Aquarius sun, Gemini moon & Gemini Rising-should I break my long term relationship with Scorpio? :/

Hi everyone! Thanks for reading.

I'm 29 years old. I'm an Aquarius sun, Gemini moon and Gemini rising. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. He is a Scorpio sun, Capricorn moon and cancer rising.

Believe me when I say that I was well aware that our signs should not work according to astrology. But I believed that any couple could work if they love each other enough and put in the effort. For the most part, all has been well in our relationship. In the beginning, I had my occasional outburst due to his lack of communicating. But he treats me better than any man I have ever been with. I can trust him whole heartedly and he would do anything for me! He makes it known that he wants us to be together forever.

Up until now, I didn't get close to a male enough to build a friendship/connection with them. But now I've become friends with a guy who shares the same traits/interests as I do. I know I have suppressed my craving for deep conversation in my relationship and just accepted the fact that I won't get it. So instead of bringing it up to my boyfriend, I just do my own thing when we are at home. I become very bored at times and I hardly want to be sexual anymore. :/ Now I have met a man who shares the same interests as me - intellectual conversation, ideas, wisdom. He is a Gemini sun but I don't know his other signs.

I'm not asking if I should leave my long term boyfriend specifically for this Gemini man because we are no where near a romantic relationship. I am faithful. but it's got me thinking about the long haul...i worry that I won't be able to keep this up for the rest of our lives. I'm worrying that the longer the relationship, the more devastating it will be if I meet another man more similar to me and fall in love with them.

Lately, I find that I am thinking about the Gemini allllllll the time. I always want to talk to him and find out more about him. My mind is saying that I will leave the Scorpio at some point because i can't stay unsatisified forever, but the other part of my mind is scared to throw away a stable relationship and the best partner I have ever had.

Have any of you ever been in this sort of dilemma? Any advise is appreciated. XO



"I and me are always too deep in conversation"

Im sorry for you girly. And I feel for you. Im very loyal to my relationships as you clearly are! I am not in a long term relationship bc I havent been as lucky to meet a man who's ready to commit to me YET. But I have been in your shoes.

I'd say if you really want to preserve your relationship you should probably pick up some new hobbies for yourself. FIRSTLY. And then in time maybe find some new hobbies for you and your boo to connect on.

If your Gem man has no other motives maybe you can bring him around to a bbq or something. I dont know if you moons and risings are like the suns. But I am an organizer at my core. Im always throwing a party bc Im great at it!

I always say that there is no partner who can meet all your needs.Can you call on this person in your hour of need and they come running? And can you work out any issue with this person? Then you're doing hella betetr than many married people.

Good look. Gem sis!

Posted by RioAbajo
Im sorry for you girly. And I feel for you. Im very loyal to my relationships as you clearly are! I am not in a long term relationship bc I havent been as lucky to meet a man who's ready to commit to me YET. But I have been in your shoes.

I'd say if you really want to preserve your relationship you should probably pick up some new hobbies for yourself. FIRSTLY. And then in time maybe find some new hobbies for you and your boo to connect on.

If your Gem man has no other motives maybe you can bring him around to a bbq or something. I dont know if you moons and risings are like the suns. But I am an organizer at my core. Im always throwing a party bc Im great at it!

I always say that there is no partner who can meet all your needs.Can you call on this person in your hour of need and they come running? And can you work out any issue with this person? Then you're doing hella betetr than many married people.

Thank you so much! You are so right and I'm going to start planning a new hobby. Hopefully I can meet new people and satisfy my craving for conversation.

Yes, I can call on my boyfriend for anything without a doubt! As for working out our issues, we do, but it's more like I'll just eventually drop it. Because our ways of thinking are completely different and we don't seem to get anywhere. We just move on and stop talking about it. So I'm not sure if that's a healthy way to handle issues or not ?

I really appreciate your suggestions girl 🙂 ♥️

@Aqua_Jewel In my opinion you'll never ever be happy with an emotionally fucked up secretive Scorpio even though you are ready to sacrifice for him what you love - intellectual communication. Don't waste your time, life is precious. But be careful, he will become possessive the moment you tell him you are leaving and can do revenge and harm to your and to your Gemini, they find pleasure in doing that. But I can tell you'll be happy and content with a Gemini in the long term.