@Leosquad
9 Years
Marry the person that makes you ask yourself "what can I do to make his day better" and reciprocates.
Posted by blackphase
I thought you weren't even sure if you really liked the guy? Why are you even thinking about marriage?? Just get to know the guy.. If you put the pressure on yourself from the get go when meeting people that they have to be the one you marry, it will be very difficult for you. Get to know someone and think about that stuff later. I mean it should take years of being with someone before you make a decision like that anyways. Don't stress yourself out 🙂
Clearly, I'm in a very confused state! Haha.
The reason why I'm asking is because, I am at the age where my parents want me married off at a certain age. I'm not at that age where i can play games.
Let me explain the current situation, it may help understand why I said all of the above. So i'm currently trying to get over an Aries guy who refused to see the truth and stand for me where he should of done. This guy really really broke my heart and soul. Since then I've not really felt anything for a long time. What I mean by that is I don't feel happy, Sad angry, i just don't feel anything.
So after a month and a half after deleting the arian, this Gemini i've known for a longgg time pops up out of the blue, immediately says that he's attracted to me. Now, I didn't know how to react to it.I felt like it was too immediate for me to just move on so quickly. He's really hot and cold. One minute he's so into me and then i think because i didn't know how to take it he changes his mind. See this is sort game i refuse to play. See I don't want this guy or any guy to be the sole reason of my happiness. I want to find happiness within myself
first - and he can be an addition to my happiness.
I mean I know i have loads more people to meet, i just don't think i can afford to let my heart be broken again.
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Okay i'm not sure if I really like him, but he gives me a whole new different vibe.
I've always gone by the saying 'don't marry the man who gives you butterflies, or makes you heart beat really fast. Go for the guy who makes you feel safe'
I've also just read that Marriage isn't the right decision. But i want someone to prove me wrong.