Two most incompatible Chinese signs?

This topic was created in the Chinese Horoscopes forum by bottomfeeder on Monday, March 3, 2008 and has 53 replies.

Most Incompatible Chinese Zodiac Signs

Dragon and Dog are considered highly incompatible due to differing personalities and values. Other pairs like Snake and Pig or Monkey and Tiger are also seen as challenging. Compatibility varies based on individual traits, but these signs often face difficulties in harmony and understanding.

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@xross_S
18 Years

something i felt like sharing!!
I'm a Ox
While my closest sister was an Goat

During my youth, as she was 6 years older than me..
we always quarrel.. but after my 18.. we'r very close.. we could even talk about anything!! And i love my sister.

as she was an aries & I'm a Sagittarius!!
pretty amazing haha!

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@bottomfeeder
18 YearsPisces

"I heard Rabbit and Rooster aren't compatible."

Rabbit is considered roughly equivalent to Pisces, and Rooster to Virgo. On that basis, they're opposites.

I'm supposedly compatible with Roosters.. but every single Roster that i've met so far has seemed a bit cracked to me.

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@lovable_pisces
17 Years

Horse and monkey is the worst combination I have ever seen. My dad was a horse and my mom was a monkey. It was constant fighting, totally different beliefs and just total mayhem. They had no compatibility at all.

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@CancerKitten
21 Years500+ Posts

I'm a rabbit but I find myself liking signs like rats and roosters a lot.
The only reason I ever seem to see about why Rabbits don't get on with them is cause they are blunt or critical and Rabbits are too sensitive.

I get on really well with their western counterparts sagittarius and virgo though

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@Heatherhap
15 YearsVirgo

I am a DRAGON!(virgo) I have been with a rat which we did not get along that well and from what I was told about another he was a snake...That was something worth while it was his other sign that made the difference.

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@Heatherhap
15 YearsVirgo

I forgot to mention Dragon and ox are said not to be good for one another...Rabbit and Snake are said not to be. Snake and Tiger are said not to get along well either.That happens to be interesting since those two types really seem to work well with one another parcel at least. Dragon and Snake are said to get along but I have met people that think differently and I know other wise since I've known alot.I'm not thinking very well about the others even though I know them it's just not the most important thing at the moment...When I remember the rest I will post them.

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@michaelfish
16 YearsTaurus

"I forgot to mention Dragon and ox are said not to be good for one another...Rabbit and Snake are said not to be. Snake and Tiger are said not to get along well either.That happens to be interesting since those two types really seem to work well with one another parcel at least."

One text i read suggested that the Tiger is pretty much potential enemies with everyone.

Rabbit and Snake incompatibility is a new one on me.

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@Heatherhap
15 YearsVirgo

If those are new ones on you guys than maybe it's because those are older versions of compatibility of Chinese astrology...The newer ones were very unusual for me although if that's how it's meant well ok.

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@zeoblade
15 Years500+ PostsVirgo

sorry i cant see where i said no one likes snakes. just pig and snake have few successful relationships

i'm sure you are pretty, now i am curious haha

dont hold negative energy inside, there are probably many desirable features about you, just other people need to see it. doesnt mean its not there

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@Mistery
19 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Scubafish

Posted by Mistery
I choose to ignore chinese astrology mainly for the fact that I'm a horse engaged to a rat.

Wow, I am a Horse and my ex is a Rat.

Do ya'll fight a lot about stuff?

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Been married for a year and it's bliss. I also seem to attract a lot of Rat friends too and have no problem getting along. Actually like them a lot. My rising is Tiger so don't if that's it.
I'll stick with Chinese astrology is a bunch of hooey. πŸ˜›

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

My mother is a rabbit and I'm a rooster. We always argue. Even though she makes me angry all the time, there are moments when we have emotion-based conversations and understand each other very well. I think this is a case of 'we're similar to each other, so we don't get along'.

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@LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide
14 YearsScorpio

OMG...the Dragon and the Dog is the worst combo ever. I'm a Water Dog who married a Fire Dragon and people who were into Chinese astrology warned us and I sure wish I listened. He had the biggest Ego on the planet and was just an evil manipulative prick with the best luck I've ever seen lol.

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@TaurusBadGirl
14 Years500+ Posts

Chinese Horse and Rooster have a lot of passion between them. This passion can turn into a nice foundation that leads to a long happy life together. Rooster is a bit of a perfectionist and tends to be rather pessimistic. They will take care of Horse the way Horse wants to be cared for. They may tend to be a bit of a nag, though when things are not running perfectly. Horse is far from a perfectionist and they tend to lose interest in things quickly. They can help each other. Horse can get Rooster to take it easy and enjoy life. Rooster can offer stability to Horse.

In business, Horse will need work that keeps them interested. Rooster is excellent at financial management and all practical aspects of the business. Horse is a hard worker and will be very resourceful.

When this pairing consists of a Rooster man and a Horse woman, his feelings of inadequacy make him suspicious of others. Her outgoing nature will be challenging. She doesn't like jealousy. She thinks it is an insult. He can't help it thoughis natural misogynistic tendencies show through even though he tries to hide them.

Virgo male (Rooster) Taurus female (horse)πŸ™‚

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by lovable_pisces
Horse and monkey is the worst combination I have ever seen. My dad was a horse and my mom was a monkey. It was constant fighting, totally different beliefs and just total mayhem. They had no compatibility at all.

Wow, you're mother was a monkey and your dad was a horse.
No wonder they were incompatible. - sorry, just sayin'

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by lovable_pisces
Horse and monkey is the worst combination I have ever seen. My dad was a horse and my mom was a monkey. It was constant fighting, totally different beliefs and just total mayhem. They had no compatibility at all.

Wow, you're mother was a monkey and your dad was a horse.
No wonder they were incompatible. - sorry, just sayin'

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@DolphinSaver
13 Years

Horse and Rat are the worst!

The sex was fun because she was a runway model but then after we had sex she was a run away model..

Ok that's not a good reason I just wanted to say that.

But yeh... Horse and rat no good!

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@ars89
13 Years

im a dragon and mother is a dragon and my is a DOG. i mean his sign is Dog. he hates everything we do

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@TigerCap
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by raerain
Snake and Tiger?

I have quite a few Snake female friends even dated one for a while. They're definitely seductive women but there isn't enough tension.
I understood that and we kept going as friends but I can certainly see why in some cases both can get frustrated by one being very high-strung and fighting all the time and the other slithering away from any issues.

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@bkbella86
15 Years5,000+ PostsAries

Posted by TigerCap

Posted by raerain
Snake and Tiger?

I have quite a few Snake female friends even dated one for a while. They're definitely seductive women but there isn't enough tension.
I understood that and we kept going as friends but I can certainly see why in some cases both can get frustrated by one being very high-strung and fighting all the time and the other slithering away from any issues.

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you mean sexual chemistry?

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@TigerCap
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by TigerCap

Posted by raerain
Snake and Tiger?

I have quite a few Snake female friends even dated one for a while. They're definitely seductive women but there isn't enough tension.
I understood that and we kept going as friends but I can certainly see why in some cases both can get frustrated by one being very high-strung and fighting all the time and the other slithering away from any issues.

you mean sexual chemistry?

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Surprisingly not. My experience is that they tend to want to take it slow so sex and sexual tension doesn't even seem to register with them.
You could say they are great for people who love the shy gorgeous virgin act. πŸ˜†

Tiger and Monkey works very well in my experience but only if the Tiger can tolerate the attention and offer support all the time and when Monkeys can be more independent. There is a reason why they say Monkeys cling.

I'm saying this because my girlfriend is a Cancer Monkey and with me being a Capricorn Tiger we are opposites in both our western as well as our Eastern sun signs. But it works really well. πŸ™‚

A long time ago I had a Scorpio Monkey friend and that bond was insane. It blew up but man, I still think about it from time to time.

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@Fire_Tiger
11 Years

I am a Tiger (female) and these are my experiences with other signs.

If I find out the guy is a Snake, this is almost guaranteed to be bad news. Every experience I've had with a Snake has turned out poorly. Obviously, I know we can't lump all signs as exactly alike, but going by my experiences there is definitely some truth in the whole Tiger/Snake incompatibility thing. I'm a very fiery, open person and the snakes I've met have had a sly, manipulative streak to them - very cool and calm, but there's a lot of head games there. Snakes also tend to get a kick out of winding me up. Also, they are not particularly exciting lovers - a bit too sensual and soft for my liking.

Another sign I don't get along with are the Ox guys - there's always some kind of power struggle there. They don't like me and I don't like them.

I've been with a couple of Tiger guys, but they are not my favourite sign either. Too brash, massive ego, easily hurt, over-sensitive and can't keep his **** in his pants. Penchant for being unfaithful. Not interested in that nonsense. (No offence to any Tiger men here, again, this is just my experience). They're exciting enough, but that's about where it ends. Totally unreliable and I much prefer someone calm, laid-back and steady, with their heads screwed on.

With regard to signs I do get on with - horses and I take an immediate liking to each other, so in this sense, traditionalists have got it right. We have great conversations. Nothing much by way of a serious relationship, but definitely great company. I'm also very fond of dog people (again, they got this right) as they don't try to challenge/dominate me too much and they tend to respect me as an individual - as a result, I admire and respect them back.

Last but not least - I love the rabbits. Actually, rabbits are my favourite sign out of all the animals. They're usually hospitable, charming, tidy people who make excellent hosts and have a tendency to submit - they don't like conflict and I like this. My best friend is a rabbit and we get on brilliantly. I'm also fond of goats and pigs - these three animals tend to be quite peaceful and easy to get along with. No nonsense, no drama, just nice peaceful sailing.

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@Fire_Tiger
11 Years

Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^^^^^^^^ it's lovely how you add yourself to dxp to put these words of experience here.

I always check the chinese board. It's nice to see someone who has thoughts on this chapter.

Thank you! I came across the boards and wanted to add my two cents as it's quite an interesting topic of convo! πŸ˜„

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@biosynthesis
11 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Posted by xross_S
something i felt like sharing!!
I'm a Ox
While my closest sister was an Goat

During my youth, as she was 6 years older than me..
we always quarrel.. but after my 18.. we'r very close.. we could even talk about anything!! And i love my sister.

as she was an aries & I'm a Sagittarius!!
pretty amazing haha!

I'm a goat/ram/sheep and I have to say this dynamic is shockingly accurate. Since Ox is my opposite sign, at first I think we rub each other the wrong way, but I really like oxes actually. My inner companion is also an ox, so maybe that helps.

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