Are Gems prone to feeling attraction earlier

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by gemini64 on Tuesday, July 19, 2011 and has 10 replies.

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@gemini64
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on/and or believe a man is attracted to them more so than other signs?

the reason i ask is this. throughout my experiences in dating/being around guys, I've often sensed a chemistry between certain guys and myself. and i feel this early on. i think partly because i'm not afraid to engage anyone in a conversation and i have a natural sense of humor that comes out when I feel comfortable around someone, especially a man. I have always connected with guys in general because of my affinity for and participating in sports. But I think it goes beyond that. It's like it's so natural, but I can't explain it.

I've asked other signs if they had the same type of experiences and do they often sense an early on attraction/chemistry or does it take them more time? several of them said it's because Gems "always" feel an attraction when someone interacts with them etc. One even said this goes back to Freud's theories that every thought/feeling/action is founded in sexual origins,
and Gems are more "tuned in" when it comes to this than other sign. She even said Gems will always retain a youthful demeanor compared to other signs. Not sure why that is, but found it intriguing. Although I just turned 47, I get compliments on how great I look for my age. Well I think that's a compliment anyway. 😉

BTW, I'm happily married, just had our 13th year anniversary the on 17th. But I have a lot of male friends and of course, meet some interesting guys at the gym. I often read this board and think there's some great insight posted.

So tell me what you think....Are Gems more prone to feeling attraction early on/and or believe a man is attracted to them more so than other signs? Do we (gems) have a harder time discerning between actual attraction for us over just a mutual interaction?

of course i'm coming from a female POV. it would be interesting to hear any male Gems POV as well.

thanks!

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@Danigurl13
16 YearsGemini

I know exactly what you're talking about. I have always felt the same thing and wondered if other signs go through the same attraction very early on or if it was just me.

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@roamingfree
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

we communicate. it's easy to find out faster if chemistry is there or not. besides, who with some brain can resist a Gem? 😉
I hit it off instantly with Leos, Libras, Pisces (gawd knows why? gah!) Taurus's, Aquas and Sags. Other Gems irritate the heck out of me sometimes. Not all though.

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@Whimsy
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When I meet someone, I attempt to establish a rapport right away. I'm paying very close attention to body language, eyes, and energy, so that I can adjust what I'm saying to establish a better connection. If there's a flicker of attraction in their eyes, I'm going to notice it. Maybe that's why Gems are used to people being attracted to them. Humans are sexual beings, so, if you're paying attention, you can see that flicker of attraction in most anyone...whether they intend to act on it or not.

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by roamingfree
we communicate. it's easy to find out faster if chemistry is there or not. besides, who with some brain can resist a Gem? 😉
I hit it off instantly with Leos, Libras, Pisces (gawd knows why? gah!) Taurus's, Aquas and Sags. Other Gems irritate the heck out of me sometimes. Not all though.

Stop it stop it you guys.
I got blasted on here a while ago for moving too fast (or whatever)(and I wasn't)
so whaddaya'll want? Fast or slow?

I always figgered if you know you just know and you run with it. Why waste time? Life is precious.

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@Whimsy
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LOL! We're confusing.

Well, knowing someone's attracted doesn't mean we're interested. When you've been perfecting charming people since birth, it's not a strange thing for people to be attracted. It doesn't mean there will be a connection.

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by Whimsy
LOL! We're confusing.

Well, knowing someone's attracted doesn't mean we're interested. When you've been perfecting charming people since birth, it's not a strange thing for people to be attracted. It doesn't mean there will be a connection.

Yes you are!!

Is your puppy not growing or is that full size??