about. The arguments became more frequent and one day it ended so ugly. The last time we spoke she said she wanted me to be happy and that she wish she couldve been the one to make me happy. that she wanted me to take good care of myself and to work hard for what I wanted to achieve in life. It's been roughly half a year since we last spoke. I tried for 4 months to contact her but to no avail. I was really nasty after the "separation" for the first 4 months,but decided if I wanted her back in my life even as friends I was gonna have to change and mature, so I simply left her alone to work on myself and heal and let her heal if she was still hurting or if she just wanted me out for good. after 3 months of no contact I called her and left her a message saying I just wanted to see how things were going for her. I couldn't help it. Now I'm more sure of my feelings than I ever was before, I really like this girl and would do anything to prove myself worthy of
a 2nd chance. So fellow capricorn females, any thoughts? All opinions are more than welcome. and sorry it turns out I did create a long thread. opps :x
What kind of 2nd chance are you looking for?... friendship or a "thing" ?? I believe that's what people call it these days.
I don't know if this is something you should pursue, I would just let her know that there isn't bad blood between you two, and stay friends. I wouldn't get too close knowing how you feel about her, she does have a boyfriend.
Just let her know that things are good between you two, and if the relationship status changes later, she might get in contact with you.
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