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Your Exes
Why do you avoid closure with an ex? I have avoided before, to be honest. If I avoid it, it's because they either don't hear what I have to say, won't accept it's over or it's because I want to avoid the drama.
I assume you are different with them after the relationship ended, but how do you let them know that you're not interested in more? I would tell them that this isn't working and I'm moving on. If I already broke it off and tried to explain, and they keep trying to discuss it, I'll go cold and not respond to their calls and texts.
Do you ever find that they want more? If someone wants more than I did in the relationship, it doesn't really matter to me. No matter how much they want, if I don't, then I'm not going there and it's not going to happen. I won't be guilted or pushed into continuing a relationship I'm no longer interested in. Sure, that probably comes across cold, but really, why should anyone be forced into a relationship they don't want.
- unless I've completely misinterpreted the question.
I assume you are different with them after the relationship ended, but how do you let them know that you're not interested in more? I would tell them that this isn't working and I'm moving on. If I already broke it off and tried to explain, and they keep trying to discuss it, I'll go cold and not respond to their calls and texts.
Do you ever find that they want more? If someone wants more than I did in the relationship, it doesn't really matter to me. No matter how much they want, if I don't, then I'm not going there and it's not going to happen. I won't be guilted or pushed into continuing a relationship I'm no longer interested in. Sure, that probably comes across cold, but really, why should anyone be forced into a relationship they don't want.
- unless I've completely misinterpreted the question.
Posted by truecapThis. It's just some.peolle.try too hard and try to manipulate us back into t he relationship. Ive gone cold before bcuz they just couldn't accept.
Why do you avoid closure with an ex? I have avoided before, to be honest. If I avoid it, it's because they either don't hear what I have to say, won't accept it's over or it's because I want to avoid the drama.
I assume you are different with them after the relationship ended, but how do you let them know that you're not interested in more? I would tell them that this isn't working and I'm moving on. If I already broke it off and tried to explain, and they keep trying to discuss it, I'll go cold and not respond to their calls and texts.
Do you ever find that they want more? If someone wants more than I did in the relationship, it doesn't really matter to me. No matter how much they want, if I don't, then I'm not going there and it's not going to happen. I won't be guilted or pushed into continuing a relationship I'm no longer interested in. Sure, that probably comes across cold, but really, why should anyone be forced into a relationship they don't want.
- unless I've completely misinterpreted the question.
Thank you for your replies!
My Cap has an ex fling that still texts him after 2.5 years. He doesn't respond, but also doesn't tell her to stop. Essentially going cold. He'll tell me about it and say "she's not a threat".
My Cap has an ex fling that still texts him after 2.5 years. He doesn't respond, but also doesn't tell her to stop. Essentially going cold. He'll tell me about it and say "she's not a threat".
Posted by SunMoonStarsIf he's ignoring her and telling you about it, then believe him. She's not a threat. He can't control what she does. He's doing the only thing he can do and that is ignore her.
Thank you for your replies!
My Cap has an ex fling that still texts him after 2.5 years. He doesn't respond, but also doesn't tell her to stop. Essentially going cold. He'll tell me about it and say "she's not a threat".
He may have told her to stop, before but she didn't listen.
My Cap broke up with me after I basically pushed him to it and blocked me for 1.5yr while he dated someone else (a Taurus girl) he came back to me msging me etc and we're now together (as exes) but he still has her. I know without a doubt he will say whatever she wants to hear in order to keep the peace when it comes to me. She also very accepting of ANYTHING he does. As apparently it may seem I am now also, boy is he having his cake and eating it LOL!
If a Cappy isnt getting everything he needs from 1 woman he will take another to fulfill his needs of whats missing I think. And I think they will stick by a woman who is fiercly loyal but missing other certain aspects, its as if he feels safest with someone who wont give up on him no matter what he does, but they will walk all over you if you're not strong enough.
Posted by SunMoonStarsHe may enjoy the feelings of validation from her still messaging him. Did it end badly? Why doesnt he block her?
Thank you for your replies!
My Cap has an ex fling that still texts him after 2.5 years. He doesn't respond, but also doesn't tell her to stop. Essentially going cold. He'll tell me about it and say "she's not a threat".
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Why do you avoid closure with an ex?
I assume you are different with them after the relationship ended, but how do you let them know that you're not interested in more?
Do you ever find that they want more?