How do you know if a Gemini is inlove with u?

Posted by Azadeh
I hv a pretty interesting story. I hope you will enjoy it and give me some helpful feedback.

I currently work in a foreign country, of arabic origin. Im in a creative field and l hv a management position. My boss, who is younger with 6 years than me, is the Gemini l will tell you about and need your opinion.

First, l thought he is gay. Im coming from a European country but im muslim and not married. Neither is he. I didnt pay attention too much to.him, at the beginning. Im very professionally focused. Im an Aquarius female, by the way. I have big prejudices about Arab men and especially l know their opinion about foreigners. But I'm also Muslim. And very though tongued. In the first month he asked me out for a coffee and l really smashed him with a very tough rejection telling himnl dont need babysitting or for him to spend time with mevjust because hevfeels pitty lm alone in a foreign country. We hv a very sarcastic, funny playful but tough comversations on watsapp but keep it very professional in work. We punch each other really hard. I consider him a spoiled rich boy and told him many times in his face a lot of stuff..very bluntly. He told my collegues he likes this about me. I always hv the impression he cant look me directly in the eye and he bites his lip or looks smiling at me. I feel his weird looks on me sometimes. Sometimes he tries to be warm and sometimes very cold and distant. So, l act exactly the same. One day he told me im very cold in our texting. I said..who wants me to be nicer, he will find a way to make me nicer. He repeated my words nodding. He is accusing me im cold as ice and i need a psichyatrist to overcome my cold attitude. But his texting is so sarcastic and like cutting knives, too..very short..very to the point. He is used to women pulling his arm for attention and run after him. Im never gonna do that. I surprised him looking at me many times ..but he is very serious very distant, otherwise. He is in a very stressgul situation right now, l hv to add. I feel there is something more to this story..there are some energetic connections under. But i donno if im right. We work very well as team members. He supports my ideas or pushes me..knows how to give me a direction, very good teamwork. A lot of times he knows how to handle my hotheadedness. He always gets my back or supports my opinion. When l wanna take a vacation, he gets very irritated and tells me we hv work to do..where im going...why l need so many days. I feel like he is gelous but looks very cool and distant. Im very confused. I donno what he wants from me. I really dont know if he is into me or not?! He always always teases me and laughs at me and l asked him "am l a clown?" And he said its a goodvtjong that he laughs..with any subject. Calls me a drama queen all the time teasing. Its annoying. What is your opinion? Am l hallucinating that he has a crush or its true?

Hmm well I once dated a Gem who was Muslim as well... seems as though he likes you but maybe looking for reassurance from you... do you know his other placements? What's yours?

I think you can tell if a Gemini is into you by the little smirks with a softness to them.. I think if you see that softness where they kinda melt for a second that's when you know. Look for body language facing you, especially their feet... see if they look up when you come around.

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Posted by Moonbutter
I think you can tell if a Gemini is into you by the little smirks with a softness to them.. I think if you see that softness where they kinda melt for a second that's when you know. Look for body language facing you, especially their feet... see if they look up when you come around.

I think you know more about us than we do haha.

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Haha well I'm quite partial to ? having dated 3 and befriended many.

Posted by LiveAndLove
Well, I can't speak for Gem guys but I get more shy and awkward talking about my feelings the more I care about someone.

That prob goes for guys too... ?

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I think you can tell if a Gemini is into you by the little smirks with a softness to them.. I think if you see that softness where they kinda melt for a second that's when you know. Look for body language facing you, especially their feet... see if they look up when you come around.

I think you know more about us than we do haha.

Haha well I'm quite partial to ? having dated 3 and befriended many.

I remember you and the one at work flirting a lot, did you ever figure that all out?

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Oh yeah...we've been hanging out 😉

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Posted by Moonbutter
I think you can tell if a Gemini is into you by the little smirks with a softness to them.. I think if you see that softness where they kinda melt for a second that's when you know. Look for body language facing you, especially their feet... see if they look up when you come around.

I think you know more about us than we do haha.

Haha well I'm quite partial to ? having dated 3 and befriended many.

I remember you and the one at work flirting a lot, did you ever figure that all out?

Oh yeah...we've been hanging out 😉

Aww, that's really good to hear. I'm happy for you 🙂

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Thanks ? I'm just glad we had a breakthrough because for whatever reason maybe cuz it was at work and I couldn't escape...I was physically effected and started getting depressed and not eating like wtf. I just like being there for him emotionally and he likes being coddled so it works haha.

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I think you can tell if a Gemini is into you by the little smirks with a softness to them.. I think if you see that softness where they kinda melt for a second that's when you know. Look for body language facing you, especially their feet... see if they look up when you come around.

I think you know more about us than we do haha.

Haha well I'm quite partial to ? having dated 3 and befriended many.

I remember you and the one at work flirting a lot, did you ever figure that all out?

Oh yeah...we've been hanging out 😉

Aww, that's really good to hear. I'm happy for you 🙂

Thanks ? I'm just glad we had a breakthrough because for whatever reason maybe cuz it was at work and I couldn't escape...I was physically effected and started getting depressed and not eating like wtf. I just like being there for him emotionally and he likes being coddled so it works haha.

Yeah I can imagine it being more difficult meeting someone at work and developing feelings for them. I've never met anyone that way I really fell for, and I'm sure it has its pros and cons 🙂 I'm glad it's working for you both though, it sounds like you compliment each other well and that's an amazing thing ❤

I only drove my Cap ex to and from work a few days a week and he'd ask me to stay sometimes, but that's a completely different kind of situation. And now he's back in my life confusing me to no end lol.

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Yeah he was driving me mad in a not so good way lol. So your Cap ex he wants back in?