Is my love life doomed? Bad saturn aspects!

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I have my saturn in 7th house aquarius. Isn't the most romantic aspect I reconned... And above that I have my venus, mars and jupiter in 1st house in Leo. So opposing my saturn. Not the best aspect eighter for a flourishing love life.

Usually I'm a really optimistic person and loves life (even If I found it really hard also most of the time). I have my ascendant in Leo, Sun in Gemini and moon in Pisces. Life Isn't easy but I love it. And love and relationships are the most important thing in my life no question about it. So I felt kind of miserable when reading about all my difficult saturn aspects and I wonder if you could help me to interpret this? Is my love life doomed? Or how can I interpret it in a more constructive way?

Soon time for my saturn return, i hope that some things will settle into place.

Love from me!
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Posted by Mesquite

I think I would take it as love teaches you important life lessons.

Reflect on how all your relationships does far have ended and see if anything can be changed on your side.


Thanks a lot. Love have definately teached me a lot in this life. Its almost ridiculous. Thanks for your input.

Love and relationships have been my biggest struggle my whole life. And Ive totally taken on the lessons and transformed my whole family-relationships to the better. Absolutely transformed my way in connecting with others. It's been exhausting. And I hope I will get some rest in this matter soon. I just hope that it will not haunt me for my whole life, these struggles. But as you said, it might mean its my biggest teachers, love and relationships.
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Posted by geminae

I have my saturn in 7th house aquarius. Isn't the most romantic aspect I reconned... And above that I have my venus, mars and jupiter in 1st house in Leo. So opposing my saturn. Not the best aspect eighter for a flourishing love life.

Usually I'm a really optimistic person and loves life (even If I found it really hard also most of the time). I have my ascendant in Leo, Sun in Gemini and moon in Pisces. Life Isn't easy but I love it. And love and relationships are the most important thing in my life no question about it. So I felt kind of miserable when reading about all my difficult saturn aspects and I wonder if you could help me to interpret this? Is my love life doomed? Or how can I interpret it in a more constructive way?



Soon time for my saturn return, i hope that some things will settle into place.

Love from me!

There is hope. My husband has the same. His 7th house in Saturn. But we met. Mine was venus in 7th house but in Retrogade. It basically balanced each other out. Although it took time for us to find each other but it happened anyway. Saturn return is tough BTW. But remember that what's meant for you, won't pass you by. So hang in there. Be patient. Things will get better.
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Thanks a lot for your lovely hopeful answer ❤️
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Posted by Generous_Libra

I have this placement too saturn in Sagittarius in the seventh house, so there's always sth I should learn from my RS with someone, I try not to take it seriously and just enjoy my life like said above what's meant to be it'll be. If relationships are not for me I'm just gonna accept that and let go.


yeah thats true! Whats meant to be will happen. Easy to forget that sometimes. Relationship might not be for everybody. Though I know deep down in my core that relationship and love is of the outmost importance to me! Maybe thats why i got the 7th house in saturn. And also Aquarius. I have some big lessons to learn concerning relationships, to break old karmic patterns of relationships in my family history. That might be one way to interpret saturn in 7th house.

But maybe we should focus on other things in life and let life give us lessons when we're ready for it. Sometimes I have so much trust and sometimes i worry about the future...!