ARIES MEN WITH GEM? ADVICE?

Maybe I can help on this board. I posted this on the Aries Boards..please advice. Thanks

I was currently seeing an Aries male. Make a long story short, his sitaution makes us hard to continue the relationship and/or friendship. I just need an advise, cant shake him off my head and I am frustrated. Have known him a year or so as a friend; and just a couple of months ago he pursued me HARD, the Aries way. Had a great time with him; he texted, called on the regular, day and night. I seen him almost every day. It was awesome. The down fall? He has a girlfriend and a kid with her. He tells me that it is over with them, and he did not feel for him, shes crazy and only reason why he stayed is because of the child. Mind you this guy was head over heels for Me, would tell me all the good stuff etc. blah blah..sometimes sounded too good to be true. Always made time for Me whenever work did not get in the way. Again awesome! possibly the best man i have ever met in my life.. we had everything in common. Some things happened, and he pulled the disapparing act. Guess he decided to stay with his Damsel in Distress, she put alot of pressure on him and she was not about to go down without a fight. He decided that we should just be friends, I dont feel it was the right thing for me, so i told hin i cannot be friends with him and have not been in contact with him ever since. I miss him terribly! but i am not the one to chase him, gave him his space and off I go.... here is our natal chart. I would like to know or get some advise on how this Man will go about all this, i know he liked me alot..not a day went by that he did not tell me he missed me, or thinking of me and if the situation was different; I would be his girlfriend in a heart beat.. Guess we met at the wrong time

HIS CHART:
SUN- ARIES
MOON- SAG
MERCURY- TAURUS
VENUS- PISCES
MARS- CAP
JUP- SAG
SATURN- TAURUS
URANUS- LIBRA
NEPTUNE- SAG
PLUTO- VIRGO
LILITH- VIRGO
ASC. NODE- AQUA

MY CHART:
SUN- GEM
MOON- GEM
MERCURY- GEM
VENUS- CANCER
MARS- LEO
JUP-CANCER
SATURN- LEO
URANUS- SCORPIO
NEPTUNE- SAG
PLUTO- LIBRA
LILITH- CANCER
ASC. NODE- LIBRA

THE GIRLFRIENDS CHART:
SUN- LIBRA
MOON- AQUA
MERCURY- SCORP
VENUS- VIRGO
MARS- SAG
JUP- VIRGO
SATURN- LIBRA
URANUS- SCORP
NEPTUNE- SAG
PLUTO- LIBRA
LILITH- LIBRA
ASC. NODE- LEO

THANK YOU GUYS just looking for some great advice

Posted by BrightLights
I just wanna say that you abd I have identical chart, except for my moon is in Leo.

But otherwise, it's amazing. I've never met someone with same chart as me, lol!

As for your situation, I didn't read it all. I'll read it after work.

P.S. I love Aties men too — —

thank you .. and any advise is appreciated

anyone?

I'm not a Gem or and Aries, however I did date an Aries for about 6 years, as well as pro-crate a child with him. From my experience with my ex- Aries it was horrible. He lied, cheated and always made it sound like he was a victim to every new naive girl he used. He would never leave me to be with someone else, instead he cheated. He gave them some sad story, that I was this horrible person that made him stay in the relationship and he would make up other random story's so the new naive girl would feel sorry for him. Master manipulator he was.

To be honest, I'm surprised that I stood with him as long as I did and the only reason it ended was because I walked away. He ended up being in a relationship with the last girl he cheated on me with, but that didn't stop him from still trying to pursue me, over and over again (with us Aqua's, once we're done, we're done).

I might not be the best person to give advice on Aries men, however I would honestly try to understand her point of view because I seriously doubt you want to be in her shoes. I know for a fact my ex never changed and the last girl he cheated on me with, took my place and he does the same thing to her.

Posted by anjiepants
omg gems and aries together...... recipe for disaster

Really? Because most astrologist say that aries and gems are very compatible. I don't understand that, because I think that it's a recipe for disaster, also.

Posted by anjiepants

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by anjiepants
omg gems and aries together...... recipe for disaster

Really? Because most astrologist say that aries and gems are very compatible. I don't understand that, because I think that it's a recipe for disaster, also.

air and fire usually go well together ...but sometimes they can cause combustion. I think the aries would get tired of the Gem's hot and coldness

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Oh ok.