Aries men...

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Posted by roamingfree
well...what do you think? would you go out with one?

I have a bad experience with an Aries/Taurus cusper...but I will not bunch all men in one pot just because of one jerk...

so... would you?

he's 45, April 9. and I'm 38...seems like a nice space in age.

we barely just met and he's asking me out.



"RF" May B this will help U know a little about him
He's in the second decan of Aries!

The second, Leo/Sun decan of Aries The second, Leo decan of Aries with rays from the Sun pictures a very noble individual whose principles, aims and ambitions remain intact in the most trying circumstances. They are single mindedly focused, yet can retain the big picture. Ego can be a problem here, and the general self-righteousness of Aries has acquired a dash of pompousness too. While these are not always apparent traits, there is somewhere quite a reservoir of smugness and self-celebration. These people are generous and great at inspiring others in what they believe in. Their mentality is eager and forceful, yet more patient than the typical Arian. Thoughts carry more weight, and actions more flair and drama than is usual, but they also hurt easily and have a very sensitive spirit, for in spite of their confidence, well-being and self-respect depends much on the approval of others.

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Posted by roamingfree
well...what do you think? would you go out with one?

I have a bad experience with an Aries/Taurus cusper...but I will not bunch all men in one pot just because of one jerk...

so... would you?

he's 45, April 9. and I'm 38...seems like a nice space in age.

we barely just met and he's asking me out.



"RF" May B this will help U know a little about him
He's in the second decan of Aries!

The second, Leo/Sun decan of Aries The second, Leo decan of Aries with rays from the Sun pictures a very noble individual whose principles, aims and ambitions remain intact in the most trying circumstances. They are single mindedly focused, yet can retain the big picture. Ego can be a problem here, and the general self-righteousness of Aries has acquired a dash of pompousness too. While these are not always apparent traits, there is somewhere quite a reservoir of smugness and self-celebration. These people are generous and great at inspiring others in what they believe in. Their mentality is eager and forceful, yet more patient than the typical Arian. Thoughts carry more weight, and actions more flair and drama than is usual, but they also hurt easily and have a very sensitive spirit, for in spite of their confidence, well-being and self-respect depends much on the approval of others.

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fits him perfectly...he's retired Military turned Fire Fighter Capt.
we get along fabulously...but why the rush for that Ram with dating after barely speaking 3 times? lol
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Posted by roamingfree
well...what do you think? would you go out with one?

I have a bad experience with an Aries/Taurus cusper...but I will not bunch all men in one pot just because of one jerk...

so... would you?

he's 45, April 9. and I'm 38...seems like a nice space in age.

we barely just met and he's asking me out.





we get along fabulously...but why the rush for that Ram with dating after barely speaking 3 times? lol
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Because he likes YA 😄 Air and Fire is a nice "combo" And i think he sees
a real Woman in that Gemini body...Plus U 2 get along that's even better
and adds 2 the Attraction between U 2!!!
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I just got done with an Aries man. He, on the other hand, is not done. He is crazy about me, but also very independent.

I love him! He's one of my favorite human beings on Planet Earth. So inspirational. positive and complex at the same time.

I would say, go for it! What have ya got to lose? 🙂

Aries & Geminis go great together. Fire & Air! Always a fun loving combo.

Also, the 7 yr. age gap is compatible in the chinese zodiac.
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Posted by roamingfree
well...what do you think? would you go out with one?

I have a bad experience with an Aries/Taurus cusper...but I will not bunch all men in one pot just because of one jerk...

so... would you?

he's 45, April 9. and I'm 38...seems like a nice space in age.

we barely just met and he's asking me out.



OMG...Hey Roam! Where have you been, young lady? 😛

Back to your question...Exactly, you can't lump them all into one bowl. Yes, there will be some similar characteristics, as with all signs, but of course, there are other factors to consider. So, why not hang out with him? It's just a date...it's not marriage. Go have fun!

Luv ya girlie, and it's good to see you around these parts... 😄
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I've been laying low, and just concentrating on myself... you know...but here comes that Aries man and we shall see...I'm kinda talking to a Sag as well...seems more fun to me...idk...lol...I'll just cruise through this, go out on a date and not commit until that seems like the best idea.
lol

I miss you, too. 🙂
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I'm a Gem and I'm also dating an Aries. My husband (now deceased) is, at first glance, the opposite of my current Aries. Where my Cap husband appeared cold, somewhat serious, and wickedly sarcastic, my Aries is enthusiastic, fun loving and outgoing. My Aries has a naive quality that is quite a foil to my husband's innate cynicism. Aries looks at the world with the wide eyed innocence as the "infant" of the zodiac; Cap casts a jaded eye on humanity, expecting the worst, but trudging ahead regardless (and winning the war eventually).

But, once those layers are peeled back, they actually had a lot in common. They're both extremely ambitious, hard workers, won't take no for an answer, and dominant (I know it's not pc to say it, but I prefer men with a dominant streak. Notice I did not say controlling. There is a difference).

My husband and BF were "do-ers" and not "talkers", which may be related to their cardinal nature. Never a day passed by where my husband did not spend time working towards achieving his goals. When one mountain was scaled, he'd start to ascend another. My Aries is the same way; he will never coast through life. Resting on his laurels is not in his vocabulary.

I love my Aries forthright approach to all areas of his life. When we met, he didn't waste time sizing me up, researching me, or sending his friends my way to figure me out. He walked right up to me and made his intentions known. He says he thought he was being subtle, but I don't think that's possible for an Aries. When they fall in love they want to shout it from the rooftops!

I wasn't ready to date anyone when we met, as I was still mourning my husband, but Aries said he was a patient man and I'd be his eventually, lol. We we friends first, and didn't begin dating until later. So, he was right again!
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We're a good pair, because, like my husband, he encourages me to push past obstacles and pursue my goals to fruition. At times, if we encounter roadblocks en route to our goals, we Gems can get discouraged and give up, jumping to something new. He has helped to coax me out of giving up, rubbing off some of that infamous Aries tenaciousness on me.

On the flip side, as someone mentioned, they do have rather large egos. My BF does have a tendency to toot his his own horn, sometimes to his detriment. When we worked together, this annoyed other employees, which resulted in resistance to his directives. I believe that this is why he was passed up for promotions. Our upper level managers ended up choosing to promote candidates that were worthy, but more modest about their successes. Personally, I believe Aries work best when they are the Captain of their own ship, so to speak. They do well when they own their businesses, not so much when they have to be a part of a team where they do have authority to execute their ideas.

Though, another thing I respect about Aries leadership is that they will never ask you to do something that they wouldn't do, or haven't done. They're not "do as I say, not as I do" types. My BF did eventually start his business, and he will roll up his sleeves and work just as hard as everyone else. He is not the "lord of the manor" who wants to dictate from an ivory tower.

I won't say that Aries is a sign that doesn't cheat, because I think every sign is capable of it. However, I do believe that Aries would not be able to keep the ruse for long. Subterfuge is not their strong suit.

So, I say go for it!
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Brag a little on yourself - they like confidence even slightly tipping to arrogance.
Keep him waiting as long as possible - he'll lose interest quickly if you guys rush the physical.
DO NOT try to make him jealous even inadvertently.
Wear red if it suits you - they like the flasy.

Aries men rock, but they come with a force to be reckoned with. Stand your ground and give him a little fight. He's the first born and terribly spoiled. He values what he has to fight for, to work hard for....

BESTSEXEVER.YES.EVER.

If you're into lustly, hot, passionate, mind blowing sex.
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Posted by ShopClass
He has helped to coax me out of giving up, rubbing off some of that infamous Aries tenaciousness on me.

*Aries = your own personal built in cheerleader


On the flip side, as someone mentioned, they do have rather large egos. My BF does have a tendency to toot his his own horn, sometimes to his detriment. When we worked together, this annoyed other employees, which resulted in resistance to his directives. I believe that this is why he was passed up for promotions. Our upper level managers ended up choosing to promote candidates that were worthy, but more modest about their successes.

**I have found the opposite - Aries not blowing their own trumpet and getting passed over by folk with less ability but better at the bullshit thing. Obviously everyone knows of different examples, but it has happened to each of my Ram friends now that I think about it.


Though, another thing I respect about Aries leadership is that they will never ask you to do something that they wouldn't do, or haven't done. They're not "do as I say, not as I do" types. I won't say that Aries is a sign that doesn't cheat, because I think every sign is capable of it. However, I do believe that Aries would not be able to keep the ruse for long. Subterfuge is not their strong suit.

***Not saying we are all dumb or anything, but once you start lying you have to keep remembering the lie and surely it is easier to just stick with the truth in the first place? Aries - keeping it simple.
*****We love you. We love sex. We love it with YOU. When you are on a good thing stick to it. Lets leave the cheating to the flaky signs and let me at you. NOW.

So, I say go for it!

I second this😉