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It makes me sad to see so many people dislike geminis on here. I'm not really sure what kind of reputation proceeds us, but I've never noticed this problem in actual society. I understand that we have flaws, but I also see that same balance with other signs. So what makes us so easy to hate? Predominately, I've heard that gemini woman are sluts. Honestly, I'm 22 and I've been with five guys. I waited until I was a month from 18 before I finally settled with a wonderful scorpio/sag cusp. I date a lot, but I've only had three relationships. I've always hated the idea of casual sex, but recently I picked up a casual relationship. This is because I wanted that kind of connection with someone I trust, but I was at a point in my life where I couldn't deal with the hurt.

From all the other gemini woman's comments on here, I see myself as the closest to fit that "slut" definition because of the latter. Even still, one woman's social dilemma doesn't exactly qualify an entire group of gemini woman as sluts. Is it because we're flirty? 😛 Words don't mean shit. More often than not they're used as a fun game and nothing else. Surely that isn't what its based off of?

Another thing I've heard fairly consistently is that gemini men are cheaters. I haven't known very gemini men, but the two I know now are married to two of my close friends. Incidentally, my cancer friend was the one confiding in me when she started to cheat on him because of his obsession with porn. Something tells me this is a pattern because my leo friend had the same problem with her husband. Both of their husbands give them so much room to grow though, and forgave them more easily than either thought they would.

I understand that there are those who will give every sign a bad name, but it seems so much more common to read something negative about a gemini on here. Is it just something that sticks out to me more because I see my own sign, or does anyone else agree with this being a far to common an occurrence?

I would LIKE to believe that this Gemini is a champion for Gemini's. Why? Because I eat muthafuckas, that's why. Especially people who try to run that "game" on me. More so, I'm a Chi_Town, Black, South Side, MoFo, Fine Piece of Leather, Very Well Put Together, with The Mind of A Champion....... MoFo. Ya Damn Skippy!! 😄

well, there, take that world.

who put pepper in your coffee today, GM?

Posted by roamingfree
well, there, take that world.

who put pepper in your coffee today, GM?

HaHa!

I can't speak for all Geminis but with me I know most people I meet in real life have a strong reaction to me one way or the other. Most people like me a lot instantly but every once in awhile I meet someone (usually a woman) who dislikes me immediately. When people bash geminis I pretty much stick with my motto...If it doesn't apply, let it fly.

Posted by Sickleesweet

It makes me sad to see so many people dislike geminis on here. I'm not really sure what kind of reputation proceeds us .....

Perhaps, you could look at the responses here and make the determination that it's because Geminis don't care about others. If no care is in place about others, then this is why they aren't cared for back.

We just don't care about evil people like you. Wherever you go there's always darkness.

P-"Angel" is not worthy of a Gemini's love. See above.

Usually it's the people who have had their heart broken by a gemini or someone they like/love showed interest in a gemini over them. That's all it takes for them to then despise an entire sign of people. Pretty much the same behavior exhibited in grade school lol.

I dont even bother reading all shit written about gems here.I know gems are hard to understand and those who understand gems would never write such bullshit about them.

all signs have potential of cheating...lol not specifically any one "sign" ("gemini") i mean bill clinton was a virgo..which are loyal signs...guess what yeah enough said haha. yeah but then again you had john f. kennedy but i highly doubt its because of his zodiac sign he cheated.

i'm a dog person. i think cats are adorable wish i could have one but im really allergic to them I see most geminis like cats. Come and go as they please, take care of themselves, come back and woo their owners (people in their life) with great communication skills when they need something. Leave on their own terms and come back. Just like cats its ON THEIR TERMS. SOUNDS horrific? well guess again. then you have those group of cats that just love being with their owners, they are sweet and attentive and love greeting people. In order to even survive as a pet owner of a cat, you cannot really expect that your cat will come save you during a hostile situation, they'll just hide and peek. the only thing you can count on is that cat will attack if ITS being the center of danger. (so improvise throw the cat in danger to set yourself free..but AH! you see the rest of us can't be like a gemini!) You cannot put so much emotions and wants from a cat then a dog. Ignore the cat, give it some attention (petting) here and there. give some food. and forget it. NO i mean really forget the fucking cat. don't try to trick the cat in wanting you more..it aint gonna happen. The cat wont even care if you forgot about it..just so long it gets what they need and want from you. food and water. Sometimes cats go off exploring in the garden..end up outside the house the down the street then in a completely different state because it hopped on a truck. "curiosity kill the cat"...don't be so curious about it...just let it be. and accept. THAT is another reason why geminis are hated. they really just dont give a shit. Why people hate that? because they don't have the skill to just not care and be SANELY happy.

at the end...getting a cat means less responsibility. more freedom. easy to care for and love. the cat will love you back by just being around STILL..looking at u with their big mysterious eyes. Everyday has a different glaze on them...right when you want to kick them out and get a dog, you say no. i just love you... hey cats aren't for everyone. CHEERS.

on a side note, i want to add... if i wasn't so allergic to cats i would get one. They'll love me and accept me for just the way i am bad and good. A dog will whine and bitch about why you dont throw a freaking squeaky toy across the room or whimper when your not home. EVERYONE just get a effin cat. you wont regret it. if it gets lost remember this its nothing personal. if it stays.then you know you can condition it overtime to become a catdog. 🙂

I wouldn't piss on P-"Angel" if her hair was on fire.

IMAO,All the Gem gals I know are deep down looking for true love.They aren't afraid to move on,instead of seeing if the frog does turn into the prince.When they do love,they love hard.They are all very sentimental,when they feel like it.They test and tease,if a guy can keep up, and juggle her expectations ,then he's on the short list.Everyone else is kept for sport.If they don't know it,that's their problem and the ones who do,are not exactly begging to leave either.

One Gem gal I knew,went to this one party and talked about different aspects of if at different times,so folks thought that she had being going out alot.It was one great party.

I have some great Gem friends.They know ALL the best news,if not ,by the next time I talk to them,they will be up to speed.We can talk about anything and everything.They have a great sense of humor. They are ready to speculate what those other folks have left out and between the two of us,we can figure what it most likely is.Most of the time we don't even have to talk in full sentences.

Gem women are the best strategists in the world.I've done some of my best planning with Gems and when the plan is excuted,it is a thing of beauty.

Gem guys can talk about everything as well and they are always ready for an adventure.I'd say,hey wanna go and they'd say sure.They are great people watchers and interested in all sorts of things.Gem's have the ability to fit in anywhere and talk to anyone.

And p.s.if a person makes the cut,they are totally loyal.How much more does one need?So twin powers activate.....

Posted by VulcanLass
IMAO,All the Gem gals I know are deep down looking for true love.They aren't afraid to move on,instead of seeing if the frog does turn into the prince.When they do love,they love hard.They are all very sentimental,when they feel like it.They test and tease,if a guy can keep up, and juggle her expectations ,then he's on the short list.Everyone else is kept for sport.If they don't know it,that's their problem and the ones who do,are not exactly begging to leave either.

One Gem gal I knew,went to this one party and talked about different aspects of if at different times,so folks thought that she had being going out alot.It was one great party.


And p.s.if a person makes the cut,they are totally loyal.How much more does one need?So twin powers activate.....

THANK YOU for taking time to understand us =). Honestly, as far as friendship goes, I'm totally open to any and all people being on my list. The cuts only happen for intimate relationships 😉.

😢 And p-angel, I do care! I'm sorry gems have made you feel that way. I'm sorry that my apologies can only ever be words to you since you'll never know me in real life. My sister is a pisces and we do have a lot of communication problems. We show our love in such a polar opposite way. Pisces/gemini relationships are hard to keep up because of that, but she's my big sister so I've grown to learn its worth it.

Anyway, 😄 seeing some gem love makes me feel a little better.

Posted by GeminiDahl
Usually it's the people who have had their heart broken by a gemini or someone they like/love showed interest in a gemini over them. That's all it takes for them to then despise an entire sign of people. Pretty much the same behavior exhibited in grade school lol.

Oh yeah, I can identify that a lot of times and try to overlook those comments. I can understand that. On some of my worst days I catch myself slipping into that mindset. Lol just gotta know it for what it is to stop it I guess.

Posted by Sickleesweet

And p-angel, I do care! I'm sorry gems have made you feel that way. I'm sorry that my apologies can only ever be words to you since you'll never know me in real life.

I have no clue why you apologized, nor why you talk about knowing you in real life. What does your real life have to do with what you wrote about Geminis on dxp?

btw .. I never stated how Gemini's make me feel ... so I don't know what you are referring to.

Here's a suggestion .. instead of taking personally something that was never stated to be my personal feelings, why don't you instead try to 'get' what I said, which was ....


.... look at the Geminis who responded to your question, there is your answer.

".....Everyone else is kept for sport.If they don't know it,that's their problem...."

I get that you Gems operate on a different plane of communication or whatever you call it, but unless you TELL the other person you are just keeping them for sport I can see how this causes misunderstandings.
Great if both parties are just out for sport, but try not to use people who are looking for something genuine.


Had to laugh at the OP's cancer friend who cheated in response to her husband's porn addiction....did they ever consider getting together and maybe having a shag—

lolz@shag


but...we are nice people. You know, honestly, I don't know of one Gem who really would keep someone just for sport and not let them know about that. We are not conniving.

...just like to point out that VulcanLass started the reference to sport.
A non-Gemini may not be automatically aware they are being used for sport and it would be of great assistance if people would be a little more honest and forthcoming with information along the lines of "I am just using you" or "I don't like you but you are a good root"

This would ensure everyone is 100% clear on where they stand. And of course it is far more sporting!

Of course it would probably halve the traffic on the Gem board....there would be no chicks writing "hey - what have I done to my Gem guy?" because they would know the guy hates them and just wanted to use them. For sport. Or sex, whatever.

I have a Gemmy girlfriend who is one of the best people on the planet (and one of the hottest!) and I know she would never cheat or connive. Great poster girl for you Gems.

Let me clarify.I was talking about random guys drooling at Gem's feet!Any guy can stay and worship,but that doesn't get them anywhere. Some guy actually told my friend,he'd drink her bath water.Uhmm,do we see him in the picture?Nope,not in the background either. Anyone can be used used by anyone.If you can keep up with the wit and wordplay,you'll know exactly where you stand with Gems.

P-A, love, I'm apologizing for those who have given you that bad experience, and I'm talking about "real life me" because you'll never have the chance to meet someone to prove that outlook wrong! At the same time, I understand why others respond so negatively to you. They've had bad experiences with you. So, the cycle continues with no one around patient enough to show and correct the misunderstanding.

However, I don't believe you're evil. Only misguided!

On another note, 😄 yes I've joked with the cancer and leo friend about them "hooking up" before. They both think the similarity is too close for comfort, lol.

Four years ago she spoke on her emotions all of the time. Now, she thinks she has answers. She's got jack.

I know she can say some pretty horrid things, but we shouldn't take out her misdirection on her. At the risk of sounding preachy (lol forgive me),😄 We should show her our true colors. Its easy and human nature to defend ourselves in the same way; IE, an eye for an eye, fight fire with fire. I know our sign isn't know for our patience, but working on our weaknesses is worth it.

WE know how caring and generous we are, but she has no clue unless we show her. 😛 Therefore, I'm sorry you've known no better. Please let me show you the truth.

lol ^-^ And you're an ass, but you're an entertaining ass

Posted by SunGem20
@SS; I am on board with that idea, unfortunately she will only use it against us....I have seen other Gems try that tactic, it just gives her an opportunity to stamp on you. I feel she is to old and set in her ways.

I'm not sceered lol. I don't take it to heart because I truly believe what I said. I can honestly say that I believe she's been misguided from someone not on par as a human being period, much less a gem standard 😉!

Posted by THEKingofLibra
I have other body parts you might find enjoyable

😉 Oh you dirty libras, don't make me have to blush!

lol! Sungem

Actually I think thats what his goal is!

Posted by SunGem20
Most definately wronged by someone..havent we all been there at some point in or lives.. One needs to learn to direct that anger at the right person. Not at people u dont know anything about. Not to many Gemini men on here I noticed..I think GM is the only one?

😛 I've noticed a lot of gem men that come and go, but GM is the only one that stays and talks a lot. The rest are probably too cool to hang out with us 😆!

Posted by Sickleesweet
P-A, love, I'm apologizing for those who have given you that bad experience, and I'm talking about "real life me" because you'll never have the chance to meet someone to prove that outlook wrong! At the same time, I understand why others respond so negatively to you. They've had bad experiences with you. So, the cycle continues with no one around patient enough to show and correct the misunderstanding.

However, I don't believe you're evil. Only misguided!

On another note, 😄 yes I've joked with the cancer and leo friend about them "hooking up" before. They both think the similarity is too close for comfort, lol.

Oh Sickleesweet you are evil!!!! I meant the cancer girl bonking her porn addicted husband. Instead of her going out and cheating while he sits at home getting the keyboard all sticky.....why not get together and combine their interests!!!!!

I think my sense of humor doesn't translate very well here😢


**Norcalman is a guy - always a good sounding board when you need an opinion from the male perspective.

Posted by Sickleesweet

P-A, love, I'm apologizing for those who have given you that bad experience, and I'm talking about "real life me" because you'll never have the chance to meet someone to prove that outlook wrong!

I have no idea what you are talking about. I've never had a bad experience with a Gemini.

Meet you to prove me wrong about what?

Again ... I never spoke of my feelings, I told you to look at the responses from Gemini's to find your answer.

Is that ^^^^ typing out in chinese or something? Because I don't know how much more straight to point I can get with you ... and you aren't seeming to understand english.

*hugs P-Angel* 😄 I see and thank you for your advice.

@RNAP 😆 lol!! Oh, my bad! Well, they've actually both tried that first and sometimes it worked other times =/. From what they related to me I gathered it was just strenuous on their self-esteem. 😛 Isn't self-esteem the number 1 issue couple counseling address?

To be honest, Cancer's husband has gotten better at treating her the way she deserves and Leo's husband has just gotten better at hiding it (IMO) 😛.

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Posted by Sickleesweet

P-A, love, I'm apologizing for those who have given you that bad experience, and I'm talking about "real life me" because you'll never have the chance to meet someone to prove that outlook wrong!

I have no idea what you are talking about. I've never had a bad experience with a Gemini.

Meet you to prove me wrong about what?

Again ... I never spoke of my feelings, I told you to look at the responses from Gemini's to find your answer.

Is that ^^^^ typing out in chinese or something? Because I don't know how much more straight to point I can get with you ... and you aren't seeming to understand english.

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LIAR!

Posted by Sultanaa
MMMwwwwwaahhh.. I love you guys... each and every one of you... *and pulls RNAP into a tight bear hugggg* 🙂 love you sweets, how have you been?

I know i know, its taking me forever to reply to your sweet email, but i'm just toooo busy everyday... i had moved again,.. this time to MO and in the process of getting myself an apartment... hence did not really take the time to write back. 🙂... how have you been? hows life goin on at your end? i know i'm not too much on here and havent really followed you or anyone that i'd love to stalk around in this place much, these days 😛... but do stay your sweet self as well as my sweet lil rammy ... mwwaahh (and yes heres another round of hugs for youuuuu)

*shouts out to misslissa, LeebLuv, gemsra, gizmo and the rest as well* aww, i really miss hangin out with you ladyzzz! 😢 🙂 mmwwaahh

You have been missed! 😢

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Posted by GeminiDahl
Usually it's the people who have had their heart broken by a gemini or someone they like/love showed interest in a gemini over them. That's all it takes for them to then despise an entire sign of people. Pretty much the same behavior exhibited in grade school lol.

thats wrong i come from 4 gemini exes and despite i dont like them, i know there are good gems too... like brother and best female friends... 😄

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My point was that people who don't like Geminis at all usually feel that way because they were hurt by a gemini. You don't dislike geminis so what I wrote doesn't apply to you.

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Posted by GeminiDahl
Usually it's the people who have had their heart broken by a gemini or someone they like/love showed interest in a gemini over them. That's all it takes for them to then despise an entire sign of people. Pretty much the same behavior exhibited in grade school lol.

thats wrong i come from 4 gemini exes and despite i dont like them, i know there are good gems too... like brother and best female friends... 😄

My point was that people who don't like Geminis at all usually feel that way because they were hurt by a gemini. You don't dislike geminis so what I wrote doesn't apply to you.

but ive been hurt by them myself...

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But you don't hate all Geminis because of that, and that's the difference. I have been hurt by a Libra, but I don't dislike all Libras or paint all libras with the same brush.

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Posted by Sickleesweet

P-A, love, I'm apologizing for those who have given you that bad experience, and I'm talking about "real life me" because you'll never have the chance to meet someone to prove that outlook wrong!

I have no idea what you are talking about. I've never had a bad experience with a Gemini.

Meet you to prove me wrong about what?

Again ... I never spoke of my feelings, I told you to look at the responses from Gemini's to find your answer.

Is that ^^^^ typing out in chinese or something? Because I don't know how much more straight to point I can get with you ... and you aren't seeming to understand english.

LIAR!

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Indeed 🙂 She's lying. Her first husband was a Gemini and the things she has told about him dont exactly give me the impression of someone who was having a great time.

let them hate it wont stop anyway, Gem's keep doing what u doing :-)

its cause we dont pay attention to people who we dont value,
but eveyone else is right too. we are just a hard us to some people. cause we mature late in life. lol

most people just think we are players or sluts cuz we have a flirty personality and we look good.
and we are full of our selfs lol