Bar Stars? Gem trait?

How many of you gems are bar stars? Seems to go with the personality of all the attention required! lol My bf USED to be one. Oh the things you discover as you get to know each other. Feel odd dating one, as I consider barstars not necessarily cool, but what do I know? I lock myself in a room with a canvas for fun!

what is a bar star?

Bar Star

A guy or girl that goes to clubs or bars at least once a week. Usually bar stars are found at clubs every Friday and Saturday night. They dress in sexy clothing to attract others for one night stands or short lived relationships. -Urban Dictionary

Lots turn into players too. Life of a party boy/girl!

I had my days in the bar too, loved dancing but to avoid getting hit on I would go to gay bars with my aqua gay bestie. Good times for sure!

I still love to get my dance on, but the atmosphere can be too much for me most of the time. Less crowds is better for me.

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How many of you gems are bar stars? Seems to go with the personality of all the attention required! lol My bf USED to be one. Oh the things you discover as you get to know each other. Feel odd dating one, as I consider barstars not necessarily cool, but what do I know? I lock myself in a room with a canvas for fun!

I used to hit the clubs very often but not for free drinks... Just to dance. Im a redbull gal. I don't bother to socialise in clubs.... Isn't bar star a derogatory term?

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Didn't mean it that way. It was the exact term I heard someone describe my bf. "He was a bar star back in the day" I think I'm just curious as to what it means to you guys. Me, a clubber that loves dancing with various outcomes of their social experience.

PS. Stars are always amazing!!! 😉

I think it did bother me at first, but I know he's about dancing and being social. The drinker partyer slut part doesn't really belong to his personality, so it's fine. I had a bad experience, but no sweetheart should have to pay for that! Plus all he wants to do now is cuddle up at home or have friends down once in awhile.

Still interested in your comments though.

Yeah I think I'm getting the best of him. Seems like he's learnt some lessons and about himself. I have too which it why I can't judge, and the knowledge almost allows me to appreciate more.